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Title: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: SSG Snuggle Bunny on January 11, 2012, 01:44:23 PM
Nevermind the fact that the thought of dirty hippies grinding against each other in sweaty, mucus-slickedened clumsy groping makes my stomach somersault; they're shreding each other over there.

The following collection is from the first couple of pages:

Prostitution is violence: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002142688

I have visited prostitutes, and I don't apologize for it. It was 1971, in a place called Vung Tau.: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002150556

Is stripping also violence: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002149605

"Normal" Sexuality: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002153363

What Consenting Adults Do In Private Is Their Own Business. Period.: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002148428

Is the male ego so fragile that that some feel the need [to objectify women?]: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002151402

Andaman tour operators offer 'human safari' to visitors, video shows Jarawa women dance for tourists: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002154000

The lies men tell themselves about prostitution and strippers: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002153158

Surrogate sex partner inspires story, film: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002151147



It's strange. You'd think the people who eschew morality, gender roles and  plain ol' biology wouldn't be so confused and tumulted over something so basic as sex.
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: Chris_ on January 11, 2012, 02:04:32 PM
"Surrogate sex partners"  :rotf:

These idiots kill me.
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: Revolution on January 11, 2012, 02:11:02 PM
Since their whole universe over there is perverse, why would you expect it to be any different with sex. In fact, it might be MORE perverse. I mean, just look at what they accept as "the norm."

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Nevermind the fact that the thought of dirty hippies grinding against each other in sweaty, mucus-slickedened clumsy groping makes my stomach somersault; they're shreding each other over there.

Many DUmors have many sexual kinks Sarge. It's not for us to judge....

 :whatever:
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: Karin on January 11, 2012, 03:02:19 PM
Just another clash of the liberals.  The anything-goes crowd vs. the frigid feminists.  Stop looking there!  My eyes are up here! 

I dunno.  I'm still traumatized by SubAtomic's too-much-information. 

Poor Stevenumbers.  I'll bet he feels left out. 
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: jukin on January 11, 2012, 03:29:24 PM
IHMO, more apropos is "They're fighting over NO sex a lot."

Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: Maxiest on January 11, 2012, 03:30:21 PM
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Charlemagne (450 posts) Profile Journal Send DU Mail Ignore

"I have heard (in a feminism class I took as an undergrad in 2005."

Hmmmmm...  I have no idea why you guys can't find any jobs.   :sarcasm:

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However, I have also heard that stripping is demeaning; it objectifies women; and promotes, if not celebrates, the culture of rape.

Are these they same people who love and promote events like the Folsom Street Parade?

I am so confused.

It's like the other recent thread about abortion.  You are either for it or against it, you can't change your mind every day to fit your small minded agenda.

Oh and...

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lildreamer316 (14,776 posts) Profile Journal Send DU Mail Ignore
36. It was empowering to me.

I enjoyed it thoroughly. It gave me more confidence in my body and in my self,although I was not really suffering from a problem there.

I spent 14 years in the business.

I bet...

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obamanut2012
9. It is often a financial necessity for women

Which is what I think the real question is for all of us, as a society.

I suggest everyone read the chapter on going to a strip club in Norah Vincent's "Self-Made Man."

We knew it was coming,  I am just surprised the DUmmie didn't say it was Bush's fault.

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seabeyond (66,561 posts) Profile Journal Send DU Mail Ignore
16. a woman stands there naked, a man clothed. man holds dollar for entertainment for her to eat.

where is her empowerment?

ALERT, ALERT! CODE PINKER!


I love watching them fight among themselves.   :popcorn:
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: JakeStyle on January 11, 2012, 03:44:41 PM
I'm surprised that w8liftinglady hasn't chimed in on the hooker threads.  She used to go on and on about how she paid her way through college by working as a dominatrix.
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: Airwolf on January 11, 2012, 04:26:31 PM
I don't know how much or if any dancers at the clubs have to give to the owners but if I made what they make I'd be doing it too. There are tons of places with dancers working the poles and they don;t exactly go away with minimum wages.
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: zeitgeist on January 11, 2012, 04:36:36 PM
"Surrogate sex partners"  :rotf:

These idiots kill me.

