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Title: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: SSG Snuggle Bunny on October 21, 2013, 12:39:32 PM
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rbrnmw (2,076 posts)

my husband has had enough he's leaving me
   
I just lost my parents this year one My Dad March 13 My Mom July 13 I can't take anymore If it wasn't for the kids I would be able tog o on

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rbrnmw (2,076 posts)

5. I have had 2 jobs since 94 neither lasted long

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023894797

You won't hold a steady job and you go on the internet to tear down your husband to total strangers.

I'm guessing he got sick of being emotionally assaulted over every figment to drift through your head.

Here's to hoping his new squeeze has massive jugs  :cheersmate:
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: BlueStateSaint on October 21, 2013, 12:45:34 PM
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023894797

You won't hold a steady job and you go on the internet to tear down your husband to total strangers.

I'm guessing he got sick of being emotionally assaulted over every figment to drift through your head.

Here's to hoping his new squeeze has massive jugs  :cheersmate:

You're not suggesting . . . the PhDD, are you?
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: Bad Dog on October 21, 2013, 12:49:47 PM
Lots of sympathy and great suggestions from the DUmmies.
Title: Now for some great news- rbrnmw's husband DUmps her
Post by: Tucker on October 21, 2013, 12:52:20 PM
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023894797

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Mon Oct 21, 2013, 01:26 PM

Star Member rbrnmw (2,077 posts)

my husband has had enough he's leaving me
I just lost my parents this year one My Dad March 13 My Mom July 13 I can't take anymore If it wasn't for the kids I would be able tog o on

Smart man. If he is a man.

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Response to rbrnmw (Original post)

Mon Oct 21, 2013, 01:32 PM

Star Member rbrnmw (2,077 posts)
5. I have had 2 jobs since 94 neither lasted long

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Response to rbrnmw (Original post)

Mon Oct 21, 2013, 01:40 PM

Star Member SunSeeker (7,247 posts)
10. Your post scares me. Please call 1-800-273-8255.

That is the number for the National Suicide Prevention hotline. It is free and confidential. They will hook you up with resources in your area. There is help, both emotional and financial.

This too shall pass. Your kids need you.

Cut lengthwise from wrist to elbow.



Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: SSG Snuggle Bunny on October 21, 2013, 01:09:30 PM
You're not suggesting . . . the PhDD, are you?

I wouldn't even suggest PhDDs become one of Osama bin Laden's 72 virgins.
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: BannedFromDU on October 21, 2013, 01:10:29 PM
     Yeah, I thought about bringing this over, but it looks like the woman has been pretty quiet for a while other than to worry over her situation. Sad to see people split up, but it seems like every DUmmy over the age
of 30 has at least one ex. I'm guessing she didn't help the situation much.
Title: DUmp pop-psychologists band together for group therapy
Post by: Billiam Pitts on October 21, 2013, 01:21:44 PM
One of the primitives with a moniker of "letters" is having a rough year so naturally the DUmp monkeys suspect that person is suicidal. Reads like a Nads screed. Of course all the monkeys know what's best for said primitive and offer their "heart felt" advice to letters. Of course they've gotten their psychiatry degrees from DUmp Unversity so any advice is useless.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023894797#post36

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rbrnmw (2,077 posts)

my husband has had enough he's leaving me
I just lost my parents this year one My Dad March 13 My Mom July 13 I can't take anymore If it wasn't for the kids I would be able tog o on


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lostincalifornia (468 posts)
9. You may need help. whether it is counseling, a person to talk to

or people who are in a similar situation

None of us make it through this alone

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SunSeeker (7,247 posts)
10. Your post scares me. Please call 1-800-273-8255.

That is the number for the National Suicide Prevention hotline. It is free and confidential. They will hook you up with resources in your area. There is help, both emotional and financial.

This too shall pass. Your kids need you.

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grasswire (38,145 posts)
14. hugs, first

You've had a really tough year. Please know that DU is open all hours of the day and night and there are plenty of listeners here including some who have suffered mightily. There is also a support forum for separation/divorce issues at http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=forum&id=1235

One step at a time. You'll need a plan. And your children definitely need you.

People can help you with your plans. Just a phone call to get started.

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TwilightGardener (40,119 posts)
15. I'm sorry--sounds like you have way too much on your plate.

Is there anyone, a sibling or friend or coworker, you can call on and get support or commiserate? At the very least, we on DU will be thinking about you...

