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Mon Dec 26, 2011, 10:41 AM
Sarah Ibarruri (16,248 posts) Profile Journal Send DU Mail Ignore
Adults that spoil kids aggravate me
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My goodness, I never cease to be amazed at how some parents think their kids are God's answer to the planet. This applies mostly (I'd say almost exclusively) to the parents that have the brattiest kids on the planet.
Yesterday I had to spend some time with one of these kids because the mother felt that her child is so delightful, that surely all adults WANTED to have her child in their midst interrupting everything the adults said, and trying to break everything in the house and filthy it up. The adults wanted to make a run for it. That kid was loud, boisterous, not particularly bright, and (as if all the rest were not enough), NOT fascinating in the least. What the mom felt was grown up behavior on her child's part was merely a tremendous capacity for being obnoxious and unpleasant.
However, this mom was oohing and aahing about her kid (heck, who else was going to ooh and aah for this walking, talking obnoxia?), and trying to elicit our oohs and aahs, which were not forthcoming. I plastered what I refer to as, 'the look of the insane' smile on my face and pretended I was a robot. No oohs and aahs would come from me.
Why do parents (GENERALLY MOMS) inflict this on other adults? These moms behave as if they wanted to be your friend, but then by golly, they're HELL-BENT on you loving their bratty, spoiled kid. I think these moms don't really want to have friends. They just want to have an AUDIENCE for their bratty kids.
Since I'm on a rant about adults that do this, here's a tiny list of these adults that aggravate me. Let me know if any of you out there agree with me on this:
-Parents that include their kids in everything, adult conversations, bring kids to your dinner that you’ve made very clear is a grown ups dinner, etc.
-Parents that allow their kids to interrupt conversations between them and another adult
-Parents that allow the kids to run and answer the phone every time and waste your time talking trash, when the reason you called is to talk to the adult, not entertain the kid
-Parents that allow their kids to sit and listen to adult conversations
-Parents that bring their kids into the office and don’t keep them from bugging the heck out of you
-Parents that stop a whole huge line at the supermarket or anywhere at all because they want their child to talk to the employee taking orders or checking out
-Parents that bring kids to your house and let them make a frikkin’ mess everywhere and touch every single thing, even BREAK your things.
-Parents that insist on their kids performing for you, and are seeking for you to applaud like a trained seal no matter how horrific the performance was
-Parents that go on for endless hours about their kids’ accomplishments
-Parents that side with their kids against teachers and, well, just about everybody
-Parents that let their kids behave and run like animals through stores
-Parents that behave as if their kid were God's answer to the world, and insist you acknowledge that
WAKE UP, PARENTS! STOP TRYING TO GET ME TO ADORE YOUR KIDS!
Okay, now that I got that out of my system, all I want to add is that I think treating kids like some sort of perfect beings, or royalty, and putting them first 24/7 is the perfect recipe for creating narcissistic and perhaps sociopathic adults.
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Response to Sarah Ibarruri (Original post)
Mon Dec 26, 2011, 12:26 PM
liberalhistorian (18,020 posts) Profile Journal Send DU Mail Ignore
62. My goodness, people who've never had children
but who constantly criticize them and parents drive me crazy!
But then again, what do I know? How DARE parents bring their children out of their locked rooms for Christmas, of all days!
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You reap what you sow Sarah,you just described the result of 40+ years of leftist child raising policy.
Enjoy the little demon your beliefs have spawned.
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Yeah, I hate liberal parents too. :mad:
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Is she talking about children or her fellow primitives? :???:
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Is she talking about children or her fellow primitives? :???:
Children of primitives that grow up to be primitives.
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Hey, Sara, practice these lines for your old(er) age:
"You damn' little mother****ers get off my lawn!"
"Well if you saw I was coming down the road the wrong way, why didn't you get out of the way, you stupid Teabagger bastard?!?"
"I bet the ****ing neighborhood kids stole my disability check from the mailbox!"
