the saga of Big Mo's divorce

[franksolich]

Oh my.

It's an interesting history.

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mopinko (45,140 posts)    Fri Aug 21, 2015, 01:24 PM

well the numbers come down today.
 
meeting w my forensic accountant this afternoon. damn this mess is expensive.

but i will have peace of mind that things are fair. which is all i really want here.

he is threatening to retire early, something i never thought he would do however much he talked about it. but now it would hurt me, so it is a good idea to him.

he is saying he plans to work as long as the kids need support. only one is in college now, but the other 3 either have plans to do so, or at least certainly could and would do great.

i am happy for that, tho he is doing his best to wreck my relationships with them. he is the sugar daddy, and i am the old mom who needs help these days. easy peasy for him.

anyway, we will soon see what i have to give up to keep my farm. glad i broke down and spent the money to get a good detailed accounting. especially since this has dragged on for a year and a half now. he is liquidating assets left and right.

and no, trolls, he does not love me dearly. he has not given me everything. he is an extremely unstable person who has either loved me dearly or hated my guts, depending on the entrails of chickens or something. alignment of the planets. who knows.

classic corner office psychopath. like most of you. except for the ones who are basement psychopaths.

enjoy. 

<<<wonders what Big Mo means, by "basement psychopaths."

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mopinko (45,140 posts)    Mon Nov 23, 2015, 12:09 PM

well the big day is on the calendar.
 
dec 17th should be divorce day. still crossing the t's and dotting the i's on the agreed order, but mostly i am happy with what we have worked out.

i get to keep my farm, and get enough resources to continue to improve it.

i settled for a lower maintenance in exchange for a high property distribution. i should be able to invest enough of that into real estate to make up for the difference within a couple years. will pay off existing mortgage on the 2flat that i am getting, and should be able to buy the one next to me when it comes on the market in a year or 2.

agreed to return to the bargaining table in 5 years, when he is looking to retire early. since he should be getting a lovely parting gift when that happens, i should be able to make it through that, too.

the tax hit will be significant, as most of the cash is in a 401k now. but i truly hate the stock market, and figure that shelling out an extra 33% to invest in bricks and mortar is still a good investment.

it's also my quit smoking day, which will likely be a little tougher. lol. 

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mopinko (45,140 posts)    Wed Jan 13, 2016, 02:42 PM

surprise surprise. my cobra is affordable.
 
ex told me that cobra would be $1500/mo, nearly twice what i was expecting for an aca plan. turns out that is the figure for the full family coverage that he/we have had. individual w scripts and dental is a little less than $600.

good news.

in the process of tracking down all the bills that he was paying, which, of course, he decided to make a little harder by not giving me any account numbers, etc.

he has been such a vindictive little shit. but, i get to talk to my kids and say- hey, that guy that hates me so much? nothing new. that guy used to come out and make my life miserable all the time. especially in a crisis. i could always count of him coming out to kick me when i was down.

who can live with that lurking around every corner?

anyway, everything worked out fine. i got a good settlement, all in all. i only got 7 years of fairly low maintenance, but i got enough assets to make up for that by actually making some money off my money.

gonna get it away from wall street and where it is actually investing in good things.

got some good real estate deals coming along.

all's well that ends well, i guess. 

[I_B_Perky]

mopinko (45,140 posts)    Wed Jan 13, 2016, 02:42 PM

surprise surprise. my cobra is affordable.
 
ex told me that cobra would be $1500/mo, nearly twice what i was expecting for an aca plan. turns out that is the figure for the full family coverage that he/we have had. individual w scripts and dental is a little less than $600.

good news.

in the process of tracking down all the bills that he was paying, which, of course, he decided to make a little harder by not giving me any account numbers, etc.

he has been such a vindictive little shit. but, i get to talk to my kids and say- hey, that guy that hates me so much? nothing new. that guy used to come out and make my life miserable all the time. especially in a crisis. i could always count of him coming out to kick me when i was down.

who can live with that lurking around every corner?

anyway, everything worked out fine. i got a good settlement, all in all. i only got 7 years of fairly low maintenance, but i got enough assets to make up for that by actually making some money off my money.

gonna get it away from wall street and where it is actually investing in good things.

got some good real estate deals coming along.

all's well that ends well, i guess. 

Big MO  will be broke in 6 months.

[SarasotaRepub]

Then it'll be a GoFundMe acct plea.

[I_B_Perky]

Then it'll be a GoFundMe acct plea.

And it will be everyone's fault but hers.   

[SVPete]

he is threatening to retire early, something i never thought he would do however much he talked about it. but now it would hurt me, so it is a good idea to him.

he is saying he plans to work as long as the kids need support. only one is in college now, but the other 3 either have plans to do so, or at least certainly could and would do great.

i am happy for that, tho he is doing his best to wreck my relationships with them. he is the sugar daddy, and i am the old mom who needs help these days. easy peasy for him.

So, her ex will continue to support his kids, even when they're in college? And Mo-Mo's complaining that after that he's going to retire? Does she think he's obligated to support her for the rest of his/her life or something? IIRC, she's between 55 and 65, and her garden and chickens demonstrate that she isn't disabled. She should stop bleeping around with that nonsense and do something to support herself!

[SSG Snuggle Bunny]

She's a trophy wife...

[Karin]

I can't even picture her married.  She's so dyke-ish. 

I also can't believe she posted so much personal information at the DUmp.  The financial meanderings of a divorce are about as entertaining as a root canal. 

[GOBUCKS]

i am happy for that, tho he is doing his best to wreck my relationships with them. he is the sugar daddy, and i am the old mom who needs help these days. easy peasy for him.

It's not the divorce. Big Mo's kids haven't spoken to her in years.

That includes the one Big Mo forced to go without treatment for a fractured skull.

[Carl]

It's not the divorce. Big Mo's kids haven't spoken to her in years.

That includes the one Big Mo forced to go without treatment for a fractured skull.

I believe has also accused her of abuse.

[Tess Anderson]

words of wisdom from the big Mo:

if the democratic party is smart, after nominating bernie, they should put a big push on some of these red states w the high turn out.
bernie will appeal to a lot of the people who are coming out to vote AGAINST drumph.

 

one of her grown children are still giving Mo fits:

great. the kid who doesnt speak to me, let alone drive my car, had a big ticket accident w the ex's car.
i crumple a couple fenders, and guess what? i get my insurance cancelled. less than $3k for me.
had the same insurance agent/company for DECADES. but 4 claims in 2 years, and buh bye.
poor babies only made a SMALL fortune off of us.

 

[jtyangel]

I can't imagine why he hates her. What a greedy selfish bitch. And all to avoid having to do anything like get a job because her marital circumstances changed. What an absolute disgusting leach she is. Feel for the husband who probably stayed with her for the kids sake and is now paying dearly for not jettisoning her a decade ago.

[jtyangel]

So, her ex will continue to support his kids, even when they're in college? And Mo-Mo's complaining that after that he's going to retire? Does she think he's obligated to support her for the rest of his/her life or something? IIRC, she's between 55 and 65, and her garden and chickens demonstrate that she isn't disabled. She should stop bleeping around with that nonsense and do something to support herself!

Please that's below a liberal to work for a living. My SO ex fancies herself an artist and is nearly 50. Hasn't looked for or invested in a steady real job in the years they have not been together. Seems to be a leftist standard of living thier dreams on anothers dime whether it's in thier personal lives or how they vote. And the supporting peons can labor until they die for thier dreams. Apparently the same standard of living a dream doesn't apply to the ex spouse.they get to be slaves to their whim for eternity.

[SVPete]

Please that's below a liberal to work for a living. My SO ex fancies herself an artist and is nearly 50. Hasn't looked for or invested in a steady real job in the years they have not been together. Seems to be a leftist standard of living thier dreams on anothers dime whether it's in thier personal lives or how they vote. And the supporting peons can labor until they die for thier dreams. Apparently the same standard of living a dream doesn't apply to the ex spouse.they get to be slaves to their whim for eternity.

Yeah, I'm practically another sub-species of human, expecting that sort of leech to be capable of shame over their own leech-hood. Sadly, the leech subspecies of human have been multiplying swiftly here in the US these past 5 or 7 years.