(http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/6405/456/400/surrogate%20wife.jpg)

 :lol:
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: SSG Snuggle Bunny on January 11, 2012, 04:42:39 PM
DU is in near-riots over anything involving sex but supposedly conservatives are so repressed we're only capable of thinking with our dicks:

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Bandit (18,701 posts) Profile Journal Send DU Mail Ignore

I think Romney will choose a woman for his VP pick and I have a hunch
it will be Nikki Haley.. She doesn't seem nearly as stupid as Sarah Palin and every bit as pretty. Being Pretty means more to Republicans than either competence or intelligence..IMO

http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002154983
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: zeitgeist on January 11, 2012, 04:49:20 PM
DU is in near-riots over anything involving sex but supposedly conservatives are so repressed we're only capable of thinking with our dicks:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002154983

I use to have a great Adbot capture for a "Gay" Alaskan cruise. Adbot certainly knew its audience.

Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: JohnnyReb on January 11, 2012, 06:03:33 PM
I use to have a great Adbot capture for a "Gay" Alaskan cruise. Adbot certainly knew its audience.



Now that right there shows how stupid DUmmies are...especially the queer ones... everyone knows that ice cold water and dicks don't mix....not only do you get the shrinkage factor, you get the limpage factor too.
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: Maxiest on January 11, 2012, 09:09:11 PM
Now that right there shows how stupid DUmmies are...especially the queer ones... everyone knows that ice cold water and dicks don't mix....not only do you get the shrinkage factor, you get the limpage factor too.

Shrinkage+Limpage=No-goage.
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: MoshMasterD on January 12, 2012, 03:47:22 AM
I recall a long time ago, this DUchebagger chick wrote that her husband is going to marry their lover.  Yes, poligamy.  And boy,did the DUmp cheer!
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: vesta111 on January 12, 2012, 06:52:05 AM
I recall a long time ago, this DUchebagger chick wrote that her husband is going to marry their lover.  Yes, poligamy.  And boy,did the DUmp cheer!

I have no problem with woman that have to live by their Witt's, my problem is with the MEN that are paracits that live off them.

As a Conservative I believe people should be allowed to go into any business they wish and are good at. A girl that spends 5 years in dance school that has not the talent to go on Broadway and is stuck at a job selling shoes is going no where.  A girl that spends 5 years learning to pole dance and makes $500.00 a night, well that takes talent.

REALITY here, the DC Madam did not round up girls on the streets, she hired girls with class, in college and those just out of college with a degree in something to allow them to actually talk to the men with money.

These girls were not the bimbos that Hugh Hefner had at his home, none of them would want to be caught dead in that place.

Rumors were that the Water Gate breaking was to actually get the books on the high class hookers that had in fact married some of Washingtons high up was more plausible then looking for the accounts of campane donors.

Sex is one thing it is hard to fight about.     Newport News VA. New law that strippers had to cover up their body's, guess what the rape reports went out of sight.     

With all businesses there is the graft paid to the cops and the extortion from the suppliers.    I am sure the purveyors of sex pay as much as the local Mom and Pop store on the corner.

Unfortunately Sex not a want but a need for humans of both sexes.   How can anyone fight about a need stronger then food or water???

I would like to know if not in a religious cult, those that go into sex with others, group sex can make it a life long commitment.

SEX is not LOVE, when age and medical problems arise, the lust is over, people have to depend on LOVE to keep them together.

Sex is there, even old people like me get aroused from time to time, but it is a personal thing that has nothing to do with Love. Yes we old ladys do get a quiver in our fanny from time to time.

Fighting about sex is akin to fighting about how much water someone should drink in a day.
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: Maxiest on January 12, 2012, 07:50:04 AM
I have no problem with woman that have to live by their Witt's, my problem is with the MEN that are paracits that live off them.

As a Conservative I believe people should be allowed to go into any business they wish and are good at. A girl that spends 5 years in dance school that has not the talent to go on Broadway and is stuck at a job selling shoes is going no where.  A girl that spends 5 years learning to pole dance and makes $500.00 a night, well that takes talent.

REALITY here, the DC Madam did not round up girls on the streets, she hired girls with class, in college and those just out of college with a degree in something to allow them to actually talk to the men with money.