:bird:
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I'm amazed that she has managed to keep any friends with kids with that attitude.
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Yeah, I hate liberal parents too. :mad:
Along with the liberal teachers we have the OWS generation.
I weep for the future of our country.
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You reap what you sow Sarah,you just described the result of 40+ years of leftist child raising policy.
Enjoy the little demon your beliefs have spawned.
Bingo!
These little brats are the direct results of Parents not being allowed to discipline their children (spanking) and Parents who want to make sure their kids have self esteem so they falsely inflate their egos, 1+1=3, oh that's great sweetie, you tried and that's all that matters, it doesn't matter that you got it wrong, no we can't have any winners or losers in sports. It's regressive policies that caused the behavior you're complaining about. Now start listening to your Republican boyfriend who treats you so nice, woman!
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creating narcissistic and perhaps sociopathic adults.
Sounds like Sarah is describing herself. :rotf:
Those brats grow up and post on the DUmp. :lmao:
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What a spiteful, mean-spirited witch. Just think, in a couple of years she'll be right there with Anne and Pam, full of hate and self-loathing. :bird:
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What a spiteful, mean-spirited witch. Just think, in a couple of years she'll be right there with Anne and Pam, full of hate and self-loathing. :bird:
Time flies . . . I think she's there already.
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She would have been my vote for dummy of the year. Just saying. She is a study in hypocrisy.
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New thread :-)
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uppityperson (59,893 posts) Profile Journal Send DU Mail Ignore
Adults that wants kids hidden away while are spoiled themselves aggravate me
My goodness, I never cease to be amazed at how some adults think kids are the devil's answer to the planet and they are god's answer. This applies mostly (I'd say almost exclusively) to people who aren't parents.
Today I had to spend some time with one of these adults because the adult felt that any child in public is so awful, no matter if they were playing quietly, running around hopped up on christmas excitement or even "sit(ing) and listen to adult conversations" while they were so wonderful.
That adult was loud, boisterous, not particularly bright, and (as if all the rest were not enough), NOT fascinating in the least. What the adult felt was grown up behavior on her own part was merely a tremendous capacity for being obnoxious and unpleasant.
However, this person was oohing and aahing about he r own (heck, who else was going to ooh and aah for this walking, talking obnoxia?), and trying to elicit our oohs and aahs, which were not forthcoming. I plastered what I refer to as, 'the look of the insane' smile on my face and pretended I was a robot. No oohs and aahs would come from me.
Why do adults (GENERALLY (NON) MOMS) inflict this on other adults? These adults behave as if they wanted to be your friend, but then by golly, they're HELL-BENT on you loving their bratty, spoiled selves. I think these non-moms don't really want to have friends. They just want to have an AUDIENCE for themselves.
Since I'm on a rant about adults that do this, here's a tiny list of these adults that aggravate me. Let me know if any of you out there agree with me on this:
-Adults that interrupt conversations between them and another adult
-Adults that allow roommates to run and answer the phone every time and waste your time talking trash, when the reason you called is to talk to the person you called, not entertain the roommate
-Adults that won't allow their kids to quietly sit and listen to adult conversations
-Adults that are in the office and bug the heck out of you
-Adults that stop a whole huge line at the supermarket or anywhere at all because they want to talk to the employee taking orders or checking out
-Adults that come to your house and let them make a frikkin’ mess everywhere and touch every single thing, even BREAK your things.
-Adults that insist on performing for you, and are seeking for you to applaud like a trained seal no matter how horrific the performance was
-Adults that go on for endless hours about their accomplishments
-Adults that side with their partners against, well, just about everybody
-Adults that behave like animals in stores and restaurants, talking on cell phones, drinking too much
-Adults that behave as if they were God's answer to the world, and insist you acknowledge that
WAKE UP, PEOPLE! STOP TRYING TO GET ME TO ADORE YOU!
Okay, now that I got that out of my system, all I want to add is that I think treating anyone like some sort of perfect beings, or royalty, and putting them first 24/7 is the perfect recipe for creating narcissistic and perhaps sociopathic adults.
