There is a simple reason that you lost. The American people aren't stupid, sexist, racist, homophobes, xenophobic, deplorable, whatever term the left & media uses to denigrate those who voted for Trump.
You lost because the Dems rely on low information voters. Rush has had it right for a long time. Many on the left care far more about the Kardashians and Caitlin Jenner, also are perpetually offended by any perceived micro aggression, real or completely fake.
Meanwhile, a majority of Americans paid attention to the economy and taking care of their families & loved one. All that other extraneous BS was immaterial. Yet the left STILL doesn't face that reality.