kpete
I've spent the past 2 days trying to convince my 16 y/o she is not a "slut"
SUN MAR 04, 2012 AT 06:30 AM PST
I've spent the past 2 days trying to convince my 16 y/o she is not a "slut"
bybeantown momFollow
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................. We sat down on the couch and she just cried for what seemed like forever. I held her and cried with her and said more things that I just can't remember now! Finally I got her calmed down enough to tell me the story from the beginning. The note was in her locker when she opened it before her first class. She was so upset that she went to her teacher in first period and asked to be excused to go to the bathroom. She said for first and second period she tried not to be too upset- she cried a little bit but was just trying to figure out who would leave such a piece of trash in her locker. By third period, she had shown the note to a couple of her friends and they were so helpful, trying to play detective and at the same time telling her she should just ignore the stupid people! She managed to get through a math quiz and Spanish test and headed off to lunch in a pretty solid frame of mind. And that's when it really fell apart; apparently, the girls from the day before were the authors of the note. They lined up behind my daughter to get their lunch tray and started in on her. "Birth control whore", "I told my mom you were on the pill and she said you were nothing but a little tramp" "My mom said some guy she listens to on the radio was just talking about girls like you- he even said you were a slut!" "Yeah, my mom said the same thing, said it's about time people spoke up and weren't afraid to tell the truth"! They laughed, they harassed, they said so many things my daughter couldn't begin to remember it all- she walked back to her table without food and told her friends what was going on. She cried through lunch and through the rest of the day. She said she almost went to the office to call me to come get her but she was trying to be strong and not let them win! The last class of the day, however, was the final straw- it's her history class and 2 of these little monsters are in the class with her. They start the class off by talking about current events. One of the little witches brought up Rush Limbaugh and the (male) teacher said that he was an American Icon- sometimes he says things that can be construed as insensitive but overall, he was one of the few people left in today's media who was not afraid to speak the truth! The girls began to laugh and the conversation apparently changed. I don't think the teacher had any clue as to what was going on. My daughter said the rest of the class was just a blur- when the bell rang, she ran to her locker and down to the bathroom.
I asked my daughter how these girls found out about her being on birth control. It had to have come from someone on the trip, but we have no idea who. It doesn't matter, really, I just would like to know. My daughter looked at me so innocent, so very sad and asked me "Am I a slut because I take a prescription birth control pill? I don't take it because I am having sex, I take it to help my periods- am I a bad person, Mom?"
AM I A BAD PERSON? My 16 year old daughter asked me if she was a bad person because she is on the pill! Who are we? What century do we live in? Who in the hell has the right to say these things? Who does Rush Limbaugh think he is? Why is he allowed to say these things and hurt people? Why have I spent the last 2 days trying to convince my 16 year old that she is not a slut?
On Monday, I am going to my child's high school and meeting with her counselor and principal. I don't yet know what I am going to say but I know this- nothing is going to take away the pain my daughter felt, the humiliation she felt, the indignation she felt. Nothing will make this all O.K., nothing will take us back to before this all happened. As a parent, you want to protect your child from hurt and pain. I didn't protect my child from this- I can only try to make sure that she suffers no more at the hands of these little witches. Or ignorant assholes like Rush Limbaugh.
the rest:
http://www.dailykos.com/story/2012/03/04/1070800/-I-ve-spent-the-past-2-days-trying-to-convince-my-16-y-o-she-is-not-a-slut-?via=siderec
earthside
2. Many teenage girls ...
... take birth control pills to alleviate severe acne.
The level of ignorance and hate that Limbaugh has engendered this time with his reckless language is beyond the pale.
Furthermore, it is so depressing that there are people out there who will defend him who don't even know what they are talking about ... it's just a kind of political tribalism run amuck.