These girls were not the bimbos that Hugh Hefner had at his home, none of them would want to be caught dead in that place.

Rumors were that the Water Gate breaking was to actually get the books on the high class hookers that had in fact married some of Washingtons high up was more plausible then looking for the accounts of campane donors.

Sex is one thing it is hard to fight about.     Newport News VA. New law that strippers had to cover up their body's, guess what the rape reports went out of sight.     

With all businesses there is the graft paid to the cops and the extortion from the suppliers.    I am sure the purveyors of sex pay as much as the local Mom and Pop store on the corner.

Unfortunately Sex not a want but a need for humans of both sexes.   How can anyone fight about a need stronger then food or water???

I would like to know if not in a religious cult, those that go into sex with others, group sex can make it a life long commitment.

SEX is not LOVE, when age and medical problems arise, the lust is over, people have to depend on LOVE to keep them together.

Sex is there, even old people like me get aroused from time to time, but it is a personal thing that has nothing to do with Love. Yes we old ladys do get a quiver in our fanny from time to time.

Fighting about sex is akin to fighting about how much water someone should drink in a day.

402 words of Wow!
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: SSG Snuggle Bunny on January 12, 2012, 07:56:51 AM
Fighting about sex is akin to fighting about how much water someone should drink in a day.

If you drink too much water you are guaranteed--not might, not could--but absolutely will kill yourself.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Water_intoxication

Analogies work best when you know something about both subjects.
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: DumbAss Tanker on January 12, 2012, 08:34:49 AM
I did not realize there was such a thing as sexually-transmitted stupidity.

 :whatever:
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: docstew on January 12, 2012, 08:48:04 AM
402 words of Wow!

BS for breaking the vow to not quote vesta
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: Maxiest on January 12, 2012, 08:57:52 AM
BS for breaking the vow to not quote vesta

Damn't I forgot...
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: GOBUCKS on January 12, 2012, 11:08:18 AM
I guess we'll always have that tiny handful of people who don't have vestanumbers on "ignore".

That's fine. People should be allowed to read whatever tripe they want.

But it's going too far to quote her, and force decent and civilized people to see her posts.

Quoting vestanumbers isn't much different from posting YouTube clips of a Frisco gay pride parade.
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: SSG Snuggle Bunny on January 12, 2012, 02:42:09 PM
But it's going too far to quote her...

Especially at length.

If people are going to do that they need to truncate the lunacy.
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: DumbAss Tanker on January 12, 2012, 02:46:17 PM
Frank's approach on that is worthy of emulation; a quote box but with all the content cut.  That way, the purpose, and referent for the post, is much clearer.
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: delilahmused on January 12, 2012, 03:47:00 PM
Yeah, these women feel so objectified! One of the premium channels had a series about the Bunny Ranch. Those women are treated with more respect (they have the sweetest little housemother) than most office clerks I've seen, they're pampered beyond belief and genuinely seem to love their jobs. And evidently women can be chauvinists against themselves and other women since porn stars like Jenna Jameson and Belladonna have their own production companies and earn scads and wads of money from each and every production. The women who work at Hooters (and actually applied for jobs there on their own) don't want the jobs because there's always some kind of sports playing on the TV's in the background. Some women actually like attention from men. What a concept.

Oh and women objectify men too. I could give a flying rat's ass if these guys are usually gay cuz those are damn hot bods! We have an all male revue that comes every year to our little bar in Yoncalla. The place is packed! I like the fireman and the black guy that comes out in spats and a tux and does Puttin' on the Ritz (does he ever!). Our husbands never seem to mind given the agitated state we come home in.

[youtube=425,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DNfpoQ4iRl8[/youtube]
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: vesta111 on January 13, 2012, 05:19:38 AM
Yeah, these women feel so objectified! One of the premium channels had a series about the Bunny Ranch. Those women are treated with more respect (they have the sweetest little housemother) than most office clerks I've seen, they're pampered beyond belief and genuinely seem to love their jobs. And evidently women can be chauvinists against themselves and other women since porn stars like Jenna Jameson and Belladonna have their own production companies and earn scads and wads of money from each and every production. The women who work at Hooters (and actually applied for jobs there on their own) don't want the jobs because there's always some kind of sports playing on the TV's in the background. Some women actually like attention from men. What a concept.

