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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
« Reply #25 on: August 24, 2008, 10:04:34 AM »
I checked out DU.

After about an hour of reading there, I came to the conclusion that most of them are in need of some sort mental health counseling.

If you read that place long enough it will be YOU that needs the therapy.
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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
« Reply #26 on: August 24, 2008, 10:16:18 AM »
"Rising Phoenix", based on what a brief perusal of its DU postings, REALLY needs to take a break from the internet. They are one ****ed up camper.

One needs to remember that Rising Phoenix is the poster formerly knows as Mrs Sniffa - a secondary search under that moniker will bring you an avalanche of references. The whole situation that led to her current situation is pretty much posted on DU and it is a big hearty bowl of messed up. At times I feel bad for her.

Anyway - I agree, a break from all of the internets would do her a world of good - especially sites like DU.

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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
« Reply #27 on: August 24, 2008, 10:57:29 AM »
Damn good find Chris. And I didn't know that was the former Mrs. Sniffa. Explains a LOT.

I wonder how much of our tax dollars go to these therapy sessions that the members of DU seem to hate?
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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
« Reply #28 on: August 24, 2008, 11:04:25 AM »
I think 100% of her problems would be solved by kicking Sniffa and Bibaby in the balls. :hammer:  Well that and massize doses of Thorazine.
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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
« Reply #29 on: August 24, 2008, 12:54:07 PM »
I think 100% of her problems would be solved by kicking Sniffa and Bibaby in the balls. :hammer:  Well that and massize doses of Thorazine.

Or, just a massive dose of 00 buckshot from a 12 gauge.
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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
« Reply #30 on: August 24, 2008, 05:10:32 PM »
This shit can be linked to that Universal Healthcare bouncy. Healthcare isn't free. SOMEONE has to pay for it. The ONLY things in this country that should be free are the things that do NOT take from others. You need a doctor, he has to spend his time and experience treating you. Oh, the government pays for it? They get their money from ME.

Look DUmbasses, from what I've read of you idiots, you're all a buncha Damn hypochondriacs who will break the ****ing system. Get off your lazy asses and do for yourself. "I" don't owe you a ****ING thing nor does anyone else. You were born. Step up to the Damn plate or put a bullet through your ****ing head.  :censored:

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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
« Reply #31 on: August 24, 2008, 05:14:10 PM »
H5 man.
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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
« Reply #33 on: August 24, 2008, 05:52:53 PM »
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You SO do not understand the "Entitlement Generation," Reb.  You are born and the world owes YOU.

Didn't your mama and papa teach you anything?  Oh wait, if you are like most of us, your mama and papa taught you that you have to WORK to get things. 

I guess they were suckers, just like you, me, and almost everyone on this board.
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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
« Reply #34 on: August 24, 2008, 07:09:34 PM »
I think 100% of her problems would be solved by kicking Sniffa and Bibaby in the balls. :hammer:  Well that and massize doses of Thorazine.

Or, just a massive dose of 00 buckshot from a 12 gauge.
Or something I would like to see just about all of the DUmp use as a source.  :-)

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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
« Reply #35 on: August 25, 2008, 07:45:45 AM »
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sfexpat2000  (1000+ posts)       Sat Aug-23-08 05:55 PM
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19. I'd put that therapist on probation for using punishment
 where communication would work.

But, I'm not qualified to give medical advice.

It's not punishment ya dumbass, it's called a "contract", and your fellow DUmmy violated it. Clients like this have to come to the realization that behavior has consequences, and the world does not stop and start at their whim. By validating their behavior, you're part of the problem by feeding into their neurosis.

Which is exactly why this person's therapist told them to stay the **** away from you.
That's exactly what I was thinking dandi. We can assume the therapist figured out that DU is a huge trigger for this dummie. So you remove the trigger you remove or shorten whatever episode this dummie may happen to be in.....in other words...common sense! :lmao: :cheersmate:
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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
« Reply #36 on: August 25, 2008, 08:00:06 AM »
Since liberals like to put warning labels on everything, mostly because they're to stupid to take care of themselves, maybe the DUmp should carry a warning label?

"WARNING, DUMPING MAY BE HAZARDOUS TO YOUR MENTAL HEALTH"
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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
« Reply #37 on: August 25, 2008, 08:07:39 AM »
DBT?