Frankly, I don't think this Limbaugh/contraception debate is just a minor, radio personality controversy -- there are some real fundamental American principles and values under siege here. If Limbaugh somehow gets away with this, then I predict that the viciousness and hate from the right-wing, Tea Party faction will escalate into even more serious actions and behaviors.
msongs
3. so what "religion" do all these little perps belong to? nt
kag
4. You made me cry.
I have a 13-year old. She would have stuck up for your daughter if she had been there. Hell, my 15-year-old son would have too. My greatest anger goes to the teacher who is telling these kids that Limbaugh is a reasonable person to listen to.
I would have some choice words for the admins at that school. And my daughter would have a few mental-health days coming at the movies with me, eating popcorn and forgetting about ugly people.
I just don't understand why people must teach their children to be such loathsome, insecure, petty people.
Hugs to you and your daughter. She is a VERY brave person for trying to handle it on her own. I only wish she hadn't needed to.
The Backlash Cometh
6. This really drives the point home.
Limbaugh's destabilizing campaign is working. I hope the barrage of criticism against him continues.
Tennessee Gal
7. This story is horrific.
I just read the entire article and am quite dismayed.
It is solid evidence of what can happen in real life to innocents subjected to bullying due to the rants of ignorant assholes like Limbaugh and the just as complicit mothers of those girls who did the bullying.
When I have the time I plan to read all the comments and suggestions made below the article.
Thank you for posting it, kpete.
dickthegrouch
8. That's a school with a serious bullying problem
The 16 year-old needs to tell the bullies that they will be hypocrites if they use novocain next time they have their teeth cleaned. They will be interrupting another god-given function of the body - pain!
Incitatus
10. And Republicans take offense to the term hate radio. nt
shcrane71
13. A Limbaugh fan, and FB friend reiterated Rush's diatribe against women on my page.
This person is a pastor's wife, and a school teacher.
Americans have given Rush his microphone on our public airwaves. He's abused his privileges by spewing filth, and indecency. He's solicited pornography over our airwaves. Howard Stern had to move to XM radio in order to say things that are outside the bounds of common decency, Rush should have to do the same.
shcrane71
18. So true, and Stern wasn't in as many markets as Rush is in. In MANY of the markets that carry
the Limbaugh show, there really is little or no competition. Certainly, there's not competition from talk radio. It's either country music, religious programming, and right-wing hate radio. And we wonder why whole populations subjected to that kind of propaganda for 20+ years has been consistently voting for right-wing extremist.
Update #2 I have been asked to update my post with this link to the petition to remove Rush Limbaugh from the Armed Forces Radio Network. Please, if you haven't done so, go sign this petition! We need to fight back- we need this idiot removed from the airways.
Update #3 I forgot to say "thank you" for sending this to the top of the Rec List! I am so very grateful to all of you for your kind words and great advice! I need to take a little break- my family is going to take an afternoon trip together. Just get out of the house, and maybe go to a movie or shopping. I will be back later to comment and interact with all of you! BTW, I also wanted to say, I am not handling this all by myself- Beantown dad is very much involved! However, I cannot print anything he has to say on this matter right now :-) He is beginning to calm down but this has devastated him as much (if not more) than it has me. His baby is being attacked and he just wants to mangle everyone involved! So, a break will do us all good I imagine! I will be back...
kpete
I've spent the past 2 days trying to convince my 16 y/o she is not a "slut"
Response to kpete (Original post)Sun Mar 4, 2012, 12:22 PMKag was actually moved to tears over this laughable bouncy? How big of a sucker would you have to be? I know that the DUmmies are stupid, but they can't expect us to believe that they're this stupid. I didn't see a single skeptical comment. I guess if you can believe that Sandra Fluke is a naive coed, you'll believe just about anything.
kag
4. You made me cry.
If a girl wonders whether she's a slut, she probably is.
... take birth control pills to alleviate severe acne.
Okay, trying to not judge here but why would she be on birth control if she is not sexually active? I keep open an honest comunication with my daughter for this reason. I was pregnant at 15 with the same man I am with today,( but was unable to support a child) hate that I had to decide but did decide on an abortion. I wouldn't just tell my daughter she has to be protected from my choices in life and put her on bc because of it. Now if its because of a history of female problems, ie, irregular periods ect. I would think that would have been part of your original post. But at that age, girls brag, and I can assure you she most have told so called friends or this would not even be an issue worth posting.