Oh and women objectify men too. I could give a flying rat's ass if these guys are usually gay cuz those are damn hot bods! We have an all male revue that comes every year to our little bar in Yoncalla. The place is packed! I like the fireman and the black guy that comes out in spats and a tux and does Puttin' on the Ritz (does he ever!). Our husbands never seem to mind given the agitated state we come home in.

[youtube=425,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DNfpoQ4iRl8[/youtube]

I love that link Delilah, shows the hypocrisy's of the male that can stop at a tittie bar and then find out their wives and girlfriends are headed out to watch male strippers.

Men can feel free to look at hooters but when his wife checks out a male dancers Package, Wow the SHTF.    .

Fear I would guess from the male that their woman is compairing another male to them. Fear that their woman may need more excitement then they can deliver. Fear that Gay males can turn on their woman more then they can.

Fear as they age they could loose their woman to a younger and sexier man then they---Who had a great body and all their hair.

Fear that while they stop for a drink after work their wives may do the same----they know well full and good why they do this, so when their woman does the same they become suspicious.

I found out many years ago that when a man out of the blue starts acting Jealous of his mate for no reason, the men do indeed have a reason, they themselves are up to no good.

I have seen this happen way to often to be pure coincidence, this also goes into the Gays and Lesbians I have worked with.   

Now as I seem to rile up the males posting here, I expect them  to turn into wolves, not quote me, just wonder how I a female can see into the no-no land of the male species. 

Age old question on sex, why do men get off watching tapes of lesbians in action????  This one I have not yet understood.   Any ideas ??????
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: JohnnyReb on January 13, 2012, 05:49:58 AM
Nevermind the fact that the thought of dirty hippies grinding against each other in sweaty, mucus-slickedened clumsy groping makes my stomach somersault; they're shreding each other over there.

The following collection is from the first couple of pages:

Prostitution is violence: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002142688

I have visited prostitutes, and I don't apologize for it. It was 1971, in a place called Vung Tau.: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002150556

Is stripping also violence: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002149605

"Normal" Sexuality: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002153363

What Consenting Adults Do In Private Is Their Own Business. Period.: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002148428

Is the male ego so fragile that that some feel the need [to objectify women?]: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002151402

Andaman tour operators offer 'human safari' to visitors, video shows Jarawa women dance for tourists: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002154000

The lies men tell themselves about prostitution and strippers: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002153158

Surrogate sex partner inspires story, film: http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002151147



It's strange. You'd think the people who eschew morality, gender roles and  plain ol' biology wouldn't be so confused and tumulted over something so basic as sex.

OK, I think I have figured this one out. DUmmie Cuckolds can't get other men to do their wives for them because their wyminz are so ugly that straight guys would rather risk a life threatening STD at the whorehouse than do DUmmie wyminz in front of their impotent DUmmie husbands.

Can't wait to see what Vesta has to say about this....... :lmao: :lmao:
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: jtyangel on January 13, 2012, 07:31:36 AM


  

Age old question on sex, why do men get off watching tapes of lesbians in action????  This one I have not yet understood.   Any ideas ??????

I suspect it's the visual treat of two female bodies compared to one, not necessarily the lesbian action itself, but the visual effect of two female shapes on the screen manipulating the other female's parts in a manner that puts those parts on center stage. It's an estrogen fest and let's face it, the kind of women a man is likely to see are usually pretty and well manipulated under a doctor's scalpel. I doubt it would be so visually stimulating if it was a bull dike and her partner or say nads and Pam(watching my bitchcount increase for that one).  :lmao:
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: BlueStateSaint on January 13, 2012, 07:33:33 AM
I suspect it's the visual treat of two female bodies compared to one, not necessarily the lesbian action itself, but the visual effect of two female shapes on the screen manipulating the other female's parts in a manner that puts those parts on center stage. It's an estrogen fest and let's face it, the kind of women a man is likely to see are usually pretty and well manipulated under a doctor's scalpel. I doubt it would be so visually stimulating if it was a bull dike and her partner or say nads and Pam(watching my bitchcount increase for that one).  :lmao:

Ask, and ye shall receive . . . :bitchslap:
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: jtyangel on January 13, 2012, 07:36:58 AM
Ask, and ye shall receive . . . :bitchslap:

Hee hee...I couldn't resist..sorry fellas :panic: :rofl: :-*
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: vesta111 on January 13, 2012, 07:51:12 AM
OK, I think I have figured this one out. DUmmie Cuckolds can't get other men to do their wives for them because their wyminz are so ugly that straight guys would rather risk a life threatening STD at the whorehouse than do DUmmie wyminz in front of their impotent DUmmie husbands.

