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Current Events => The DUmpster => Topic started by: notaDUmmie on December 09, 2011, 06:27:01 PM
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sheDevil (14 posts) Fri Dec-09-11 07:19 PM
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survivorista didn't "leave the building." She was banned for speaking out against rape!
I know, because I am her. I had to use a fake name and address just to get back on "Democratic" (that's a laugh!) Underground to show you how I have been gagged here.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.ph... locked.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.ph... . locked.
My testimony against my abusers:
[/My father started raping me when I was 5. Three years later, his brother (my uncle) joined into me. I thought this was normal growing up.
In high school, I got my First Indicators. It wasn't long before I reported dear old Dad to the cops. (My uncle was already in Hell.) But nothing was done. Daddy was Active In Our Church, a Pillar Of The Community.
I went off to college, and was raped in my frosh by a prominent school athlete the administrators were loath to expel. Shhh!The school hushmonied by paying for me to see a therapist. Within 2 months he was ****ing me and convincing my young, vulnerable mind that I had brought it on myself.
Since graduating and entering the work force, three more men have raped me, the last one occurring just last year.
The thing that makes me cry is that I'm a heterosexual woman. I want a man sexually. But every time a guy pulls down his pants and I'm confronted with an actual, erect cock, I freak out. I can't handle it. But the ironic part is that none of these men took me against my will, even though I had gone back to their apts and kissed them and disrobed and pulled their cocks out of their pants before freezing up. Not one of them has screwed me or scolded me. They've been very understanding.
And that's what frustrates me so much! I absolutely crave a man in my bed, BUT I JUST CAN'T HANDLE IT WHEN IT HAPPENS!
I don't deserve to burn this way. Do I?
When women cannot speak out against our abusers, there's nothing "democratic" about it!!!
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=439x2455581
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Assuming any part of this story is the truth the last place on earth a person should run to for counseling is the DUmp.
It contains nothing but demented,immature and viciously angry misfits.
Seek real help and therapy,not the comfort of fellow disturbed.
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http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=439x2455581
Normally I would call BS on this, however I watch the trials on Court TV or now True TV and now wonder what the hell is going on. Has this all ways been a fabric of our lives that until the PC era opened the world to us we seldom heard of????
Freaky stuff that many of us never experienced but perhaps our class mates had to deal with. Did they tell, hell no, but looking back with what we know today, some of our friends showed classic signs they were being abused.
Very hard for us who never had to face family or family friends that were abusers, ---Today it seems to be more normal then those never abused.
Sad fact that today any therapists with a patient that never was abused are now being treated for denial.
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I think it is gone. I actually rowed over to the island to see the two linked locked threads and got the missing topic thing.
She really needs some kind of therapy and kudos to the DUmp for realizing it.
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Actually what she described is quite consistent with what some long-term sexual abuse victims, whose abuse started in childhood, experience. She may be straight up or she may be taking it out of a psych casebook, but the kind of pathological response she describes is not anything unknown.
Problem with doing anything to the supposed perps that are her current partners (I'm not speaking of the child sex abusers that caused the condition) in these kind of cases is that the male partner generally doesn't understand that their partner has frozen up and isn't consenting anymore, as opposed to just being nervous or simply being a stiff lay, and they really have no intent to take her against her will, they just can't read her fractured little mind, so prosecuting them is an injustice of a different kind.
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Assuming any part of this story is the truth the last place on earth a person should run to for counseling is the DUmp.
It contains nothing but demented,immature and viciously angry misfits.
Seek real help and therapy,not the comfort of fellow disturbed.
BINGO! A sure indicator of a long but not very well thought out Bouncy.
ZERO bong
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I think she is a real person who needs counseling. She's asking for help from the DUmp because she believes that liberals are compassionate and can solve any problem. and she wants some attention. And she wants to be angry when they fail to help her.
But she needs real therapy for trauma. And a competent therapist.
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Normally I would call BS on this, however I watch the trials on Court TV or now True TV and now wonder what the hell is going on. Has this all ways been a fabric of our lives that until the PC era opened the world to us we seldom heard of????
Freaky stuff that many of us never experienced but perhaps our class mates had to deal with. Did they tell, hell no, but looking back with what we know today, some of our friends showed classic signs they were being abused.
Very hard for us who never had to face family or family friends that were abusers, ---Today it seems to be more normal then those never abused.
Sad fact that today any therapists with a patient that never was abused are now being treated for denial.
Well she's obviously angry but an abuse survivor...I'm not so sure. Most are quite reluctant to speak out. And those that do, do so for a much more useful purpose than being pissed in graphic detail on a DUmmie website. I know DU tends to be the Jerry Springer of the interwebs but when your reverse misogynistic hyperbole is even too much for them it's time to rethink your life.
Cindie
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Assuming any part of this story is the truth the last place on earth a person should run to for counseling is the DUmp.
It contains nothing but demented,immature and viciously angry misfits.
Seek real help and therapy,not the comfort of fellow disturbed.
I'd bet she got 96 PM's from DU dykes hitting on her before she got TS'd again.
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sheDevil (14 posts) Fri Dec-09-11 07:19 PM
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survivorista didn't "leave the building." She was banned for speaking out against rape!
(snip)
The thing that makes me cry is that I'm a heterosexual woman. I want a man sexually. But every time a guy pulls down his pants and I'm confronted with an actual, erect cock, I freak out. I can't handle it. But the ironic part is that none of these men took me against my will, even though I had gone back to their apts and kissed them and disrobed and pulled their cocks out of their pants before freezing up. Not one of them has screwed me or scolded me. They've been very understanding.
And that's what frustrates me so much! I absolutely crave a man in my bed, BUT I JUST CAN'T HANDLE IT WHEN IT HAPPENS!
I don't deserve to burn this way. Do I?
When women cannot speak out against our abusers, there's nothing "democratic" about it!!!
Uh, would somebody explain to me just how this is real. (http://www.conservativecave.com/Smileys/default/finger024.gif)
It sounds more like a wannabe writer trying to collect material for a book or movie script. Or maybe just some new and strange kind of literary voyeurism.
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sheDevil (14 posts) Fri Dec-09-11 07:19 PM
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The thing that makes me cry is that I'm a heterosexual woman. I want a man sexually.
There's only one cure for that.
Calling stevenumbers! Calling stevenumbers!
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Well she's obviously angry but an abuse survivor...I'm not so sure. Most are quite reluctant to speak out. And those that do, do so for a much more useful purpose than being pissed in graphic detail on a DUmmie website. I know DU tends to be the Jerry Springer of the interwebs but when your reverse misogynistic hyperbole is even too much for them it's time to rethink your life.
Cindie
That's all true, but there are a certain percentage of them that can't STFU about their issue once they overcome the barriers and DO start talking.