Some oral contraceptives can be effective against acne. Some can be effective against debilitating cramps.
This isn't the fault of Republicans. Blame the Democrats who tried to muddy a discussion about the First Amendment by throwing in that chica and her birth control rant.
Okay, trying to not judge here but why would she be on birth control if she is not sexually active? I keep open an honest comunication with my daughter for this reason. I was pregnant at 15 with the same man I am with today,( but was unable to support a child) hate that I had to decide but did decide on an abortion. I wouldn't just tell my daughter she has to be protected from my choices in life and put her on bc because of it. Now if its because of a history of female problems, ie, irregular periods ect. I would think that would have been part of your original post. But at that age, girls brag, and I can assure you she most have told so called friends or this would not even be an issue worth posting.
Which as I said, I'd have no problem with a doctor prescribing them for those reasons, but many insurance companies might not cover it since they are not FDA approved for those purposes.
There are some medical reasons why girls/women are put on birth control pills, but the majority of the time it's for birth control.
Ok, call me crazy here but HOW THE HELL DOES THE STUDENT BODY EVEN KNOW SHE IS ON BIRTH CONTROL????? Unless of course she is in fact a slut.
That is all.
Agreed but being a newbie didn't want to be a total bitch that said outright, yeah she's a slut if she's out bragging about being on bc so she can sleep with more guys and not worry about it.
I have never heard that birth control pills were efficacious for acne. My wife, who is a Nurse, says she thinks it does, but I can't imagine it's an FDA approved use for the drug. But, as always, I could be wrong.
I wondered that, too. Kids say stupid things that come back and bite them on the hip pockets once in a while. Mine would have been in trouble for blabbing something like this. Then I would have told them, "It will pass. I guess you had to learn this the hard way. You'll be okay."I agree with this. I'd bet dollars to doughnuts that she talked about getting laid to a girlfriend, and the girlfriend couldn't keep her mouth shut.
... take birth control pills to alleviate severe acne.Yes, of course. Young men have been telling young girls forever that having sex will clear up their complexions.
http://acne.about.com/od/acnetreatments/a/bcpills.htmWell, I read the article, and I must admit you found a very nice tactful way of letting me know I am wrong. I was wrong, and I'm sorry that I was wrong. But not so sorry as when I have to tell my wife she was right, again.
Apparently, three are approved by the FDA, but only when other treatments are not working.
She does have remarkably clear skin for a 30-year-old woman.Good one.
This whole story is BS yet DU and the people at Dailykos (well over 500 replies so far) are lapping it up. I read the story to my husband. Didn't tell him where it was from or my opinion and he said it was a bunch of crap. Why are liberals so willing to suspend reality when one of their own spin these tall tales?
My 18 year old daughter is on birth control for heavy periods. She is on the lowest dose and that seems to be working for her so far. She had terrible periods that lasted close to two weeks every month before she started the pill. I use to have terrible periods too until I had an endometrial ablation.
This whole story is BS yet DU and the people at Dailykos (well over 500 replies so far) are lapping it up. I read the story to my husband. Didn't tell him where it was from or my opinion and he said it was a bunch of crap. Why are liberals so willing to suspend reality when one of their own spin these tall tales?
*Final update tonight*
4. Someone just noted that this diary is being questioned as "too coincidental". I have no response to this. I won't try to dignify this with a response.
The beantown Koskiddie who made up this story writes...Quote*Final update tonight*
4. Someone just noted that this diary is being questioned as "too coincidental". I have no response to this. I won't try to dignify this with a response.
There's nothing to respond to that won't make your lie even more obvious. You have no dignity, you anti-American trash, so just shut up.
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That one bounced so high it cleared Earth orbit two hours ago.