SPANK ! :lmao:
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Who pissed in your Wheaties this morning?
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Who pissed in your Wheaties this morning?
Some spoiled kid whose parents let them do what they want.
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When I was growing up, the rule was children should be seen and not heard. It was good rule.
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What the hell is she doing making adult conversation when a child is present? and why do I get the feeling that she is talking about her own nieces and nephews?
:whatever:
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New thread :-)
http://www.democraticunderground.com/100272694
SPANK ! :lmao:
One of the best posts I've seen on DU!
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On the plus side - hopefully that nasty attitude she has will prevent her from reproducing in the foreseeable future.
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On the plus side - hopefully that nasty attitude she has will prevent her from reproducing in the foreseeable future.
Then we should all push for a ban on "Turkey Basters"...emphasis on 'turkey'.
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On the plus side - hopefully that nasty attitude she has will prevent her from reproducing in the foreseeable future.
Stevenumbers might still hit it, though. :panic: :o
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I am actually less convinced then many of you that the children in question. Are actually brats. What I mean is that childless (liberals in particular) can be woefully ignorant of behavior that is quite normal in children. Many of these same a"adults" are particulalrly reactionary to even the most pleasant child and unless the child is totally still and devoid of any personality. They think the child is a brat. Given this dummies particularly nastiness normally I am leaning towards she being over reactionary to the behavior of a likely very excied child on a holiday. Sure there are parents and kids like she mentioned; i just find myself skeptical considering the source...
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Stevenumbers might will definitely still hit it, though. :panic: :o
FIFY.
:-)
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I am actually less convinced then many of you that the children in question. Are actually brats. What I mean is that childless (liberals in particular) can be woefully ignorant of behavior that is quite normal in children. Many of these same a"adults" are particulalrly reactionary to even the most pleasant child and unless the child is totally still and devoid of any personality. They think the child is a brat. Given this dummies particularly nastiness normally I am leaning towards she being over reactionary to the behavior of a likely very excied child on a holiday. Sure there are parents and kids like she mentioned; i just find myself skeptical considering the source...
You read this (negative-200 bong) bouncy perfectly. H5.
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FIFY.
:-)
I thank you. Seeing that I hadn't read one of his pleas for female companionship lately, I figured that I'd give him the benefit of the doubt. ::)
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I can't believe how miserable she is. She might as well just off herself if she is that unhappy. :loser:
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You read this (negative-200 bong) bouncy perfectly. H5.
thank you much...especially for your patience with my phone producing :panic: punctuation issues :whistling:
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What the mom felt was grown up behavior on her child's part was merely a tremendous capacity for being obnoxious and unpleasant.
Gosh that sounds a lot like DU and they mistake they making in judging their own behavior.
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I'm amazed that she has managed to keep any friends with kids with that attitude.
Don't be amazed. She hasn't a single solitary friend. Childless or not. These people she's talking about are family, so they have to let her in the front door.
Look how many posts Sarah has, and the looooong screeds she posts. Then she says "I'm not wasting my precious time on reading trash!" She is a world-class bitch, in the same league as Anne.
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I am actually less convinced then many of you that the children in question. Are actually brats. What I mean is that childless (liberals in particular) can be woefully ignorant of behavior that is quite normal in children. Many of these same a"adults" are particulalrly reactionary to even the most pleasant child and unless the child is totally still and devoid of any personality. They think the child is a brat. Given this dummies particularly nastiness normally I am leaning towards she being over reactionary to the behavior of a likely very excied child on a holiday. Sure there are parents and kids like she mentioned; i just find myself skeptical considering the source...
Good point -- the child could be behaving in a very developmentally appropriate manner. This misfit is repulsed by society in general. Children are just too much for her to be able to process or handle in any acceptable manner.
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I can't believe how miserable she is. She might as well just off herself if she is that unhappy. :loser:
I have the same opinion of all dummies.
