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Title: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: formerlurker on February 24, 2013, 12:22:52 PM
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The Problem with Being Privileged
I am privileged to a large degree. As a white, straight, male, able-bodied, college-educated, married, man with no criminal convictions who also is a military veteran, financially solvent and over the age of 65, much privilege accrues to me automatically. Because of that privilege, I can:

Walk down the sidewalk without being looked at suspiciously.
Drive through any area without being stopped for no reason.
Shop in whatever stores I wish without being considered a potential thief.
Avoid being shunned or attacked for my sexuality.
Never worry about a potential employer or client wondering if I'll get pregnant or marry.
Never be told to smile by some moron who thinks he's irresistibly attractive.
Be taken seriously if I want to refinance my mortgage.
Be given great attention if I go into a car dealership or hardware store.
Enter buildings after climbing stairs and pulling open heavy doors.
Park away from crowded areas in parking lots and walk.
Receive single-payer healthcare from my government.
Receive a payment each month from Social Security.
Get special treatment for home mortgages.
Get care in a Veteran's hospital or nursing home if I'm destitute.
Avoid being treated like a criminal at traffic stops.
Go anywhere, do anything, and not be noticed unless I wish to be noticed.
Do, be, and get many more things than described above.


That is my privilege. Most of it accrues to me simply because I was born who I am, where I was born, and to whom I was born. Frankly, I often forget that I have a big bunch of privilege following me around wherever I go. But, then I see someone else who is not me, doesn't match my description, and who did not automatically start with that big pile of privilege. I see people every day for whom parts of the list above simply does not apply. For some, almost nothing in that list applies. Then I remember my privilege and am humbled by it. I didn't earn it, for the most part. It simple accrues to me by accident of birth, mostly. I try to remember that, but often forget. That's the problem with being privileged. I often forget.

http://upload.democraticunderground.com/10022421717

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Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: Dori on February 24, 2013, 12:31:25 PM
DUmmie white guilt wasn't wasted on this guy. 

Of course it has nothing to do with his life's choices, but all do to the fact that he's white, male and educated.

Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: GOBUCKS on February 24, 2013, 12:31:46 PM
But DUmmy RockHead is a DUmp democrat, which earns him scorn and contempt from normal people.

So it's not all sunshine and privilege.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: Chris_ on February 24, 2013, 12:35:09 PM
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Be taken seriously if I want to refinance my mortgage.
Nobody takes you seriously, dumbshit.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: Delmar on February 24, 2013, 01:19:54 PM
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Never be told to smile by some moron who thinks he's irresistibly attractive.

The smiling thing again.  Wasn't there a post just a couple weeks ago about the smiling thing.  Do women really get told to smile by men so often that it is a common problem that deserves complaint?  I have no memory of ever in my life trying to coax a woman into smiling--aside from taking pictures.  A couple of times in my life I've encountered a crying woman and asked if everything was okay or if I could help.  But asking a grumpy woman or a woman with a neutral expression to start smiling?  I can't say that that's something that I've noticed.  Maybe it happens, but not in my experience.  It sounds like it happens in the pestering kind of way that a boozer will try to get someone to join them in a drink--or one more drink.  But an act of a privileged person keeping someone else down?  Whatever you say Mineral Man.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: longview on February 24, 2013, 01:31:50 PM
So much wrong with his list of supposed priveleges.  Just to make a response/rebuttal more brief:  Many Occupoopers (white, educated, with extra cash to waste) would have a problem with many items on his list.  If he hasn't been stopped while driving anywhere he wanted, he obviously avoided some areas where the cops will darn sure stop a middle-aged white dude.  If he hasn't been asked to smile by some narcissist, he didn't hang out at radically gay bars.
And while you do have to be a vet to be treated in a VA (except during a crisis), there are lots and lots of people being treated in nursing homes, acute hospitals, and LTACs all over the country without paying (or even being citizens of this country or here legally).

There is no special treatment for being qualified for a mortgage.  In fact, look at the creative mortages that were made to people who couldn't qualify, people of all colors, and look where that got us all.

Racist.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: BEG on February 24, 2013, 01:41:15 PM
 :whatever:  I couldn't even get through all that drivel.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: AprilRazz on February 24, 2013, 03:51:39 PM
Wonder what would happen if he told nads to smile? :rotf:
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: Mr Mannn on February 24, 2013, 04:14:19 PM
This is a liberal theme: just being white means you are a bigot. The simple benefits of a normal life is now an unfair privilege you are denying others.
---Being white means you are guilty of crimes you never committed.

This is why I despise Democrats. Martin Luther King wanted to end segregation, and unite the US into one people. Democrats are separating us by class and race and setting the groundwork for a race war. Innocent people are going to die for nothing more than a democrat power play.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: Delmar on February 24, 2013, 04:14:25 PM
Now we're up to our long distance dedication.  This one goes out to all the lurking ladies from democrat underground.  Let's turn those frowns upside down.
Signed, Delmar

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UN8oLGBNXpE

Keep your feet on the ground and keep reaching for the stars!
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: Freeper on February 24, 2013, 04:19:16 PM
You DUmmies can take this white guilt Bull Shit and shove it right up your asses.

Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: JohnnyReb on February 24, 2013, 04:24:29 PM
This is a liberal theme: just being white means you are a bigot. The simple benefits of a normal life is now an unfair privilege you are denying others.
---Being white means you are guilty of crimes you never committed.

This is why I despise Democrats. Martin Luther King wanted to end segregation, and unite the US into one people. Democrats are separating us by class and race and setting the groundwork for a race war. Innocent people are going to die for nothing more than a democrat power play.

If we're going to be constantly accused of bigotry, why not just let go with the bigotry and enjoy it?
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: ScubaGuy on February 24, 2013, 05:49:43 PM
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I'm glad you posted this, MM.

In my case, it goes a bit further. I have long hair and a gray beard, dress like a farmer and have no particular schedule. While never persecuted, there is always this attitude that most people have when meeting me for the first time.

But when they find out where I live and realize that they have seen my property and house before, there is a quick about-face - almost every time. That is usually the moment when I decide not to continue with them.

We should all thank our lucky stars, every day.


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Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: Vagabond on February 24, 2013, 06:32:01 PM
What is this drivel?  Is MM trying to get laid by a female DUer or something?
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: BEG on February 24, 2013, 06:32:49 PM
 :rotf: GreytDeomcrat
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: 98ZJUSMC on February 24, 2013, 10:53:04 PM
:whatever:  I couldn't even get through all that drivel.


Nope.  Gag reflex kicked in.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: Jasonw560 on February 24, 2013, 11:10:15 PM
Every time Some DUmmy posts something longe than 1 sentence, my eyes glaze over and I hear Charlie Brown's teacher. kind of like with vesta's posts.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: Traveshamockery on February 24, 2013, 11:14:34 PM
Well, RockHeadMineral Man - if you are so privileged, why are you not giving away your fortunate to those who are way less fortunate than you? 

Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: Skul on February 24, 2013, 11:16:03 PM
@rockboy
Cool story, bro.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: Chris_ on February 24, 2013, 11:22:48 PM
Well, RockHeadMineral Man - if you are so privileged, why are you not giving away your fortunate to those who are way less fortunate than you? 
That's crazy talk.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: chitownchica on February 24, 2013, 11:38:53 PM
After getting outed as a freeper,  MM has been posting  ridiculous OPs to reestablish his street cred. 

No one buys it.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: Skul on February 24, 2013, 11:47:57 PM
After getting outed as a freeper,  MM has been posting  ridiculous OPs to reestablish his street cred. 

No one buys it.
Ah ha. That's why the lad went hard-nose.
Makes perfectly good sense now.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: chitownchica on February 25, 2013, 01:22:21 AM
Ah ha. That's why the lad went hard-nose.
Makes perfectly good sense now.

Yep. He got spanked several times over it.

Gah- he is about as boring as the retarded LanternWaste primitive.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: Skul on February 25, 2013, 01:31:09 AM
Yep. He got spanked several times over it.

Gah- he is about as boring as the retarded LanternWaste primitive.
It's mighty slim pickin's for mole over there.
Getting hard to find something substantial.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: RobJohnson on February 25, 2013, 01:36:21 AM
65 years old and he owes money on his house??????? I know it happens, times are tough.

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Be taken seriously if I want to refinance my mortgage.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: whiffleball on February 25, 2013, 05:44:06 AM
This is a liberal theme: just being white means you are a bigot. The simple benefits of a normal life is now an unfair privilege you are denying others.
---Being white means you are guilty of crimes you never committed.

This is why I despise Democrats. Martin Luther King wanted to end segregation, and unite the US into one people. Democrats are separating us by class and race and setting the groundwork for a race war. Innocent people are going to die for nothing more than a democrat power play.


I've watched the liberal white guilt concept spread like a cancer for years.  In the 60s White kids thought it was cool to party with Panthers and lap up their drivel.  Too many turned out to be Ayers and Dorn-types; privileged in terms of wealth and/or in positions to poison the minds of the next generation.  With the Obama presidency it has become Stage IV, terminal.

Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: JohnnyReb on February 25, 2013, 07:37:25 AM
So, If I get a good tan, do I lose all my privileges?
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: Big Dog on February 25, 2013, 07:45:42 AM
65 years old and he owes money on his house??????? I know it happens, times are tough.


Hollis' girlfriend owns the house. He just acts like it's his.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: RobJohnson on February 25, 2013, 09:13:56 AM
Hollis' girlfriend owns the house. He just acts like it's his.

Now that right there folks is privilege.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: GOBUCKS on February 25, 2013, 10:51:21 AM
Hollis' girlfriend owns the house. He just acts like it's his.
When he was at the trinket shop in Tiburon he slept in a back room at the store.

Above all else, TiT is a terminal alcoholic, bragging about a quart of gin as his routine nightcap.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: Chris_ on February 25, 2013, 11:00:48 AM
Around 2006-2007, he claimed he was driving a Porsche Carrera GT, a $300,000 car.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: GOBUCKS on February 25, 2013, 11:21:14 AM
Around 2006-2007, he claimed he was driving a Porsche Carrera GT, a $300,000 car.