:bouncy: :bouncy: :bouncy: :bouncy: :bouncy:
Okay, trying to not judge here but why would she be on birth control if she is not sexually active? I keep open an honest comunication with my daughter for this reason. I was pregnant at 15 with the same man I am with today,( but was unable to support a child) hate that I had to decide but did decide on an abortion. I wouldn't just tell my daughter she has to be protected from my choices in life and put her on bc because of it. Now if its because of a history of female problems, ie, irregular periods ect. I would think that would have been part of your original post. But at that age, girls brag, and I can assure you she most have told so called friends or this would not even be an issue worth posting.
*Final update tonight*
4. Someone just noted that this diary is being questioned as "too coincidental". I have no response to this. I won't try to dignify this with a response.
I have never heard that birth control pills were efficacious for acne. My wife, who is a Nurse, says she thinks it does, but I can't imagine it's an FDA approved use for the drug. But, as always, I could be wrong.
I used it for acne in high school, but it wasn't as effective as I would have liked, and it ended up making me really depressed so I stopped using it. There was a bit of SHTF moment when my dad found out I was taking the BC pill.
However, I would like to say that numerous girls were using in at my high school, and I never heard anyone say anything against them using it.
However, I would like to say that numerous girls were using in at my high school, and I never heard anyone say anything against them using it.
Another bouncy ripped from the headlines. They do this all the time. It's lazy, uncreative, unoriginal, predictable. And the DUmbasses lap it up every time. Why don't they ever reach that age when a healthy dose of cynicism kicks in?
we need this idiot removed from the airways.
Awesome post, Deb! Hi-5.
Dead on.
They say "slut" like its a bad thing.
It's 'cause they're haters.And haters gotta hate.
Where's Jeff Foxworthy?
If you lost your cherry to stevenumbers at age 12....you might be a slut.
I have to agree, I was raised in a pretty darn Red State and even in the late 60s, nobody would have thought anything of it...nor did I with my own daughter 30 years later, even well-centered people make relational mistakes, and I'd much rather she was on the pill than struggling to support both herself and a living memento of some dumbshit loser whom she thought was cute, edgy, and interesting one night in her junior year of HS.
Seeing as being a "slut" is a "badge of honor" for a lot of high school girls...this one may have been trying to earn it.
Whether by action or dialog, we don't know.
Actually I think that was kind of the point that we came away with in our conversation with the 2 young Spanish girls we were talking to.
They lined up behind my daughter to get their lunch tray and started in on her. "Birth control whore", "I told my mom you were on the pill and she said you were nothing but a little tramp" "My mom said some guy she listens to on the radio was just talking about girls like you- he even said you were a slut!" "Yeah, my mom said the same thing, said it's about time people spoke up and weren't afraid to tell the truth"!
I went on the pill a couple of months after turning 18 (1971), after many years of being a horrendous bitch in incredible pain, vomiting and having to leave class/school after I passed out (which is incredibly embrarassing when it was occurring once a month :censored: ).
At the time I went on it, my periods were very erratic. I could have one, then less than 3 weeks later, have another, or I could go 6 weeks without one. It could last 3 or 4 days or as long as 10 or 11. I started out on the lowest dosage, and ended up on the strongest within months. Even on the pill, I still had 7 day periods, but at least I knew when they were going to show up, and though still on pain meds for a couple of days, at least I wasn't throwing up and passing out.
I was on it for 7 years, got pregnant with my daughter 3 months later. (yes, I was married and had been for a year). Was on it again in between kids, and back on it after my second. at 29. I also had my first ovary removed at 31 after the scar tissue from so many burst cysts at made the ovary attach to my abdominal wall. It was during the surgery, that my GYN said I'd have to have it all out within a few years, because not only was my uterus very tilted( he couldn't figure out how I was able to get pregnant without medical help) but that it was "constructed" the way it was supposed to be.
Not ONE time, did my insurance ever pay for my BC pills. Not one penny of the $3.50 a month they cost me. On the other hand, insurance did pay for my pain pills which were considerably more expensive.