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IdaBriggs (7,085 posts)
36. Take a deep breath.

You've suspected this was going to happen for a while now (based on this post - http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023653220).

You've gone through a lot this year (including the surgery). You've been turned down for SSDI. You've got 4 kids and no one to depend on except yourself.

If I read what is going on correctly, you are still dealing with the possibility of cancer, and overwhelming depression.

Take a deep breath.

Let's do this one step at a time.

Are you safe? Are you having thoughts of suicide? If so, we're going to stop right here, and you are going to need to call the Suicide Prevention Line.

The phone number is (800) 273-8255.

http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/

Reply to this message to let me know if this step is necessary. If it isn't necessary, we can go on to the next step.

But first, it is about you (and the kids) being safe.
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: BlueStateSaint on October 21, 2013, 01:34:16 PM
I wouldn't even suggest PhDDs become one of Osama bin Laden's 72 virgins.

 :o :o :o :o :o

Wow!
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: SSG Snuggle Bunny on October 21, 2013, 01:38:31 PM
Lots of sympathy and great suggestions from the DUmmies.

And a Gloria Gaynor video.




[youtube=425,350]eim5jLlEPYI[/youtube]
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: Wineslob on October 21, 2013, 01:43:09 PM
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Response to rbrnmw (Original post)

Mon Oct 21, 2013, 01:40 PM

Star Member SunSeeker (7,247 posts)
10. Your post scares me. Please call 1-800-EAT-SHIT.

That is the number for the National Suicide Prevention hotline. It is free and confidential. They will hook you up with resources in your area. There is help, both emotional and financial.

This too shall pass. Your kids need you.


FIFY
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: wasp69 on October 21, 2013, 01:44:32 PM
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rbrnmw  (216 posts)  
Fri Sep-25-09 08:39 PM
Original message

I am very sad
  
My 14 year old son told me that he wishes Obama would never have been elected. This shocked me because he was very happy about Obama winning the election. I asked why he would say that. He said "Mom there is so much hatred for anyone who is pro Obama" I said do you mean the Town Hall Protesters? He said "No mom I mean kids who hung out with me last year at school hate me now and call me a Nazi" I said why would they say that? He said "because I told them that the economy was getting better and I am happy about it" he went on to say "My dad is getting more work and if health care reform is passed my parents won't have to pay so much for my mom because she is a diabetic and can't get insurance" He said the other boy told him he was retarded and if he liked that Nazi he was a Nazi too. What are people teaching their kids? My son doesn't even want to go back to school because he is very hurt that his good friend turned on him for liking the President of the United States
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=389x6631260

Awwwww, what happened?
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: Ptarmigan on October 21, 2013, 02:02:46 PM
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=389x6631260

Awwwww, what happened?

Sounds like his son saw reality.
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: BannedFromDU on October 21, 2013, 02:50:31 PM
Sounds like his son saw reality.


     Sounds like she used her son as bouncy fodder. No kid talks like that.
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: delilahmused on October 21, 2013, 03:07:17 PM
Why the hell would 14 year olds have this coversation? Seriously, did or anyone you know care about jobs, economy & health care when you were 14? If anyone started talking about it would you really have a conversation? My response would be, "Who cares!"

Cindie
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: Dori on October 21, 2013, 03:08:44 PM

     Sounds like she used her son as bouncy fodder. No kid talks like that.

H5
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: JohnnyReb on October 21, 2013, 03:42:02 PM
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=389x6631260

Awwwww, what happened?
Somebody sobered up.
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: 67 Rover on October 21, 2013, 04:10:27 PM
The husband needs to show the judge some of her DUmmie land posts, that will guarantee he get's the kids.
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: wasp69 on October 21, 2013, 04:26:26 PM

     Sounds like she used her son as bouncy fodder. No kid talks like that.

Which I was using to rub her DUmmie face in her current mess.

Hope!  Change!  Holy shit, none of it worked!
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: BannedFromDU on October 21, 2013, 04:59:00 PM
Why the hell would 14 year olds have this coversation? Seriously, did or anyone you know care about jobs, economy & health care when you were 14? If anyone started talking about it would you really have a conversation? My response would be, "Who cares!"

Cindie


     It's amazing how ALL of their children are these precocious, uber-liberal savants when they themselves are admittedly underemployed, addicted, depressed, "PTSD"-afflicted, and so on.