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Is she talking about children or her fellow primitives? :???:
Yes. :lmao:
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As others have noted, pretty much everything Iburri complained about are the result of ultra- liberal parents and teachers who refuse to discipline children in any way out of fear of "Stifling their creativity" or some crap like that, encourage mediocrity in school and elsewhere, and care more about nurturing kids' "self- esteem" than about helping them to grow into healthy, intelligent, capable adults.
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As others have noted, pretty much everything Iburri complained about are the result of ultra- liberal parents and teachers who refuse to discipline children in any way out of fear of "Stifling their creativity" or some crap like that, encourage mediocrity in school and elsewhere, and care more about nurturing kids' "self- esteem" than about helping them to grow into healthy, intelligent, capable adults.
Comes to mind that child raising has it's fads through the years.
I was one of those mothers that went against the grain in child raising. The fad at the time of my first born was to place the new born on a schedule that suited the parent. Child is fed on a strict schedule, awakened and put to bed on a schedule that benefited the parents.
How many times I was told that a baby who would not go to sleep was to be placed away from the family and allowed to cry themselves to sleep.
Bull shit, baby's do not cry for no reason and I never allowed mine to do so. Infants until 3 months of age were with me 24/7, they were fed when their bodies needed food, and held against my body constantly.
Takes a while for a baby to adjust to being out of the womb, bright lights, noise and being handled, differences in temperatures, all frightening experiences for a baby used to the comfort of the womb.
You'll spoil that child I heard over and over again from some family----except the grandmothers that gave me a thumbs up, one cannot spoil a infant that has needs that one has to accommodate as a mother.
Training a child hits at about 2 years old when the child begins to make demands as their little brains are learning how to manipulate others. They still want the attention they are use to as an infant. Can one train a child to potty training at that age, yes but it takes time and patience.
Terrible 3's come in and by golly you have your hands full, a growing monster that does not ask but demands attention when they want it. Some learn to hold their breath until they pass out to get what they want, they will pitch a fit, kick and scream knowing the parent will do most everything to quiet the child.
Fads, allowing a 5 year old to mark up a wall with a crayon, Bull, allowing them to EXPRESS themselves with no training on responsibility, no limits set on how to controll themselves????
It is difficult in today's world to be a working mother and not out of exhaustion to turn the children and their training over to day care. All those hours away from their child, who knows what the child is learning from strangers.
Each child born has a personality, all their own. To expect all children to fit into a mold at a day care center is insane. Some children thrive and fit in, others cannot .
Humans are one of the few mammals that turn our children over to others to care for, out of our sight, strangers are teaching our children for good or bad.
When the two parent household working came in, Mothers had to work no choice, then the number of disturbed children went sky high.
Will continue as parents have no choice on how to raise their children, little family loyalty of the children or respect for a parent they spend so little time with.
My view of how this just started, I may be wrong, but I have no other explanation for this shift in society.
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I am actually less convinced then many of you that the children in question. Are actually brats. What I mean is that childless (liberals in particular) can be woefully ignorant of behavior that is quite normal in children. Many of these same a"adults" are particulalrly reactionary to even the most pleasant child and unless the child is totally still and devoid of any personality. They think the child is a brat. Given this dummies particularly nastiness normally I am leaning towards she being over reactionary to the behavior of a likely very excied child on a holiday. Sure there are parents and kids like she mentioned; i just find myself skeptical considering the source...
That was my thought.
Whilst it is good and proper that adults have their own time to socialise on their own level; the only way that children learn how to behave around adults (and subsequently become adults themselves), is to spend time with adults. I think it a great blessing and delight that my nephew and older niece (aged 5 and 4 respectively) are at a family Sunday lunch most weeks.
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Liberals hate kids. The ones that do manage to have any fail at raising them to be good citizens and patriots. I also think that the kid was the smarter of the two if Sarah is going to react like that.
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And crazy bitches like Sarah aggreavate me (LONG):
What Sarah's describing sounds like DU to me.