My cousin, her daughter, and my daughter have all had trouble with their "parts" and their malfunctions from the time they were in their early teens. Kinda makes one wonder if the problems aren't somewhat genetic.
I recognize this is all TMI, but this whole birth control issue makes me livid!!!
The government does not belong in a woman's reproductive system. It should be between a woman and her doctor. The only onther individuals that should be involved are either a husband or a parent. NO ONE ELSE.
The only others who should be involved would be God and a woman's priest/pastor if wanted/needed.
NO way should a bunch of hot-air politicians who think they know more than anybody else about everything else.
I am so sick and tired of abortion being brought into political races. There is more debate about abortion, and now birth control, than there is anything else!!
Hello????? I can't make a living as a realtor anymore because of the mortgage/housing mess. I don't qualify for unemployment because I'm self employed. Yes, it was MY choice to be self-employed, but I didn't expect my chosen career to go belly up for 3+ years either. There are 1000's of people in our country, that are/were self employed like me, who, if lucky have found other jobs in the meantime....most making a fraction of what they were 4+years ago!!
Hello????? We're in a f'n war and the f'n President of the United States is spending day after day APOLOGIZING to the f'n enemy because a few copies of their Holy Book was burned. Ones that were damaged by being written in, and were disposed of the PROPER way. Yet he apologizes while the f'n people we are supposed to be liberating are killing our soldiers in retaliation!!! I might add that HE is the one who put us back full force into Afghanistan!!
And that's only a tip of the mess that the Middle East is these days. And let's not forget that those bastards want us all dead.
Hello???? Our manufacturing companies are falling by the wayside, because they can't survive anymore. Whether it be from the union demands or importation from the far east and South America.
And it goes on and on and on.....
And these F's are doin' nothing but talkin' about birth control and abortion!!!
I DON'T WANT TO HEAR IT ANYMORE!!!!!!
Oh...and in regards to the original post....the kids(girls) at school wouldn't have known this girl was on the pill IF SHE HADN'T TOLD EITHER THEM OR ANOTHER FRIEND WHO BLABBED IT ALL OVER THE DAMN SCHOOL!!!
Kids are cruel. Particularly girls and they are wicked cruel by the time they get to high school. They use whatever "weapon" they can to attack the one they don't like. In this girl's case, they knew about the BC pills, and regardless of why the girl takes them, the little bitches are going to use that information in the meanest, cruelest way possible.
Where's Jeff Foxworthy?
If you lost your cherry to stevenumbers at age 12....you might be a slut.
Oh, and about the acne cure, Proactive I believe is the name of the current hot fix for ace in teenagers.
My daughter keeps telling me this is what is the norm for 7th graders. *SMH* there were two kids caught in 6th grade that were masterbating each other under the desk in class. Boy was expelled from the school, girl said she didn't ask for it or want it, called the cops and pressed rape charges so she wouldn't get in trouble at school. I call bullshit, how can you be in a class full of kids and teacher and not draw attention to unwanted advances. My daughter would have stood up and yelled "get your Fin hands off me!" I don't know how I will handle HS!
Bull. Complete total fabrication. This is not the way teenagers speak to each other. This is adult trying to sound like what they think teenagers would say and failing.
+1
BTW my daughter is on the pill, low dose, to prevent acne. Doctors orders.
No one has called her a slut. If they did, I'd make them pound sand, with their face.
My daughter, who is a senior, said this weekend that there are at least four girls in one of her classes that are obviously pregnant. I asked if they were treated any differently and she said no, no one seems to care. On one hand I'm glad the girls aren't treated as outcasts, on the other hand it says a lot about our society that no one seems to think its a big deal.
I have stressed to my girls (and my son) that they only have ONE first time. You can't take it back, there are no "do-overs". They are worth more than some guy's (or girl, in the case of my son) good time. I have always used the way my husband treats me as an example of how they should expect to be treated (or the way to treat someone in the case of my son) and NEVER accept anything less.
Exactly. And I tell my kids the only 100% sure fire way to not get (or get someone) pregnant is to not have sex.