Can't wait to see what Vesta has to say about this....... :lmao: :lmao:

HIMMMMMMM, you may be on to something here Johnny, Bits and pieces make sense.

Biker land, the land of the drug dealers and the macho man riding a hog comes to mind  .Lived near Oakland CA. and knew a few wives of the bikers in the neighborhood.    Interesting life they had.

Total different life style from any I had yet to see.   The Bikers married woman that were to stay home and have babys, some got so fat they had problems riding on the back of a bike.   The Bikers were for the most part family men, took care of their kids and when not out dealing drugs or robbing banks were mowing the lawn and taking the kids to school.

Their woman were an egnima to me, they were not the kind of woman that would walk into a bar and get picked up.

Some of the bikers were drop dead gorgious, body builders and succesfull business men.  Their wives were mostly over weight, --must have been good cooks-- and excepted life as it was.

I went to a biker Rally one year and saw my neighbors men with some of the skankiest woman, looked like they were strung out on something and these were the biker chicks.  Half dead from drugs ready to screw anything from a big dog to a donkey if told to.

Strange and interesting life style, the bikers were sure their wives would not stray from home and they were free to make use of the biker chicks with no problem with wife.

Then came the problem in the early 1970's one of the bikers wives who lived on the next street did the impossible, she lost 100 pounds, cut her hair and began to wear makeup.    Was she nuts, her husband was vice president of the club and she began to hang out at the club house.

This took a 2 year ordeal for her to loose the weight and the other wives took notice and began to drop their weight, wear makeup and learn to walk in high heels.

Oh crap. now the bikers that had no fear of loosing their woman now had  their own buddys  sizing their wives up .

"Oh shit man no one is gonna want to screw my woman, got a home and kids, no worries for me, I can get all the pussey cat I want outside my home, wife dont care as long as I bring in money."

Life doesn't all ways work that way. One night I was awoken by fire trucks and ambluence on the next street.   One Heck of a problem for the cops and the neighbors.

The bikers began to gather and the vibrations sent a few pictures off the walls.   What the heck was going on, seems the biker the vice president of the well known bikers club was getting upset over his wife and others over their wives coming down to the club house and running out the biker chicks.  To top it off the wives were becoming Hot as they slimed down.  Now some of the other clubs were checking them out.    OH-OH a bad moon on the rise.

Alot more of this rememberence but sure as shooting, it still goes on today.

A Song from the 1950's  " if you want to happy for the rest of your life, better to marry an ugly wife, she will never cheat on you and love you true blue."



Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: docstew on January 13, 2012, 08:50:07 AM
Jty: BS, not for the mental image, but for quoting vesta.
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: jtyangel on January 13, 2012, 09:04:10 AM
Jty: BS, not for the mental image, but for quoting vesta.

 :-)
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: AprilRazz on January 13, 2012, 11:23:00 AM
Confession time here....


Several years ago during the dark days of Clinton I was in need of money to keep a roof over our heads so I spent a year as an exotic dancer. It was slow going at first as one needs to invest a chunk of money into tools of the trade. Costumes and shoes/boots are not inexpensive. One can get by with some undies from the Walmart at first but to actually make money you need the professional gear.
Once I was properly outfitted I began to make real money. A slow night for me was about $300. This was after my house fee and tips to the bouncers and DJ. It was a decent club with a strict no funny business policy. IE prostitution, drug use and other illegal acts were not tolerated and you would be fired on the spot.

