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Current Events => The DUmpster => Topic started by: Tucker on July 22, 2011, 10:52:56 AM
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Sarah Ibarruri Donating Member (1000+ posts) Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Jul-22-11 11:49 AM
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How right wing ideology is destroying my relationship with my boyfriend. Part II
I had previously asked for advice on what to do about my boyfriend, who is a right winger. After long looking for a lefty, liberal, social democrat, etc., and finding none, I let myself fall for a right winger who claims to be Libertarian. However, since Libertarians are nothing but right wingers who want to be popular with the girls on the left, I was never fooled. Nonetheless, he was kind to me, tremendously funny, we talk endlessly about many things, he is family-oriented (which I am, being of Spanish-Cuban background), and he was not a cheapskate (nor am I).
I received much advice, most of it to dump him, because although I like him, his views about life are horrific. When I say his views about life, I mean everything to do with real life (politics – who will live and die, who will eat and not eat, what shall be done about the helpless, the disabled, the poor, the old), how one views the least among us, etc. Let’s just say he’s a TYPICAL RIGHT WINGER when it comes to how life in this country should run, and he’s been happy as as a clam with it for the past 31 years, which I have not.
I’ve been attacking him for his views, which I consider unconscionable and vicious, and pointing out that, whereas he’s rich, I’m not and the shit Republicans have been doing to this country for the past few decades, have affected me, my family, my friends, etc. He disagrees. This makes me livid.
Well, last night he said a few things which made me really upset, and I began to cry out of frustration with his inability to use his brain and heart. Here they are:
• He said it’s politicians, NOT the corporations with the mega-rich, who are to blame for the bad condition of our country (I disagree – politicians are the mere lackeys of corporations and the mega-rich. Behind the curtain if you pull it, you’ll always find the mega-rich and corporations);
• He said that because he doesn’t trust politicians, he made damned sure that he was protected financially, and lived his life making sure of that. This is not fully correct. His parents left him money, aided him in buying his first house, etc. Also, he was lucky. He was born with a genius I.Q. I don’t have that, and most people also don’t. Lastly, he’s had luck. He seems to think that because he had luck, brains and parents who helped him, that everyone else should somehow be at the same financially comfortable level.
• He claims that things were just as bad before Reagan for the middle class as they are now. I disagree.
• He claims that I’m worried about my financial situation for nothing, since he can bail me out. I explained to him that it’s not about him flying in like Superman to help me. That I DEMAND to be able to function in a country, and not have my country trashed so badly, and my situation so impossible that I cannot even help myself.
Someone explain to me why he, an intelligent man, is looking at things so skewed, so limited, wears such blinders. Are right wingers BORN emotionally hardened (and stupid) that way, or do they become that way?
Typical liberal gold digger.
Only the OP so far but more will follow.
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You know, the Sarah Ibarruri primitive promised to leave us if George Bush were re-elected in 2004.
And she's still here; she didn't keep her promise.
I'm thinking about passing around the hat, collecting for one-way airfare for her.
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You know, the Sarah Ibarruri primitive promised to leave us if George Bush were re-elected in 2004.
And she's still here; she didn't keep her promise.
I'm thinking about passing around the hat, collecting for one-way airfare for her.
I'm sure we can find a leaky boat she can borrow.
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You know, the Sarah Ibarruri primitive promised to leave us if George Bush were re-elected in 2004.
And she's still here; she didn't keep her promise.
I'm thinking about passing around the hat, collecting for one-way airfare for her.
This is from her OP:
which I am, being of Spanish-Cuban background
She wouldn't be welcome back home. Cuban's are conservative.
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This is from her OP:
She wouldn't be welcome back home. Cuban's are conservative.
Well, how about one-way airfare to Pyongyang or Harare then?
I'm sure the North Koreans or Rhodesians aren't prejudiced against Cubans.
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He was born with a genius I.Q. I don’t have that, and most people also don’t
So the ignorant "winger" is significantly smarter than she, significantly more successful, and yet he is the one who is doing everything all wrong.
Seriously Sarah, drop him like a rock and let him find a good conservative girl who can appreciate him.
I can understand venting about a significant other online, but she goes way over the line.
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• He said it’s politicians, NOT the corporations with the mega-rich, who are to blame for the bad condition of our country (I disagree – politicians are the mere lackeys of corporations and the mega-rich. Behind the curtain if you pull it, you’ll always find the mega-rich and corporations);
Oh sure, that's why you hear these schemes to tax the hell out of the rich, because the politicians are in the back pockets of people like Rich Uncle Pennybag.
He was born with a genius I.Q. I don’t have that
Paging Captain Obvious to the white courtesy phone...
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Well, considering how many of her fellow DUmmies were handing her her own head for her previous thread, I'm guessing she's just going to keep posting this shit until she gets the approval she wants instead of the pileon she got last time (and apparently will this time.)
DUmmies lie, all the time, DUmmies lie. But they're pathetic little attention whores too. Yeah, this may seem a bit hypocritical coming from a guy with 16K+ posts on a message board, but if I were like her IRL, well, not only would Scoobs not put up with my shit...
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Does DUmmy Sarah Imaboobi sound like she's upset about beind DUmped by her ronbot boyfriend?
Sarah Ibarruri (1000+ posts) Thu Jul-21-11 09:26 PM
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11. Republicans have made me hate churches, lapel pins and anything remotely stinking of right wing
Maybe I shouldn't call him a ronbot. He told her he was a libertarian, but that may have been one of those "Of course I'll respect you" deals.