     The real truth is that mouth-breathers beget mouth-breathers, and their spawn are probably as worthless and shiftless as they are.
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: BannedFromDU on October 21, 2013, 05:28:09 PM
Hey, look who's feeling up to bullshitting about politics after a couple of depressed hours?

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Star Member rbrnmw (2,094 posts)
2. He wants reelected and it's not happening if I can help it

From this inconsequential thread (http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023896497)


That's why your husband is leaving you, you turd. Can't wait til your kids desert you as well.
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: ScubaGuy on October 21, 2013, 05:32:28 PM
And she's on Wishadoo too:

Help me (http://www.wishadoo.org/wishlist/203/need-help-for-me-and-my-children/)
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: NHSparky on October 21, 2013, 05:34:26 PM
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That is the number for the National Suicide Prevention hotline. It is free and confidential. They will hook you up with resources in your area. There is help, both emotional and financial.

And make sure you tell them you have a gun or that you're a veteran.  That'll get the SWAT team out there busting down your door, etc.

http://www.psychiatrictimes.com/articles/vets-suicide-hotline-hot-seat
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: Mr Mannn on October 21, 2013, 06:58:24 PM
Just reading this post, I can see a pattern. Let me know if you think I'm wrong.

This gal is bad news. She a mooch who will leech the life blood out of any man.

She doesn't have a job. Now for years.
Does she help around the house? Cook? Clean? Have dinner waiting for the breadwinner? NO!
She is a lazy bum, who thinks sex is all she needs to win the easy life. Without respect, hubby doesn't even want that.

The bouncy shows she is a pathological liar. another reason her man has no respect for her.
She is not suicidal, but she will LIE about it to get money.

Bottom line she is the perfect DUmmy: suffering because she is unable to recognize her own poor choices in life.  Her own children will abandon her. and she will die alone.
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: GOBUCKS on October 21, 2013, 07:20:58 PM

Sounds like she used her son as bouncy fodder. No kid talks like that.
Why not? Amy Carter was only 13 when her main concern was nuclear proliferation.

I doubt very many remember that epic debate.
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: Billiam Pitts on October 21, 2013, 07:50:20 PM
letters DUmmie's life is falling apart all around her and yet she still finds the courage to get in a jab at cali. Priorities.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023895315#post24

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24. Consistant Cali...

And you wonder why I think the way I do about you.
A Jury voted 4-2 to hide this post on Mon Oct 21, 2013, 03:40 PM. Reason: This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

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rbrnmw (2,096 posts)
51. amen trumad
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: delilahmused on October 21, 2013, 10:07:29 PM
And she's on Wishadoo too:

Help me (http://www.wishadoo.org/wishlist/203/need-help-for-me-and-my-children/)

She's been begging for a year and expects people to continue to enable her to keep sitting around bitching!

So what the hell does her extended family have to do with her current situation?


[youtube=425,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CZd_YyFzPD0[/youtube]
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: Chris_ on October 21, 2013, 10:13:56 PM
And she's on Wishadoo too:

Help me (http://www.wishadoo.org/wishlist/203/need-help-for-me-and-my-children/)
What the **** do her aunt, uncle, cousin, and father have to do with her personal finances?  Can't these people take care of themselves?

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I am being evicted because SSD has not come through and my husband doesn't make enough to pay all the bills anyway. Please help me and my children start a new life. I need to keep my van which is two months behind. As soon as SSDI comes through I promise to pay it forward
Unbelievable.
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: 98ZJUSMC on October 21, 2013, 10:24:17 PM
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He said the other boy told him he was retarded and if he liked that Nazi he was a Nazi too. What are people teaching their kids?

The truth.  Finally.

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I am being evicted because SSD has not come through and my husband doesn't make enough to pay all the bills anyway. Please help me and my children start a new life. I need to keep my van which is two months behind. As soon as SSDI comes through I promise to pay it forward

....and being exposed to whining, failing parasites like you?
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: diesel driver on October 22, 2013, 03:26:33 AM
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TwilightGardener (40,119 posts)
15. I'm sorry--sounds like you have way too much on your plate.

 :wtf2:

Has worked 2 short-term jobs in the last 20 years, and HAS TOO MUCH ON HER PLATE???

ESAD, DUmmie!

Work 3 jobs at the same time TWICE during the same period, 2 jobs for the rest of the time, THEN whine to me about "too much on your plate"!!!!