This?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dialectical_behavioral_therapy

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Dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT) is a psychological method developed by Marsha M. Linehan to treat persons with borderline personality disorder (BPD).[1] Research indicates its application to also be effective in treating patients who represent varied symptoms and behaviors associated with spectrum mood disorders, including self-injury.[2] Key elements DBT practitioners emphasize include, behaviorist theory, dialectics, cognitive therapy, and, DBT's central component, mindfulness.

There are two essential parts of the treatment, and without either of these parts the therapy is not considered "DBT adherent."

   1. An individual component in which the therapist and client discuss issues that come up during the week, recorded on diary cards and follow a treatment target hierarchy. Self-injurious and suicidal behaviors take first priority, followed by therapy interfering behaviors. Then there are quality of life issues and finally working towards improving one's life generally. During the individual therapy, the therapist and client work towards improving skill use. Often, skills group is discussed and obstacles to acting skillfully are addressed.
   2. The group, which ordinarily meets once weekly for two to two-and-a-half hours, learns to use specific skills that are broken down into four modules: core mindfulness skills, emotion regulation skills, interpersonal effectiveness skills and distress tolerance skills.

http://www.palace.net/~llama/psych/dbt.html


....and you DUmbasses think conservatives are the ones with problems.  :whatever:

Are ALL of you ****ing nuts? Nevermind, rhetorical.
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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
« Reply #38 on: August 25, 2008, 08:23:48 AM »
DBT?

This?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dialectical_behavioral_therapy

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Dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT) is a psychological method developed by Marsha M. Linehan to treat persons with borderline personality disorder (BPD).[1] Research indicates its application to also be effective in treating patients who represent varied symptoms and behaviors associated with spectrum mood disorders, including self-injury.[2] Key elements DBT practitioners emphasize include, behaviorist theory, dialectics, cognitive therapy, and, DBT's central component, mindfulness.

There are two essential parts of the treatment, and without either of these parts the therapy is not considered "DBT adherent."

   1. An individual component in which the therapist and client discuss issues that come up during the week, recorded on diary cards and follow a treatment target hierarchy. Self-injurious and suicidal behaviors take first priority, followed by therapy interfering behaviors. Then there are quality of life issues and finally working towards improving one's life generally. During the individual therapy, the therapist and client work towards improving skill use. Often, skills group is discussed and obstacles to acting skillfully are addressed.
   2. The group, which ordinarily meets once weekly for two to two-and-a-half hours, learns to use specific skills that are broken down into four modules: core mindfulness skills, emotion regulation skills, interpersonal effectiveness skills and distress tolerance skills.

http://www.palace.net/~llama/psych/dbt.html


....and you DUmbasses think conservatives are the ones with problems.  :whatever:

Are ALL of you ******* nuts? Nevermind, rhetorical.

Wonderful !......now explain to me what all that BS is supposed to mean.
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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
« Reply #39 on: August 25, 2008, 08:28:06 AM »
Wonderful !......now explain to me what all that BS is supposed to mean.

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my therapist told me to quit DU
 Advertisements [?]also.....as I was in the hospital for a few weeks.....I missed two DBT groups, I then missed one because my masshealth ride never showed......out of my control......missed last week, because I went on vaca ( which sucked) but I had told her about that absence months ago.....I am now on probation, must do extra work and write an apology to the DBT group for my absensee.......If I don't they won't treat me at all.....I was told when I joined DBT I could quit at anytime......when I tried to quit they told me they would not treat me at all if I didn't partake......
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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
« Reply #40 on: August 25, 2008, 08:35:40 AM »
REBEL---I meant explain the following BS.

Dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT) is a psychological method developed by Marsha M. Linehan to treat persons with borderline personality disorder (BPD).[1] Research indicates its application to also be effective in treating patients who represent varied symptoms and behaviors associated with spectrum mood disorders, including self-injury.[2] Key elements DBT practitioners emphasize include, behaviorist theory, dialectics, cognitive therapy, and, DBT's central component, mindfulness.

There are two essential parts of the treatment, and without either of these parts the therapy is not considered "DBT adherent."

   1. An individual component in which the therapist and client discuss issues that come up during the week, recorded on diary cards and follow a treatment target hierarchy. Self-injurious and suicidal behaviors take first priority, followed by therapy interfering behaviors. Then there are quality of life issues and finally working towards improving one's life generally. During the individual therapy, the therapist and client work towards improving skill use. Often, skills group is discussed and obstacles to acting skillfully are addressed.
   2. The group, which ordinarily meets once weekly for two to two-and-a-half hours, learns to use specific skills that are broken down into four modules: core mindfulness skills, emotion regulation skills, interpersonal effectiveness skills and distress tolerance skills.