And a friend loaned him a priceless all-electric Tesla sportscar prototype, which he drove 130mph on a winding road.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: Maxiest on February 25, 2013, 11:35:38 AM
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The Problem with Being Privileged


 
I am privileged to a large degree. As a white, straight, male, able-bodied, college-educated, married, man with no criminal convictions who also is a military veteran, financially solvent and over the age of 65, much privilege accrues to me automatically. Because of that privilege, I can:

This has nothing to do with privilege.  The only one that he couldn't control is being born white, the rest where good decisions.  So am I to believe that because I make good decisions in my life that I am some how privileged?  Am, I to be guilty about my good decisions?

And the people who make bad decisions are not privileged, therefore they require me to be guilty?  What the hell kinda logic is this.

Now time for me to pick a part his "privileges."

Walk down the sidewalk without being looked at suspiciously.   Depends on what neighborhood you are in.

Drive through any area without being stopped for no reason.   Here in my area, you will get pulled over just for being white if you are in the wrong neighbor hoods because no white person goes in those neighbor hoods unless they are wanting to score.

Shop in whatever stores I wish without being considered a potential thief.   Everyone is considered a thief until they pay for their goods at checkout.

Avoid being shunned or attacked for my sexuality. We know this is bullshit, just check out the LGBT group.

Never worry about a potential employer or client wondering if I'll get pregnant or marry.   That's just life, has nothing to do with privilege.

Be given great attention if I go into a car dealership or hardware store.  It's privilege because you carry yourself well, and probably don't look like a bum or Occupier?

Enter buildings after climbing stairs and pulling open heavy doors.  Again, this has to do with decisions you made in your life for your body.  No privilege.

Receive single-payer healthcare from my government.
Receive a payment each month from Social Security.  Privilege?  Really?

Get special treatment for home mortgages.   You don't get special privileges.  You may have taken care of your finances correctly over your life time and thus are more apt to receive refinances and mortgage's.

Avoid being treated like a criminal at traffic stops.   Depends on the officer that pulled you over, the area you are in, and the reason you are being pulled over.  No privilege.

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But, then I see someone else who is not me, doesn't match my description, and who did not automatically start with that big pile of privilege. I see people every day for whom parts of the list above simply does not apply. For some, almost nothing in that list applies. Then I remember my privilege and am humbled by it. I didn't earn it, for the most part. It simple accrues to me by accident of birth, mostly.

Again... for the slow DUmmies.  The only thing you were born into is your color.  And that may have been a privilege when you were born, but we aren't in the 50's anymore.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: SSG Snuggle Bunny on February 25, 2013, 03:14:37 PM
:whatever:  I couldn't even get through all that drivel.

You should smile more.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: DefiantSix on February 25, 2013, 03:45:53 PM
DUmmie white guilt wasn't wasted on this guy. 

Of course it has nothing to do with his life's choices, but all do to the fact that he's white, male and educated.



Prove it.  :rulez: It looks more "indoctrinated" than "educated".
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: BlueStateSaint on February 25, 2013, 03:56:53 PM
Prove it.  :rulez: It looks more "indoctrinated" than "educated".

He may be 'book smart.'  That generally means 'no common sense.'
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: DefiantSix on February 25, 2013, 04:03:59 PM
He may be 'book smart.'  That generally means 'no common sense.'

He posts on the DUmp: how 'book smart' could he possibly be?  The definition of 'book smart' for 99% of the DUmmies is the pain they feel in their cranium when the teacher throws (another) text book at them out of sheer frustration. :popcorn:
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: Jasonw560 on February 25, 2013, 05:10:24 PM
The only "book smarts" they have are the memorizing The Communist Manifesto and Rules For Radicals.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: Aristotelian on February 26, 2013, 12:45:20 PM
The smiling thing again.  Wasn't there a post just a couple weeks ago about the smiling thing.  Do women really get told to smile by men so often that it is a common problem that deserves complaint?

Certainly not the DUmmy-wymyn - I hate to think what would happen if most of them tried to pull those hate-ridden scowls into something roughly approximating to a smile.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: RobJohnson on February 27, 2013, 12:36:32 AM
The DUmmies have a chart! You lose points if you are a woman.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022413278

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Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: Big Dog on February 27, 2013, 06:21:29 AM
The DUmmies have a chart! You lose points if you are a woman.

The sex with half of the money and all of the *****, not privileged? Bullshit.
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: JohnnyReb on February 27, 2013, 08:16:44 AM
The sex with half of the money and all of the *****, not privileged? Bullshit.
:lmao: Yep, and the "X" took her half of the money and all the........well, what was left of "It" after giving away so much of "IT".
Title: Re: The Problem with Being Privileged
Post by: Rebel on February 27, 2013, 09:23:53 AM
Sex, orientation, and gender? How many more ****ing classifications are these assholes going to thrust onto our once normal society?