I used to live in Sacramento Ca. which was a cesspool when I left in 1989. Now it's even "better".

Where I live now, I can drop off my daughter for her ballet lesson and head up the road 3-4 min so I can fish for trout.

Our whole town population is, I think, 20k people?
We don't have street lights, or sidewalks on the side roads (main road does, but we roll it up at night).
My daughter has left every bicycle of hers out in the front yard...........not one stolen.
My Aunt visited 2 years ago (she lives in Chula Vista/San Diego Ca) and freaked. Seriously. She coulden't handle the no sidewalks, lights etc. She coulden't sleep that night, too dark, too quiet. It was really wierd how "citified" she was.