My daughter is now on BC to control diagnosed PMDD. We waited until after she turned 18, to see if it would "straighten out" on its own. I'm really concerned that these girls are on BC so very young, while their bodies are still trying to mature. There are consequences to long term hormone pills, sometimes including infertility (as happened to one of my friends whose parents put her on BC pills at 14).
I just asked my daughter if anything like this has happened at her school. She informed me she was one of the last of the girls she knows to go on the pill, but no one really cares. They know who the sluts are and it's not because they take the pill.
kpete
I've spent the past 2 days trying to convince my 16 y/o she is not a "slut"
SUN MAR 04, 2012 AT 06:30 AM PST
I've spent the past 2 days trying to convince my 16 y/o she is not a "slut"
bybeantown momFollow
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................. We sat down on the couch and she just cried for what seemed like forever. I held her and cried with her and said more things that I just can't remember now!
Finally I got her calmed down enough to tell me the story from the beginning. The note was in her locker when she opened it before her first class. She was so upset that she went to her teacher in first period and asked to be excused to go to the bathroom. She said for first and second period she tried not to be too upset- she cried a little bit but was just trying to figure out who would leave such a piece of trash in her locker. By third period, she had shown the note to a couple of her friends and they were so helpful, trying to play detective and at the same time telling her she should just ignore the stupid people! She managed to get through a math quiz and Spanish test and headed off to lunch in a pretty solid frame of mind.
And that's when it really fell apart; apparently, the girls from the day before were the authors of the note. They lined up behind my daughter to get their lunch tray and started in on her. "Birth control whore", "I told my mom you were on the pill and she said you were nothing but a little tramp" "My mom said some guy she listens to on the radio was just talking about girls like you- he even said you were a slut!" "Yeah, my mom said the same thing, said it's about time people spoke up and weren't afraid to tell the truth"! They laughed, they harassed, they said so many things my daughter couldn't begin to remember it all- she walked back to her table without food and told her friends what was going on. She cried through lunch and through the rest of the day. She said she almost went to the office to call me to come get her but she was trying to be strong and not let them win!
The last class of the day, however, was the final straw- it's her history class and 2 of these little monsters are in the class with her. They start the class off by talking about current events. One of the little witches brought up Rush Limbaugh and the (male) teacher said that he was an American Icon- sometimes he says things that can be construed as insensitive but overall, he was one of the few people left in today's media who was not afraid to speak the truth! The girls began to laugh and the conversation apparently changed. I don't think the teacher had any clue as to what was going on. My daughter said the rest of the class was just a blur- when the bell rang, she ran to her locker and down to the bathroom.
I asked my daughter how these girls found out about her being on birth control. It had to have come from someone on the trip, but we have no idea who. It doesn't matter, really, I just would like to know. My daughter looked at me so innocent, so very sad and asked me "Am I a slut because I take a prescription birth control pill? I don't take it because I am having sex, I take it to help my periods- am I a bad person, Mom?"
AM I A BAD PERSON? My 16 year old daughter asked me if she was a bad person because she is on the pill! Who are we? What century do we live in? Who in the hell has the right to say these things? Who does Rush Limbaugh think he is? Why is he allowed to say these things and hurt people? Why have I spent the last 2 days trying to convince my 16 year old that she is not a slut?
On Monday, I am going to my child's high school and meeting with her counselor and principal. I don't yet know what I am going to say but I know this- nothing is going to take away the pain my daughter felt, the humiliation she felt, the indignation she felt. Nothing will make this all O.K., nothing will take us back to before this all happened. As a parent, you want to protect your child from hurt and pain. I didn't protect my child from this- I can only try to make sure that she suffers no more at the hands of these little witches. Or ignorant assholes like Rush Limbaugh.
the rest:
http://www.dailykos.com/s...s-not-a-slut-?via=siderec
She probably hasn't told all her little girlfriends, nor the not so friends.
Ever since Accutane was taken off of the market, dermatologists have tried to find something that works without the bad side effects.