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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
« Reply #41 on: August 25, 2008, 08:48:36 AM »
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my therapist told me to quit DU
 Advertisements [?]also.....as I was in the hospital for a few weeks.....I missed two DBT groups, I then missed one because my masshealth ride never showed......out of my control......missed last week, because I went on vaca( which sucked) but I had told her about that absence months ago.....I am now on probation, must do extra work and write an apology to the DBT group for my absensee.......If I don't they won't treat me at all.....I was told when I joined DBT I could quit at anytime......when I tried to quit they told me they would not treat me at all if I didn't partake......

So much stupid...

1) You've missed 4 DBT groups by my calculation. Two, then one (excuse made) , then "last week" ... yet you think you are still worth "treating" ? Do ,me a favor and  :censored: :censored: yourself.

2) You complain that if you don't show up for treatment , then they won't treat you. Not being able to figure out the logical disconnect there is ****ing insane and anyone that is even close to rational knows it.

3) If you quit the program are you not indicating that you don't want treatment. Complaining that they don't treat you when you've withdrawn from treatment is ****ing insane.

Excuse the language.


 
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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
« Reply #42 on: August 25, 2008, 09:09:43 AM »
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Rising Phoenix  (1000+ posts)      Sat Aug-23-08 04:47 PM
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my therapist told me to quit DU
 Advertisements [?]also.....as I was in the hospital for a few weeks.....I missed two DBT groups, I then missed one because my masshealth ride never showed......out of my control......missed last week, because I went on vaca( which sucked) but I had told her about that absence months ago.....I am now on probation, must do extra work and write an apology to the DBT group for my absensee.......If I don't they won't treat me at all.....I was told when I joined DBT I could quit at anytime......when I tried to quit they told me they would not treat me at all if I didn't partake......

So much stupid...

1) You've missed 4 DBT groups by my calculation. Two, then one (excuse made) , then "last week" ... yet you think you are still worth "treating" ? Do ,me a favor and  :censored: :censored: yourself.

2) You complain that if you don't show up for treatment , then they won't treat you. Not being able to figure out the logical disconnect there is ******* insane and anyone that is even close to rational knows it.

3) If you quit the program are you not indicating that you don't want treatment. Complaining that they don't treat you when you've withdrawn from treatment is ******* insane.

Excuse the language.


 

It is the perfect example though of DUmmythink..
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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
« Reply #43 on: August 25, 2008, 10:15:24 AM »
After the wiki explanation I'm assuming DU is considered 'therapy interfering' because like Toast and others said earlier it constantly triggers episodes for this individual. Basically this DUer knows that forum is a trigger and willfully sets it off every time against he better judgement of his/her therapist. DUers like this one seem to forget that's what therapy and treatment is all about if it is working--you will hear things you won't like to here and suggestions that are going to take you out of your comfort zone. That's the whole point of therapy to get you either past those things or to give you the tools you need to navigate life and trigger issues. The therapist is there to help you see the things you can not or refuse to see/address like well that DU is maybe not healthy for you in your present mental health situation.  :thatsright:

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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
« Reply #44 on: August 25, 2008, 10:17:36 AM »
After the wiki explanation I'm assuming DU is considered 'therapy interfering' because like Toast and others said earlier it constantly triggers episodes for this individual. Basically this DUer knows that forum is a trigger and willfully sets it off every time against he better judgement of his/her therapist. DUers like this one seem to forget that's what therapy and treatment is all about if it is working--you will hear things you won't like to here and suggestions that are going to take you out of your comfort zone. That's the whole point of therapy to get you either past those things or to give you the tools you need to navigate life and trigger issues. The therapist is there to help you see the things you can not or refuse to see/address like well that DU is maybe not healthy for you in your present mental health situation.  :thatsright:


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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
« Reply #45 on: August 25, 2008, 11:50:27 AM »
Well the insane person is always the last to find out.

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Re: my therapist told me to quit DU
« Reply #46 on: August 25, 2008, 07:35:55 PM »
This falls on the DUH! Bin.  :thatsright: It does not take a shrink to even know that DU is bad for your mental health. Just going there is enough to make you gouge your eyes out.
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