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Current Events => The DUmpster => Topic started by: franksolich on June 15, 2013, 10:59:13 AM
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http://www.democraticunderground.com/1018411809
Oh my.
New campfire, just lit.
alarimer (11,759 posts) Sat Jun 15, 2013, 11:57 AM
I'm not letting anyone get close enough to hurt me again.
No way, no how. 8 months later and I still feel like hell.
A few months ago, he contacted me, sounding nostalgic and remorseful so we started talking again. I forgave him for what he did and he even talked about moving out closer to me so we could spend some time together and see what happened.
But it got to the point where he wasn't contacting me at all. I had to take the initiative. Always. And then he didn't acknowledge my birthday at all. And I am forced to come to the conclusion that he just doesn't care (or he has someone else). And it hurts. I've never hurt this badly for such a long time.
But I don't want to meet anyone else. I do not want to take a chance that I will get hurt again. Because I ALWAYS do. I never get the happy ending. Nobody ever really loves me.
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If all it wants is a happy ending, it should visit Mrs. Mai's steam & cream emporium.
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Wanna bet this is a tale of sodomy gone wrong?
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Wanna bet this is a tale of sodomy gone wrong?
Nah, a jilted homo would just scoot down to the nearest interstate rest stop for a new toilet-stall romance.
This sounds more like Sarah Imaboobi, an easy piece who's victimized by her awful technique in the sack.
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Nah, a jilted homo would just scoot down to the nearest interstate rest stop for a new toilet-stall romance.
This sounds more like Sarah Imaboobi, an easy piece who's victimized by her awful technique in the sack.
I'm wondering if all of these tales of woe on DU have more to do with personal hygiene.
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http://www.democraticunderground.com/1018411809
Sat Jun 15, 2013, 11:57 AM
alarimer (11,764 posts)
I'm not letting anyone get close enough to hurt me again.
No way, no how. 8 months later and I still feel like hell.
A few months ago, he contacted me, sounding nostalgic and remorseful so we started talking again. I forgave him for what he did and he even talked about moving out closer to me so we could spend some time together and see what happened.
But it got to the point where he wasn't contacting me at all. I had to take the initiative. Always. And then he didn't acknowledge my birthday at all. And I am forced to come to the conclusion that he just doesn't care (or he has someone else). And it hurts. I've never hurt this badly for such a long time.
But I don't want to meet anyone else. I do not want to take a chance that I will get hurt again. Because I ALWAYS do. I never get the happy ending. Nobody ever really loves me.
Response to alarimer (Original post)
Sat Jun 15, 2013, 01:52 PM
CaliforniaPeggy (104,398 posts)
7. I would very strongly suggest that you get yourself into the hands of a competent therpist.
They can work wonders. They can help you discover what leads you to men who aren't good for you, who hurt you and then abandon you.
I hope you will do this.
Response to CaliforniaPeggy (Reply #7)
Sat Jun 15, 2013, 01:58 PM
alarimer (11,764 posts)
9. I've tried it before.
One tried to convince me to try hypnosis, which struck me as of dubious utility at best, and unscientific nonsense at work.
Response to alarimer (Reply #9)
Sat Jun 15, 2013, 02:04 PM
CaliforniaPeggy (104,398 posts)
10. Then keep trying. One lousy therapist is no reason to stop.
I've been in therapy a number of times, and the good one saved my professional life.
I agree about the hypnosis, FWIW.
This is about your life and emotional health; it's very much worth doing.
no surprise there
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sorry dupe: http://www.conservativecave.com/index.php/topic,88005.0.html
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sorry dupe: http://www.conservativecave.com/index.php/topic,88005.0.html
That's ok I merged em.
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DUmmies have bought into the whole free love thing. Hopping in the sack on the first date means there is no promise of things to come, no reason to build a...gasp...relationship.
DUmmies are not good at relationships. they want sex and that is it. Their own families have disowned them. Every time I peruse DU, the misery they live is evident. But DUmmies refuse to accept the reality they brought their own misery upon themselves with their own bad choices.
Yes, DUmmies. You will ALWAYS be alone.
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Life will become easier once you realize you suck as a person...and not in the good way.
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alarimer (11,759 posts) Sat Jun 15, 2013, 11:57 AM
I'm not letting anyone get close enough to hurt me again.
No way, no how. 8 months later and I still feel like hell.
A few months ago, he contacted me, sounding nostalgic and remorseful so we started talking again. I forgave him for what he did and he even talked about moving out closer to me so we could spend some time together and see what happened.
But it got to the point where he wasn't contacting me at all. I had to take the initiative. Always. And then he didn't acknowledge my birthday at all. And I am forced to come to the conclusion that he just doesn't care (or he has someone else). And it hurts. I've never hurt this badly for such a long time.
But I don't want to meet anyone else. I do not want to take a chance that I will get hurt again. Because I ALWAYS do. I never get the happy ending. Nobody ever really loves me.
Good grief, dummie!!! You think you the only one in the world that ever got dumped? Got news for ya... it happens to almost everybody.
So you got two choices:
1. Be miserable for the rest of your days
2. Off yourself ASAP.
I suggest jumping off a really tall building.
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I'm sorry your cat left you alarimer. But they simply do not live as long as we do.
Maybe you should try relating to a human. A non-psychopathic one, so a non-DUmmie.
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I'm sorry your cat left you alarimer. But they simply do not live as long as we do.
Maybe you should try relating to a human. A non-psychopathic one, so a non-DUmmie.
Don't encourage the Dummies to attempt relationships with sane people. We want to minimize their spread :rant:
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Don't encourage the Dummies to attempt relationships with sane people. We want to minimize their spread :rant:
Like it would really happen.
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Like it would really happen.
Ummm . . . haven't we seen that DUmb****s put out on the first date? The possibilities exist that they would reproduce.
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It's still pining after 8 months? Pathetic. Try getting a hobby, DUmmie.
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It's still pining after 8 months? Pathetic. Try getting a hobby, DUmmie.
Every Proglodyte's hobby is themself.
If the truly cared about other people they would set aside the person that abandoned them and find someone else they could make happy.
Instead, it is always a question of, "Why hasn't this person/thing/society made me happy?"
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Good grief, dummie!!! You think you the only one in the world that ever got dumped? Got news for ya... it happens to almost everybody.
So you got two choices:
1. Be miserable for the rest of your days
2. Off yourself ASAP.
I suggest jumping off a really tall building.
Actually a bridge would be better than a building....less of a mess that way.