My skin was great when I was on the pill. Went to hell in a hand basket after the first ovary was removed and I finally went on Accutane at 35 when nothing else would work. My daughter was on it at 14.
I took my daughter to the GYN before she started college, to go on the pill. For 2 reasons. One she had the wicked periods that were getting progressively worse. And I wanted to make sure if she "took stupid", got drunk or someone slipped her a roofie, she at least wouldn't get pregnant. I also thought it would be better to be proactive and be on the pill than to have to make a decision what to do if she did get pregnant. She had just turned 18.
AM I A BAD PERSON? My 16 year old daughter asked me if she was a bad person because she is on the pill! Who are we? What century do we live in? Who in the hell has the right to say these things? Who does Rush Limbaugh think he is? Why is he allowed to say these things and hurt people? Why have I spent the last 2 days trying to convince my 16 year old that she is not a slut?
If your first lesson in drivers ed was learning to sit up in a car...you might be a slut.
Exactly. And I tell my kids the only 100% sure fire way to not get (or get someone) pregnant is to not have sex.
If its a skin issue I would advise checking out the natural benefits of coconut oil and tea tree. One of my favorite things about our Drs they don't automatically pull out the RX pad.
If its just a loose girl issue, I advise not opening your legs to everyone that says I love you.
Thank you for the suggestion!! I have very mild acne and redness. My dermatologist gave me two different creams to use after washing my face. The creams work, but I need something better to wash my face with other then the store bought stuff that does not work!! Proactiv doesn't even work.
My wife had the same issue until she had all the...........lady parts removed. A 2 week period was the norm. Poor woman was miserable. Now.........IT"S WHOOPIE TIME. :-)
My daughter is having the same issues...at 14. :panic:
I remember way back when I was 16. I had a 15 year old girl friend, and we were very sexually active. She just went down to the liberals favourite place...Planned Parenthood.
They gave her the Pill...no charge.
BTW Is a bitter, man hating, liberal moonbat of a woman really in any danger of becoming pregnant?
I know that one shouldn't answer a question with another question, but the answer is . . . Would Stevenumbers hit it? :???: :fuelfire:
Took momma two days to tell her daughter, "You are not a slut...you are an unpaid sex worker."
I know that one shouldn't answer a question with another question, but the answer is . . . Would Stevenumbers hit it? :???: :fuelfire:
My daughter is now on BC to control diagnosed PMDD. We waited until after she turned 18, to see if it would "straighten out" on its own. I'm really concerned that these girls are on BC so very young, while their bodies are still trying to mature. There are consequences to long term hormone pills, sometimes including infertility (as happened to one of my friends whose parents put her on BC pills at 14).
I just asked my daughter if anything like this has happened at her school. She informed me she was one of the last of the girls she knows to go on the pill, but no one really cares. They know who the sluts are and it's not because they take the pill.
On Monday, I am going to my child's high school and meeting with her counselor and principal. I don't yet know what I am going to say but I know this- nothing is going to take away the pain my daughter felt, the humiliation she felt, the indignation she felt. Nothing will make this all O.K., nothing will take us back to before this all happened. As a parent, you want to protect your child from hurt and pain. I didn't protect my child from this- I can only try to make sure that she suffers no more at the hands of these little witches. Or ignorant assholes like Rush Limbaugh.
On Monday, I am going to my child's high school and meeting with her counselor and principal. I don't yet know what I am going to say but I know this- nothing is going to take away the pain my daughter felt, the humiliation she felt, the indignation she felt. Nothing will make this all O.K., nothing will take us back to before this all happened. As a parent, you want to protect your child from hurt and pain. I didn't protect my child from this- I can only try to make sure that she suffers no more at the hands of these little witches. Or ignorant assholes like Rush Limbaugh.
OK, gang. I figured it out. DUH!!
Statement One:
Statement Two:
Here is what I get:
I don't think that the REAL target of her wrath are the girls, or even Rush. The REAL target is the TEACHER who has the NERVE to support Rush Limbaugh! I think that she's going to try to get this teacher sacked, or at least put on notice, that since he supports Rush, that she's going to organize something.