That said I noticed two types of dancers. Ones who had a good night and would show up for the next shift completely broke. Or the ones that were socking the money away.
The second group were the ones that would dance for a few years then hang it all up. They were smart with their money and usually used the proceeds to pay for school or buy property.
The first group are the ones that are still attempting to strip for money well into their 30's and 40's and never seem to get ahead.
As far as who was exploiting who? IMHO it was the men who were being exploited night after night. Dancers are first and foremost saleswomen. I have seen a woman on her game easily relieve a man of several hundred dollars by exploiting his sexuality. DH let on that as far as the primitive brain of the male goes its "Not that I haven't seen breasts, I just haven't seen hers". Unless you are one of the neutered males over at DU then the average red blooded male likes to look at an attractive member of the opposite sex.
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: BlueStateSaint on January 13, 2012, 11:25:04 AM
Confession time here....


Several years ago during the dark days of Clinton I was in need of money to keep a roof over our heads so I spent a year as an exotic dancer. It was slow going at first as one needs to invest a chunk of money into tools of the trade. Costumes and shoes/boots are not inexpensive. One can get by with some undies from the Walmart at first but to actually make money you need the professional gear.
Once I was properly outfitted I began to make real money. A slow night for me was about $300. This was after my house fee and tips to the bouncers and DJ. It was a decent club with a strict no funny business policy. IE prostitution, drug use and other illegal acts were not tolerated and you would be fired on the spot.

That said I noticed two types of dancers. Ones who had a good night and would show up for the next shift completely broke. Or the ones that were socking the money away.
The second group were the ones that would dance for a few years then hang it all up. They were smart with their money and usually used the proceeds to pay for school or buy property.
The first group are the ones that are still attempting to strip for money well into their 30's and 40's and never seem to get ahead.
As far as who was exploiting who? IMHO it was the men who were being exploited night after night. Dancers are first and foremost saleswomen. I have seen a woman on her game easily relieve a man of several hundred dollars by exploiting his sexuality. DH let on that as far as the primitive brain of the male goes its "Not that I haven't seen breasts, I just haven't seen hers". Unless you are one of the neutered males over at DU then the average red blooded male likes to look at an attractive member of the opposite sex.


H5 for the confession.  I'll give you another for getting out, in an hour or so.
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: AprilRazz on January 13, 2012, 11:27:48 AM
H5 for the confession.  I'll give you another for getting out, in an hour or so.
I was in the second group. Not only was I able to keep the bills paid I had a nice nest egg in the bank. Funny thing is my next job was in the US Navy. :rotf:
Can't say I am ashamed of doing either. Besides DH does like the fact that I kept the stripper boots. :-)
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: BlueStateSaint on January 13, 2012, 11:37:25 AM
I was in the second group. Not only was I able to keep the bills paid I had a nice nest egg in the bank. Funny thing is my next job was in the US Navy. :rotf:
Can't say I am ashamed of doing either. Besides DH does like the fact that I kept the stripper boots. :-)

Can't say I blame him! O-)
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: GOBUCKS on January 13, 2012, 12:02:24 PM
H5 for the confession.  I'll give you another for getting out, in an hour or so.
And a third one for a video clip.
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: AprilRazz on January 13, 2012, 12:06:20 PM
And a third one for a video clip.
Anything like that is in DH's private collection and I don't think he is giving that up any time soon.
But there are photos out there of me that a dedicated searcher could dig up. ;)
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: dutch508 on January 13, 2012, 12:08:13 PM
Several years ago during the dark days of Clinton I was in need of money to keep a roof over our heads so I spent a year as an exotic dancer.

Nothing wrong with that.

Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: delilahmused on January 13, 2012, 01:20:50 PM
Age old question on sex, why do men get off watching tapes of lesbians in action????  This one I have not yet understood.   Any ideas ??????

Well, generally, those women are only playing lesbian for the cameras. The Amber Heard lesbians are a rare breed. I seriously doubt any man (okay maybe a couple of ***** whipped DU "men") would want to watch Rachel Maddow and her life partner going at it. OTOH, my son always says (oh please dear Lord let it be just because he wants to freak his mom out), "Twins...the holy grail of dating!"

Cindie
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: docstew on January 13, 2012, 02:03:48 PM
Confession time here....


