- it clearly has always been a patriarchal world that contains monsters, all through history
Of course it has. Genuine Men have been and will be the providers and protectors of the fairer sex until the end of time. And Genuine Women have appreciated and will continue to appreciate it it, equally until the end of time.
The monsters you speak of, are the ones that think they know better than mother nature.
You can rail against biology all you like, and try to program society counter to how it works, but you will fail every single time, in the long run.
No matter how you try to convince the gullible, no matter what words you use, no matter what order you use them in, You can't convince yourself or anyone else into being something other than what they are. You can only lie to them, confuse them, pressure them, or otherwise convince them to act like it for nothing more than the purposes of your own political gain.