In short, she's going to pull a Sandra Fluke herself.
There. Answer solved.
I got the paragard copper iud after this last baby but I am going to get it taken out. If I get pregnant, I get pregnant and it's God's will. I don't like anything foreign inside me (shutup).
Sounds like our Australian and Canadian friends are out of luck, then.
OK, gang. I figured it out. DUH!!Someone has forgotten that DUmmies lie, all the time, about every single thing.
Statement One:
Statement Two:
Here is what I get:
I don't think that the REAL target of her wrath are the girls, or even Rush. The REAL target is the TEACHER who has the NERVE to support Rush Limbaugh! I think that she's going to try to get this teacher sacked, or at least put on notice, that since he supports Rush, that she's going to organize something.
In short, she's going to pull a Sandra Fluke herself.
There. Answer solved.
That story is about as true as this one
http://www.dailykos.com/story/2012/02/26/1068434/-Banker-Leaves-1-Tip-on-133-Bill-to-Show-His-Disdain-for-the-99-
That turned out to be a LIE also.
I tell you, the DUmmies just like drama. Any little thing gets them all pissy.
Speaking of acne, my son was on accutane in high school. That was a miracle drug for him. I had to fill out questionaires every month. The drug company wanted to make sure he wasn't female and was on or using no less than 3 methods of birth control. The doctor confirmed he was male. :-)
I'm showing my age here but I assumed girls today were more sophisticated than we were back in the day. You'd think being on birth control pills would make you cool and Mom super cool. What do I know.
I am someone that has infertility issues (my body can easily get pregnant yet I can't hold onto the pregnancy). You wouldn't believe how many women on my fertility sites have been screwed over by the pill. Their bodies and fertility get so screwed up by the pill that when they do come off of it after deciding to conceive it takes years for their body to right itself if it even ever does.
I got the paragard copper iud after this last baby but I am going to get it taken out. If I get pregnant, I get pregnant and it's God's will. I don't like anything foreign inside me (shutup).
I am someone that has infertility issues (my body can easily get pregnant yet I can't hold onto the pregnancy). You wouldn't believe how many women on my fertility sites have been screwed over by the pill. Their bodies and fertility get so screwed up by the pill that when they do come off of it after deciding to conceive it takes years for their body to right itself if it even ever does.I was just thinking: on the one hand, liberals are demanding everything be "natural" especially when it comes to the food they put in their bodies. At the same time, they want free, unnatural drugs to stop their bodies from taking their natural course after coitus.
I got the paragard copper iud after this last baby but I am going to get it taken out. If I get pregnant, I get pregnant and it's God's will. I don't like anything foreign inside me (shutup).
I was just thinking: on the one hand, liberals are demanding everything be "natural" especially when it comes to the food they put in their bodies. At the same time, they want free, unnatural drugs to stop their bodies from taking their natural course after coitus.Libs are a collection of integrated paradoxes.
Go figure.
You're not showing your age. I am 28 years old and when I was in high school, nobody bragged about being on BC. I cannot recall a single person from high school that bragged about it.I can't imagine that girls would ever want to risk being thought of as a slut, except in the inner city, where bearing a taxpayer-supported bastard is a badge of honor.
Libs are a collection of integrated paradoxes.
Within an enigma perhaps?I like where you went with this. As I reviewed your link I found a possibly more appropriate description of libs. Misery wrapped in an enema.
http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/ARiddleWrappedInAMysteryInsideAnEnigma
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I like where you went with this. As I reviewed your link I found a possibly more appropriate description of libs. Misery wrapped in an enema.
If ya can't hold an aspirin between yer knees, ya might be a slut!
Oh, shit! Ya suggest abstinence! You'd be infringing on their sexuality!
According to these liberal slugs, whenever you decide to spread yer legs, that's when you should let little Johny have his way with you! After all, if you' as a parent gets involved your crimpin' their style! To discourage that is a crime against humanity!