laylah (1000+ posts) Tue May-12-09 06:52 AM
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2. hello elleng
i am in the quad cities area, on the illinois side. thanks for responding.
Oh shit.
I lived there for almost 40 years....there is lots of help available if she really wanted it....what a liar. The doctors are not that expensive either, I'm sure some are, but not all of them....maybe she does not know where to look?
Plus if her insurance is that good, he should also earn a good wage....but of course, she might be drinking up the pay check.
At least she admits he has a problem, and I do honestly pray that she gets the help she needs. DUmmie or no DUmmie, this is still something I am sensitive to.
laylah (1000+ posts) Tue May-12-09 02:01 PM
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6. Thank you all so very much,
and yes, Droopy, I get your drift Another reason, no excuse, but a true reason, is I have isolated myself so much since I left my kids, friends, husband, et al of 30 years, 8 years ago. I call it my menopausal moment. Forgiveness of self is what I need first and foremost, along with a good mental health doc, a sponsor, and AA.
You folks rock!
It's sad that she is crying out for help, where no one would ever help her, even if they lived next door.