Several years ago during the dark days of Clinton I was in need of money to keep a roof over our heads so I spent a year as an exotic dancer. It was slow going at first as one needs to invest a chunk of money into tools of the trade. Costumes and shoes/boots are not inexpensive. One can get by with some undies from the Walmart at first but to actually make money you need the professional gear.
Once I was properly outfitted I began to make real money. A slow night for me was about $300. This was after my house fee and tips to the bouncers and DJ. It was a decent club with a strict no funny business policy. IE prostitution, drug use and other illegal acts were not tolerated and you would be fired on the spot.

That said I noticed two types of dancers. Ones who had a good night and would show up for the next shift completely broke. Or the ones that were socking the money away.
The second group were the ones that would dance for a few years then hang it all up. They were smart with their money and usually used the proceeds to pay for school or buy property.
The first group are the ones that are still attempting to strip for money well into their 30's and 40's and never seem to get ahead.
As far as who was exploiting who? IMHO it was the men who were being exploited night after night. Dancers are first and foremost saleswomen. I have seen a woman on her game easily relieve a man of several hundred dollars by exploiting his sexuality. DH let on that as far as the primitive brain of the male goes its "Not that I haven't seen breasts, I just haven't seen hers". Unless you are one of the neutered males over at DU then the average red blooded male likes to look at an attractive member of the opposite sex.


Thank you for your honesty.

Oh, and :picsneeded:
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: docstew on January 13, 2012, 02:04:47 PM
Well, generally, those women are only playing lesbian for the cameras. The Amber Heard lesbians are a rare breed. I seriously doubt any man (okay maybe a couple of ***** whipped DU "men") would want to watch Rachel Maddow and her life partner going at it. OTOH, my son always says (oh please dear Lord let it be just because he wants to freak his mom out), "Twins...the holy grail of dating!"

Cindie

BS for quoting vesta
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: thundley4 on January 13, 2012, 07:20:04 PM
Thank you for your honesty.

Oh, and :picsneeded:

Even if it's just her wearing the boots.  :popcorn:
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: Boudicca on January 13, 2012, 07:45:56 PM
I'm surprised that w8liftinglady hasn't chimed in on the hooker threads.  She used to go on and on about how she paid her way through college by working as a dominatrix.

 :bwah: :bwah:

I'm guessing 99% of her "clients" were lib males.
They really ARE that good at being told what to do.
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: Boudicca on January 13, 2012, 07:52:40 PM
I was in the second group. Not only was I able to keep the bills paid I had a nice nest egg in the bank. Funny thing is my next job was in the US Navy. :rotf:
Can't say I am ashamed of doing either. Besides DH does like the fact that I kept the stripper boots. :-)

Nowadays you can dance around his pole, yes? :naughty:
My husband went to strip joints before and after we got married.  Who gives a f***?  I would've only gotten pissed if he spent more than beer money there.
Never will forget the time my sister and I went on a three-day weekend to Amsterdam.  We had to wait half an hour at the train station upon our return to Frankfurt for our hubbies to pick us up.  Turns out they'd been a few streets over in the red light district watching the strippers.

My sister didn't talk to her husband for a friggin' week. ::)
I still laugh about the whole episode to this day.  Hubby tells me next time DD and I go to Vegas we should go see the Chippendales in action.
I'd much prefer watching Chip 'n Dale with our grandson though. :-)

Oh yeah, HI5 for the honesty too, AprilRazz.

Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: AprilRazz on January 14, 2012, 10:27:10 AM
Nowadays you can dance around his pole, yes? :naughty:
My husband went to strip joints before and after we got married.  Who gives a f***?  I would've only gotten pissed if he spent more than beer money there.
Never will forget the time my sister and I went on a three-day weekend to Amsterdam.  We had to wait half an hour at the train station upon our return to Frankfurt for our hubbies to pick us up.  Turns out they'd been a few streets over in the red light district watching the strippers.

My sister didn't talk to her husband for a friggin' week. ::)
I still laugh about the whole episode to this day.  Hubby tells me next time DD and I go to Vegas we should go see the Chippendales in action.
I'd much prefer watching Chip 'n Dale with our grandson though. :-)

Oh yeah, HI5 for the honesty too, AprilRazz.