F'n lazy assed DUmmies!    :rant:
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: Gina on October 22, 2013, 06:29:23 AM
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rbrnmw (2,076 posts)

5. I have had 2 jobs since 94 neither lasted long

So she has been unemployed since 94? 
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: Gina on October 22, 2013, 06:32:50 AM
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lostincalifornia (468 posts)
9. You may need help. whether it is counseling, a person to talk to

or people who are in a similar situation

None of us make it through this alone

Ok, yall can school me if you want but I don't get this ^.  I have had some pretty crappy life happenings and I didn't need to go get counseling, I didn't need to call and cry on someone, and I didn't really need some phone number to call.  I just thought this crap happens and figured out if I was to blame and corrected the issue and it never has happened again.  I know some people are "strong" but it seems that the lefts answer to everything that goes wrong is to go burden someone else.   :shrug:
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: Big Dog on October 22, 2013, 06:42:33 AM
Ok, yall can school me if you want but I don't get this ^.  I have had some pretty crappy life happenings and I didn't need to go get counseling, I didn't need to call and cry on someone, and I didn't really need some phone number to call.  I just thought this crap happens and figured out if I was to blame and corrected the issue and it never has happened again.  I know some people are "strong" but it seems that the lefts answer to everything that goes wrong is to go burden someone else.   :shrug:

That is because you are a strong American woman, and the DUmmies are weak whining weasels.

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lostincalifornia (468 posts)
9. You may need help. whether it is counseling, a person to talk to

or people who are in a similar situation

The lost DUmmy gave the worst advice possible- asking for directions from people who are just as lost.
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: Tucker on October 22, 2013, 08:15:32 AM
Ok, yall can school me if you want but I don't get this ^.  I have had some pretty crappy life happenings and I didn't need to go get counseling, I didn't need to call and cry on someone, and I didn't really need some phone number to call.  I just thought this crap happens and figured out if I was to blame and corrected the issue and it never has happened again.  I know some people are "strong" but it seems that the lefts answer to everything that goes wrong is to go burden someone else.   :shrug:

DUmmies suggest counseling as a way to support their own as 99% of therapists are moonbats. It's all intertwined. Same with educators. A majority of teachers are democrats, That's why the support of public education and against charter schools. They hate the military because most are conservative.

DUmmies not only hate the individual, they hate institutions and geographical regions that are counter to their mantras.
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: delilahmused on October 22, 2013, 02:06:20 PM
Ok, yall can school me if you want but I don't get this ^.  I have had some pretty crappy life happenings and I didn't need to go get counseling, I didn't need to call and cry on someone, and I didn't really need some phone number to call.  I just thought this crap happens and figured out if I was to blame and corrected the issue and it never has happened again.  I know some people are "strong" but it seems that the lefts answer to everything that goes wrong is to go burden someone else.   :shrug:

For the most part, you're right but physical, sexual and severe mental abuse (not the kind the DUmmies think they're subject to) really do need more help. Granted, there are people that truly like to revel in their victimhood but some things are harder to shake off than others.

Cindie
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: Gina on October 22, 2013, 02:27:04 PM
For the most part, you're right but physical, sexual and severe mental abuse (not the kind the DUmmies think they're subject to) really do need more help. Granted, there are people that truly like to revel in their victimhood but some things are harder to shake off than others.

Cindie

I do get that.   :(
Title: Re: Who could have seen this happening?
Post by: SSG Snuggle Bunny on October 22, 2013, 06:57:50 PM
Ok, yall can school me if you want but I don't get this ^.  I have had some pretty crappy life happenings and I didn't need to go get counseling, I didn't need to call and cry on someone, and I didn't really need some phone number to call.  I just thought this crap happens and figured out if I was to blame and corrected the issue and it never has happened again.  I know some people are "strong" but it seems that the lefts answer to everything that goes wrong is to go burden someone else.   :shrug:

As a medic you get to see some soldiers that have serious issues. I'm not against giving folks an ear and a shoulder but at the same time a soldier still has to be willing to march.

I had one soldier I crisis counseled and get her help, etc. A few months later I heard from her NCOIC she was showing up to work late. I paid her a visit and said, point blank, "This is how you pay me back?" It stung her but pain is corrective. However, if she were a total shit-bag it never would have stung, so kudos to her.

These Proglodytes though; they're a whole 'nother animal.