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Current Events => The DUmpster => Topic started by: Ralph Wiggum on March 17, 2014, 10:52:37 AM
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I think a lot of this explains the isolationism of DUmmies and their ilk.
Sarah Ibarruri (19,760 posts)
Americans are the loneliest, most isolated people (http://www.democraticunderground.com/10024678065)
I have observed this for a long time. I lived in other countries and didn't find the same extreme isolation and loneliness that I do here, and I blame the system of life here for that. I don't think each individual is to blame for this. I blame things such insane ideas as the American Dream, the pull yourself up by your bootstraps madness, and other false, absurd, non-sensical and silly capitalistic notions of American life for the isolated American lifestyle. It's a whole system based on isolation, and sporadic get-togethers. The worst part of it is, we are accustomed to it, and know no other way of life, and we believe this is normal. It isn't. Here are excerpts from a truly good article on American loneliness and isolation.
Upstairs, she found Vickers’s body, mummified, near a heater that was still running. Her computer was on too, its glow permeating the empty space. Vickers’s web of connections had grown broader but shallower, as has happened for many of us. We are living in an isolation that would have been unimaginable to our ancestors, and yet we have never been more accessible…
In 1950, less than 10 percent of American households contained only one person. By 2010, nearly 27 percent of households had just one person. A 2010 AARP survey found that 35 percent of adults older than 45 were chronically lonely, as opposed to 20 percent of a similar group only a decade earlier. According to a major study by a leading scholar of the subject, roughly 20 percent of Americans—about 60 million people—are unhappy with their lives because of loneliness. Across the Western world, physicians and nurses have begun to speak openly of an epidemic of loneliness…
We meet fewer people. We gather less. And when we gather, our bonds are less meaningful and less easy. The decrease in confidants—that is, in quality social connections—has been dramatic over the past 25 years. In one survey, the mean size of networks of personal confidants decreased from 2.94 people in 1985 to 2.08 in 2004. Similarly, in 1985, only 10 percent of Americans said they had no one with whom to discuss important matters, and 15 percent said they had only one such good friend. By 2004, 25 percent had nobody to talk to, and 20 percent had only one confidant…
In the face of this social disintegration, we have essentially hired an army of replacement confidants, an entire class of professional carers. As Ronald Dworkin pointed out in a 2010 paper for the Hoover Institution, in the late ’40s, the United States was home to 2,500 clinical psychologists, 30,000 social workers, and fewer than 500 marriage and family therapists. We need professional carers more and more, because the threat of societal breakdown, once principally a matter of nostalgic lament, has morphed into an issue of public health. Being lonely is extremely bad for your health. If you’re lonely, you’re more likely to be put in a geriatric home at an earlier age than a similar person who isn’t lonely. You’re less likely to exercise. You’re more likely to be obese. You’re less likely to survive a serious operation and more likely to have hormonal imbalances. You are at greater risk of inflammation. Your memory may be worse. You are more likely to be depressed, to sleep badly, and to suffer dementia and general cognitive decline…
And yet, despite its deleterious effect on health, loneliness is one of the first things ordinary Americans spend their money achieving. With money, you flee the cramped city to a house in the suburbs or, if you can afford it, a McMansion in the exurbs, inevitably spending more time in your car. Loneliness is at the American core, a by-product of a long-standing national appetite for independence… Today, the one common feature in American secular culture is its celebration of the self that breaks away from the constrictions of the family and the state, and, in its greatest expressions, from all limits entirely.
http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2012/05/is-facebook-making-us-lonely/308930/
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This article brought forward for us by primitive Imaboobie who spends the overwhelming part of her day alone and on-line.
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Ain't that the inevitable result of socialism? ...the be all, end all of socialist engineering.
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Imabooby needs to get a cat or a parrot.
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Imabooby needs to get a cat or a parrot.
I hear they both taste like chicken.
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This article brought forward for us by primitive Imaboobie who spends the overwhelming part of her day alone and on-line.
Surely the passionate primitive can't find any fault with loneliness, as that appears the general way of life among the workers and peasants in the socialist paradises.
I found that people living in the big cities over there, uprooted from the farms and villages and congested into one place by the totalitarianists, tended to be very isolated from each other. Those great big massive workers' flats?--nobody knew, and was friends with, their next-door neighbors or anybody else in the building.
It was so weird.
They'd come home, hurry up into their place, and quickly lock the door.
It was just so weird.
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By the way--
I lived in other countries.....
Back in autumn 2004, the passionate primitive said she was leaving us if George Bush were re-elected.
Well, George Bush was re-elected, and we've even had another president since then, elected two times, and she's still here.
<<<is starting to learn one can't trust a primitive's promise.
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If they would get the hell out of their parents basement, then maybe someone would want to talk to them.
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If they would get the hell out of their parents basement, then maybe someone would want to talk to them.
Probably not. There is that whole personal hygiene thing with them.
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Just wait till we get personal holodecks...
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If they were just a little less angry and bitter.
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I hear they both taste like chicken.
Dummies love them some chicken. Sounds like a winner to me.
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I think this mostly depends on your personality. Not judging everyone you meet and putting them into little boxes of race, sex, sexual orientation, beliefs, etc., probably contributes, too.
Cindie