The funny thing is that I saw more and more couples show up in the club. Most of the women were getting into it and having fun and were great tippers. There was the occasional one that would just sit and scowl at us.
I also had one regular that his wife would give him money once a month to come in with his friends. Nice guy who would just sit and talk with me most of the time. I was getting ready to call :bs: on his story until she came with him one night and confirmed it. It seemed that the night he goes he came back home loaded for bear so to speak and the sex was great. :rotf:

Some friends and I did go see Thunder From Down Under at the Excalibur and it was pretty good. ;)
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: Maxiest on January 14, 2012, 10:35:36 AM
Me and my wife used to go together all the time.  She didn't really like me going by myself, but when we both went we always had a good time.  And the sex afterwards was always amazing.  Call me kinky.
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: AprilRazz on January 14, 2012, 10:41:06 AM
Me and my wife used to go together all the time.  She didn't really like me going by myself, but when we both went we always had a good time.  And the sex afterwards was always amazing.  Call me kinky.
Kinky :-)

I loved the fun couples! I would dance for them then give the wife tips on how to do a lap dance at home. :lmao:
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: Boudicca on January 15, 2012, 09:01:45 PM
Yeah, these women feel so objectified! One of the premium channels had a series about the Bunny Ranch. Those women are treated with more respect (they have the sweetest little housemother) than most office clerks I've seen, they're pampered beyond belief and genuinely seem to love their jobs. And evidently women can be chauvinists against themselves and other women since porn stars like Jenna Jameson and Belladonna have their own production companies and earn scads and wads of money from each and every production. The women who work at Hooters (and actually applied for jobs there on their own) don't want the jobs because there's always some kind of sports playing on the TV's in the background. Some women actually like attention from men. What a concept.

Oh and women objectify men too. I could give a flying rat's ass if these guys are usually gay cuz those are damn hot bods! We have an all male revue that comes every year to our little bar in Yoncalla. The place is packed! I like the fireman and the black guy that comes out in spats and a tux and does Puttin' on the Ritz (does he ever!). Our husbands never seem to mind given the agitated state we come home in.

[youtube=425,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DNfpoQ4iRl8[/youtube]


 :lmao: :cheersmate:
Speaking of man meat :drool: anyone planning to catch the new season of Spartacus when it comes out on STARZ the 27th?
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: AprilRazz on January 16, 2012, 09:52:24 AM

 :lmao: :cheersmate:
Speaking of man meat :drool: anyone planning to catch the new season of Spartacus when it comes out on STARZ the 27th?
Will catch it when netflix shows it the next day. Pretty sad to hear of Andy Whitfield's passing though.
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: Ballygrl on January 16, 2012, 11:54:32 AM
I suspect it's the visual treat of two female bodies compared to one, not necessarily the lesbian action itself, but the visual effect of two female shapes on the screen manipulating the other female's parts in a manner that puts those parts on center stage. It's an estrogen fest and let's face it, the kind of women a man is likely to see are usually pretty and well manipulated under a doctor's scalpel. I doubt it would be so visually stimulating if it was a bull dike and her partner or say nads and Pam(watching my bitchcount increase for that one).  :lmao:

You mean men wouldn't get off watching an orgy that includes Helen Thomas/Nancy Pelosi/Rosie O'Donnell/Joy Behar and Janet Napolitano?
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: GOBUCKS on January 16, 2012, 01:32:47 PM
You mean men wouldn't get off watching an orgy that includes Helen Thomas/Nancy Pelosi/Rosie O'Donnell/Joy Behar and Janet Napolitano?
Some would.
Rule 34.
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: jtyangel on January 16, 2012, 03:23:55 PM
You mean men wouldn't get off watching an orgy that includes Helen Thomas/Nancy Pelosi/Rosie O'Donnell/Joy Behar and Janet Napolitano?

Well, there are people with fetishes...I guess I didn't account for those. :lmao:
Title: Re: So, what's up over at the Dump? They're fighting over sex a lot
Post by: Boudicca on January 22, 2012, 07:17:07 PM
Will catch it when netflix shows it the next day. Pretty sad to hear of Andy Whitfield's passing though.

Oh yeah, Andy fought the good fight, both on and off screen. :cheersmate: