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Title: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: SSG Snuggle Bunny on November 07, 2013, 04:22:20 PM
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Bennyboy (9,549 posts)

Dad Calls Cops on Son to Teach Him a Lesson, Cops Shoot Son Dead
 

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This is exactly how my Father behaved right here. Call the cops for everything, send me to juvie. If he were alive right now he would be throwing the story in my face telling me the kid was at fault here for not listening to his dad and deserved to die.

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Manifestor_of_Light (16,952 posts)

7. My mom's lawyer sent me a nasty letter wanting her car back.
 
And saying that they would pursue "remedies" which of course could be civil, or criminal charges of UUMV which is a lesser included offense of auto theft. Or possibly felony auto theft. So I had to return the car.

 I think her lawyer just fueled her anger and wanted to charge an old lady money for writing a nasty letter. If he'd been ethical, he would have patted her hand and told her it was all right for me to drive her car, since she had transportation from a woman who drove her around.

Context: She was 81 years old, was legally blind due to macular degeneration. She DID NOT DRIVE. She paid a woman to take her to the doctor in the other woman's car. I was living in Houston and needed a car. She had Alzheimer's and informed me that "I could ride the bus in Houston". The bus service in Houston is horrible and you could die from heatstroke in the summer waiting for the bus. I told her that the bus didn't go anyplace where I was looking for a job. I also asked her why she was too good to ride in the other woman's car, instead of her own.

This was not a case of the child taking away the parent's car keys because they were too senile to drive. She was already not driving and aware that she was not driving anymore.

She was a crazy control freak. And some people wonder why our elderly parents drive us completely nuts.   

When she died I had massive anger and massive relief that I would not have to deal with her hatred of me anymore. I never did anything to deserve that hatred either.

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TeeYiYi (5,173 posts)

12. I missed the part where your mom gave you the keys to her car. ..nt

heh

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Bennyboy (9,549 posts)

13. I know this all too well..

he sent my kid to prison for something my father created. He was an evil evil person and the one thing I can say is that I did not inherit that gene. he held grudges against people for 70 years and screwed with them the day he died.

My dad once read a story in readers digest about a Father who killed his son because he was "High on drugs". the one and only thing I ever remember him reading. the article painted the father as a Hero. After my Dad read it he came into my room, tossed to Digest on my bed and told me "read this, this will happen to you" and walked out.

My father pulled guns on me so many times that I have not one clear recollection of them. They are all garbled. I had to take his legally purchased firearms away from him a month before he passed on after threatening me and my Mom with them (Letting me know that he had more because it was a common occurrence to have to remove his guns)....

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wercal (939 posts)

16. Ummmm...did you take her car

If so, her wanting it back isn't exactly the hallmark of being a 'crazy control freak'.

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Manifestor_of_Light (16,952 posts)

36. She gave me permission to take it and drive it. I had permission.
 
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However, she decided there was a time limit on it later.

Find something else to bitch about.

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wercal (939 posts)

45. Hey, whatever helps you sleep at night....
 
but do you understand that its the owner's prerogative to ask for the car back, right?

And if you didn't give it back, the lawyer letter was actually a fairly light-handed approach.

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Lancero (216 posts)

23. Other then...

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Stealing her car.

She wasn't using the car, but she never gave you permission to take it.

You deserve whatever Karma decides to inflict upon you.

Why mention Alzheimer's? Unless you were hoping that it would make her forget that she, in fact, owned a car?

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malaise (111,886 posts)

24. Are you people serious?

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Nine (1,291 posts)

37. When I am an old lady...

...I don't want anyone patting my hand and telling me not to worry about the fact that someone stole my property. If I hire a lawyer to help me recover stolen property, I want him to do his job, not treat me like an idiot. And if I do get Alzheimer's, I want my loved ones to take care of me and my affairs with compassion and respect for my dignity, not try to take advantage of me. Did you have power of attorney?

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Manifestor_of_Light (16,952 posts)

38. She gave me verbal permission to drive it. With no time limit.

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No, I didn't have a power of attorney. Every time I tried to help her (like trying to get her in a good nursing home which she refused to do) she accused me of meddling and wanting her money. There were no other children or relatives to help her out.

So I'm the evil bitch for driving it.

So why didn't I just kill myself for needing a car to look for a job when she was telling me it was all my fault that I did not have a job. It would have at least STOPPED the pain I was feeling and according to DU, rid the world of a horrible person!!! Huh? Would that make you pack of rabid dogs happy if I had offed myself? Would it??????


(http://www.threadbombing.com/data/media/32/drama_queen.jpg)


I'd settle for you offing yourself just on general principle.

But that's probably just me.

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wercal (939 posts)

43. You mistakenly believe that your need of a car has anything to do with this.


http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023996506
Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: franksolich on November 07, 2013, 04:34:59 PM
You know, the Bennyboy primitive's pretty promiscuous with inventing all these "mean old dad" stories.

It almost makes one believe his father was really like that, until reality sets in.
Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: SSG Snuggle Bunny on November 07, 2013, 04:39:09 PM
You know, the Bennyboy primitive's pretty promiscuous with inventing all these "mean old dad" stories.

It almost makes one believe his father was really like that, until reality sets in.

Is he gay?

I bet he's gay to fill that void to trying to please a male.
Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: Chris_ on November 07, 2013, 04:41:23 PM
MOL is a few pickles short on her sandwich.
Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: BadCat on November 07, 2013, 04:47:16 PM
MOL is a few pickles short on her sandwich.

In other words, a typical liberal.
Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: JohnnyReb on November 07, 2013, 05:04:02 PM
Cradle to grave, DUmmies are DUmmies.
Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: Purple Sage on November 07, 2013, 05:13:47 PM
Lord help anyone who has children like MOL and Bennyboy.  Good for those that set MOL straight.  Probably a mole.
Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: Karin on November 08, 2013, 07:26:53 AM
Lord help anyone who has children like MOL and Bennyboy.  Good for those that set MOL straight.  Probably a mole.

Especially Bennyboy, who "accidentally" tripped over his mother's life support equipment. 
Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: Purple Sage on November 08, 2013, 07:39:42 AM
Especially Bennyboy, who "accidentally" tripped over his mother's life support equipment. 
:O
Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: Skul on November 08, 2013, 07:45:30 AM
Especially Bennyboy, who "accidentally" tripped over his mother's life support equipment. 
And, apparently, his fathers, too.  :-)
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This is exactly how my Father behaved right here. Call the cops for everything, send me to juvie. If he were alive right now....
Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: lastparker on November 08, 2013, 08:07:58 AM
Lord help anyone who has children like MOL and Bennyboy.  Good for those that set MOL straight.  Probably a mole.

Of course they are - look at the post counts of everyone who was RIGHTFULLY appalled at the car story - these are the outrageous, entitled DUmmies who unwittingly draw out the moles. 
Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: Carl on November 08, 2013, 08:10:28 AM
These people are possessed by the evil they celebrate.
Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: NHSparky on November 08, 2013, 08:22:49 AM
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They are all garbled.

Probably all those drugs you were/are taking, dipshit.

And no, I don't believe he was pulling guns on you.  Even in "the bad old days" the cops would haul mommy/daddy away for something like that, unless you were threatening their lives and they were forced to defend themselves.
Title: Fascist cops shoot adolescent car thief- not the post I want you to read
Post by: Tucker on November 08, 2013, 09:22:33 AM
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023996506

Since this is the OP, I guess that I should post it but it's only slightly related to the post that will illustrate a true DUmmy and one of the posts of the year.

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Thu Nov 7, 2013, 01:34 PM

Bennyboy (9,555 posts)

Dad Calls Cops on Son to Teach Him a Lesson, Cops Shoot Son Dead
A father's attempt to teach his son a lesson for taking his truck without permission ended in tragedy Monday after a local police officer shot the teenager dead.

James Comstock told the Des Moines Register he called the police on his son Tyler after the latter took the former's truck in retaliation for refusing to buy him cigarettes.

Ames Police Officer Adam McPherson reportedly spotted the lawn care company vehicle and pursued it onto the Iowa State University campus, where a brief standoff ensued after Tyler allegedly refused orders to turn off the engine.

McPherson eventually fired six shots into the truck, two of which struck Tyler who was later pronounced dead.

The official report claims the action was necessary in order "to stop the ongoing threat to the public and the officers."

Tyler's dad says he was unarmed at the time.

READ MORE: http://gawker.com/dad-calls-cops-on-son-to-teach-him-a-lesson-cops-shoot-1460159897

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This is exactly how my Father behaved right here. Call the cops for everything, send me to juvie. If he were alive right now he would be throwing the story in my face telling me the kid was at fault here for not listening to his dad and deserved to die.

Without further ado:

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Response to Bennyboy (Original post)

Thu Nov 7, 2013, 01:51 PM

Manifestor_of_Light (16,955 posts)
7. My mom's lawyer sent me a nasty letter wanting her car back.


And saying that they would pursue "remedies" which of course could be civil, or criminal charges of UUMV which is a lesser included offense of auto theft. Or possibly felony auto theft. So I had to return the car.

I think her lawyer just fueled her anger and wanted to charge an old lady money for writing a nasty letter. If he'd been ethical, he would have patted her hand and told her it was all right for me to drive her car, since she had transportation from a woman who drove her around.

Context: She was 81 years old, was legally blind due to macular degeneration. She DID NOT DRIVE. She paid a woman to take her to the doctor in the other woman's car. I was living in Houston and needed a car. She had Alzheimer's and informed me that "I could ride the bus in Houston". The bus service in Houston is horrible and you could die from heatstroke in the summer waiting for the bus. I told her that the bus didn't go anyplace where I was looking for a job. I also asked her why she was too good to ride in the other woman's car, instead of her own.

This was not a case of the child taking away the parent's car keys because they were too senile to drive. She was already not driving and aware that she was not driving anymore.

She was a crazy control freak. And some people wonder why our elderly parents drive us completely nuts.

When she died I had massive anger and massive relief that I would not have to deal with her hatred of me anymore. I never did anything to deserve that hatred either.

Arrogant isn't strong enough to describe this DUmmy.

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Thu Nov 7, 2013, 01:58 PM

Bennyboy (9,555 posts)
13. I know this all too well..

he sent my kid to prison for something my father created. He was an evil evil person and the one thing I can say is that I did not inherit that gene. he held grudges against people for 70 years and screwed with them the day he died.

My dad once read a story in readers digest about a Father who killed his son because he was "High on drugs". the one and only thing I ever remember him reading. the article painted the father as a Hero. After my Dad read it he came into my room, tossed to Digest on my bed and told me "read this, this will happen to you" and walked out.

My father pulled guns on me so many times that I have not one clear recollection of them. They are all garbled. I had to take his legally purchased firearms away from him a month before he passed on after threatening me and my Mom with them (Letting me know that he had more because it was a common occurrence to have to remove his guns)....

The post sparks a big campfire.

Title: Re: Fascist cops shoot adolescent car thief- not the post I want you to read
Post by: Bad Dog on November 08, 2013, 09:26:41 AM
Somebody beat you to it.  http://www.conservativecave.com/index.php/topic,92280.0/topicseen.html
Title: Re: Fascist cops shoot adolescent car thief- not the post I want you to read
Post by: Skul on November 08, 2013, 09:28:44 AM
Of course beanyboy was all innocent. Sitting quietly, reading the Bible, minding his own business, right?
Yo, beanyboy, if you weren't in some drug induced rage-fit, maybe your old man wouldn't have seen a need to defend himself.  :bird:
Title: Re: Fascist cops shoot adolescent car thief- not the post I want you to read
Post by: Tucker on November 08, 2013, 09:56:32 AM
Somebody beat you to it.  http://www.conservativecave.com/index.php/topic,92280.0/topicseen.html

Found it interesting that both SB and myself focused on the MOL post after the OP.
Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: GOBUCKS on November 08, 2013, 10:23:12 AM
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Thu Nov 7, 2013, 01:34 PM
Bennyboy (9,556 posts)

Dad Calls Cops on Son to Teach Him a Lesson, Cops Shoot Son Dead


This is exactly how my Father behaved right here. Call the cops for everything, send me to juvie. If he were alive right now he would be throwing the story in my face telling me the kid was at fault here for not listening to his dad and deserved to die.

Before DUmmy Bennyboy killed his mother, and while his father was still living, the old man put Bennyboy on salary in his business, while DUmmy Bennyboy was collecting disability checks. That's how evil the old man was to his worthless, lazy, quarter-ton son. Bennyboy bragged to the DUmp how he was double-dipping on Social Security disability.
Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: Purple Sage on November 08, 2013, 10:39:56 AM
Before DUmmy Bennyboy killed his mother, and while his father was still living, the old man put Bennyboy on salary in his business, while DUmmy Bennyboy was collecting disability checks. That's how evil the old man was to his worthless, lazy, quarter-ton son. Bennyboy bragged to the DUmp how he was double-dipping on Social Security disability.

This cretinous pile of excrement needs to be picked up with a pooper scooper, placed in a trash bag, dropped on MOL's doorstop, and set afire.
Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: Dori on November 08, 2013, 10:52:53 AM
I just read several posts about bennyboy's dad.  Looks like daddy was a mean alcoholic and mom didn't defend herself or her kids from him.  
Daddy beat the crud out of his first wife and deserted that family.

http://journals.democraticunderground.com/Bennyboy/15




  

Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: franksolich on November 08, 2013, 10:56:37 AM
I just read several posts about bennyboy's dad.  Looks like daddy was a mean alcoholic and mom didn't defend herself or her kids from him.  

Daddy beat the crud out of his first wife and deserted that family.

http://journals.democraticunderground.com/Bennyboy/15

Yeah, yeah, a standard primitive tale.

I have doubt there's been mean dads in the world, but I really doubt that a primitive ever had one.

They're always using imaginary people, imaginary events, to explain their own flaws.

I give you as the prime example, Dennis the Menace.

"Bad dad" stories are almost their own literary category, on Skins's island.

Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: landofconfusion80 on November 08, 2013, 11:02:10 AM
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Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: JohnnyReb on November 08, 2013, 11:09:30 AM
Dad didn't drink but he whipped my ass almost dailey....the off days, he just kicked it around a little....I'm almost 70 years old now and he is dead and gone....CAN I GO BAD NOW? :-)
Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: Dori on November 08, 2013, 11:09:35 AM
Yeah, yeah, a standard primitive tale.

I have doubt there's been mean dads in the world, but I really doubt that a primitive ever had one.

They're always using imaginary people, imaginary events, to explain their own flaws.

I give you as the prime example, Dennis the Menace.

"Bad dad" stories are almost their own literary category, on Skins's island.

He's got some great bouncies.  I especially liked reading the ones about his run-ins with bar characters.
Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: Rebel on November 08, 2013, 02:07:03 PM
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Manifestor_of_Light (16,955 posts)

38. She gave me verbal permission to drive it. With no time limit.

No, I didn't have a power of attorney. Every time I tried to help her (like trying to get her in a good nursing home which she refused to do) she accused me of meddling and wanting her money. There were no other children or relatives to help her out.

So I'm the evil bitch for driving it.

The disdain you show for her here:

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Manifestor_of_Light (16,955 posts)She was a crazy control freak. And some people wonder why our elderly parents drive us completely nuts.

When she died I had massive anger and massive relief that I would not have to deal with her hatred of me anymore. I never did anything to deserve that hatred either.

I'd say that was a correct assumption on her part.
Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: Skul on November 08, 2013, 04:02:36 PM
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Manifestor_of_Light (16,955 posts)

38. She gave me verbal permission to drive it. With no time limit.
Thumbing through dictionary, looking for definition of "entitlement".
Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: Purple Sage on November 08, 2013, 09:13:09 PM
The disdain you show for her here:

I'd say that was a correct assumption on her part.

I hope MOL's mom left a will leaving this vermin 10 cents.  MOL must have been the bane of her poor Mom's existence.
Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: Celtic Rose on November 08, 2013, 10:36:50 PM
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Manifestor_of_Light (16,955 posts)

38. She gave me verbal permission to drive it. With no time limit.

No, I didn't have a power of attorney. Every time I tried to help her (like trying to get her in a good nursing home which she refused to do) she accused me of meddling and wanting her money. There were no other children or relatives to help her out.

So I'm the evil bitch for driving it.

How many people actually put a time limit on somebody borrowing something?  That doesn't actually mean that you have the right to use it in perpetuity.  I've borrowed tools from my neighbor.  He didn't tell me "You can use my weed whacker until 6 PM tonight" but it was understood that I should return it, and that I should ask him for permission if I wanted to use it again. 

Reasonable people understand that if the owner wants their belongings back, the borrower is expected to return it. 

Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: Purple Sage on November 08, 2013, 10:54:12 PM
Exponentially ^23 bad.  LOL

Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: Chris_ on November 08, 2013, 11:24:45 PM
How many people actually put a time limit on somebody borrowing something?  That doesn't actually mean that you have the right to use it in perpetuity.  I've borrowed tools from my neighbor.  He didn't tell me "You can use my weed whacker until 6 PM tonight" but it was understood that I should return it, and that I should ask him for permission if I wanted to use it again. 

Reasonable people understand that if the owner wants their belongings back, the borrower is expected to return it. 
DUmmies = not reasonable.
Title: Re: Surprisingly, self-entitled, self-indulgent POSs turn out to be thieves
Post by: Aristotelian on November 09, 2013, 05:05:49 AM
How many people actually put a time limit on somebody borrowing something?  That doesn't actually mean that you have the right to use it in perpetuity.  I've borrowed tools from my neighbor.  He didn't tell me "You can use my weed whacker until 6 PM tonight" but it was understood that I should return it, and that I should ask him for permission if I wanted to use it again. 

Reasonable people understand that if the owner wants their belongings back, the borrower is expected to return it.

Quite. I lent a book to a friend, I wasn't going to need it for a while and he was interested in it - I didn't give him a time-limit, I didn't see him at all over the summer...then I did need it back so I dropped him a message the day before I was going to see him, and he gave the book back.

Sorry it's not quite the same bouncy tale of entitlement and theft...but lending is not the same as giving, and civilised people know the difference.