There's a good chance he's a decent and civilized person, who was taking one for the team when he nailed Sarah Imaboobi.
Maybe it was a therapeutic hopping around that failed to have the desired effect.
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hamsterjill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Jul-22-11 11:58 AM
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5. My question to you is:
Why have you not dumped him ALREADY?
There are simply too many fish in the sea to settle for someone who is obviously so very different than you are.
I don't believe that right wingers are born emotionally hardened. It is a learned trait that they develop from being around other right wingers who are already emotionally hardened.
RUN!!!!
In case you overlooked this part:
he’s rich, I’m not
sinkingfeeling Donating Member (1000+ posts) Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Jul-22-11 11:59 AM
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6. I couldn't stay with him since he is self-centered and only cares about his family and friends.
He has a dark heart.
Whereas it's a rare DUmmy that is concerned about their family. Hell most of them are alienated from their family.
CC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Jul-22-11 12:00 PM
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9. I don't know why you would
ask a bunch of strangers on a message board (even a Dem one) why a man they have never met is the way he is or why you would be with someone you seem to dislike everything they believe. :shrug: I doubt beyond the advice to leave if you find his beliefs so reprehensible you can get much real insight. Maybe some professional help would help you to understand yourself and your attractions.
As to why a generic right winger thinks the way they do, the reasons can be a varied as the people and any opinions on it here would be just that.
Zywiec (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Jul-22-11 12:02 PM
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11. Why hasn't he dumped you if you're so different?
What a DUmmy. Free nookie. It goes like this: you date the tramp and marry virtue.
KittyWampus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Jul-22-11 12:11 PM
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16. Some women go into relationships thinking the guy will change. Either they'll help him see the light
Edited on Fri Jul-22-11 12:13 PM by KittyWampus
or all he needs is time.
Recipe for disaster.
I suppose the dynamic might play out in reverse- guy thinking he'll change the woman but I think the first case tends to be more common.
Read this and try and understand it.
Women marry men hoping they will change
Men marry women hoping they won't
Neither get their wish.
seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Jul-22-11 12:12 PM
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17. he isnt all wrong and far from being kinda right.
the problem i see on du, is that we cannot explore this kinda thing in honesty.
yes he was lucky, and had help. was lucky in being born with high IQ and has a lot of things in life going for him. and stays consistent to experience, by wanting to help you, recognizing he, too, got help. that is how he is able to do it for you.
i know so many people like this man. and i am able to love them.
just is not hard for me.
My wife is a member of MENSA. Once a year or so, they have a survey that the member fill out. Where you live, education and what do you do for a living? That kinda stuff. Most of them have normal jobs like butcher, baker and so on. Very few rocket scientist.
For the record, while my wife gets the MENSA magazine every month, my magazine subscriptions are Handgunner and Trailer Life.
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I couldn't stay with him since he is self-centered and only cares about his family and friends.
The DUmmies, with that one statement, have shown why they are the shit-flinging monkeys of the Internet. Do you DUmmies not recognize the infinite hypocrisy of the above statement?
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Hey Sarah,
Stevenumbers is single, broke and looking...
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He so doesn't deserve this PITA girlfriend. What would he think of these posts of hers?
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As I said before ,if James Carville and his wife can make it work out then you all can see where the trouble lies and its not with the boyfriend. This one is a raving nutjob that's probably one step away from becoming the next penis slicer.
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He so doesn't deserve this PITA girlfriend. What would he think of these posts of hers?
That's the whole point, Karin--there is NO boyfriend. If there ever was one, he likely dumped her long ago, and she's posting these threads in a vain hope that someone will feel sorry for her.
So far, nobody's biting.
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This again? listen, be damn glad you have not only a nice, decent, family oriented guy, but an INTELLIGENT guy who doesn't fall for the class warfare arguments perpetrated by the left.
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He so doesn't deserve this PITA girlfriend. What would he think of these posts of hers?
If you're talking about steve2470, if she's female, she has the only attribute he requires.
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(http://i271.photobucket.com/albums/jj140/RepublicanandProud/Asses.jpg)
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3 words about Sarah....
What a woman's sexual organ!!!
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The DUmmies, with that one statement, have shown why they are the shit-flinging monkeys of the Internet. Do you DUmmies not recognize the infinite hypocrisy of the above statement?
Hypocrisy is the least of it. Is he: A) Self centered, or, B) Only cares about his family. Two concepts which are a bit contradictory don't ya think?
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She met him on a dating site, I want to say recently. All this angst and she barely knows him, or she knew he did not share her political beliefs prior to meeting him in person.
:yawn:
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I see Stupid Sarah is trolling her favourite forum for attention again. ::)
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I think her biggest problem - assuming all of this is true - is that her boyfriend follows none of the stereotypes the primitives have painted 'rethugs' with - and I think it's making her question more than the relationship.. Which is resulting in all sorts of intercranial pressure buildup.
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She met him on a dating site, I want to say recently. All this angst and she barely knows him, or she knew he did not share her political beliefs prior to meeting him in person.
:yawn:
I will point this part out. I really stood out for me.
he’s rich, I’m not
This will allow her to live her life as a parasitic slug. I know that it's completely impossible for a slug to be a parasite, but it it were, a DUmmy could morph into one.
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Damn. Even the mods reject her and moved her somewhere else.
Just can't get any respect from anyone.
Sarah Ibarruri Donating Member (1000+ posts) Fri Jul-22-11 01:33 PM
Original message
How right wing ideology is destroying my relationship with my boyfriend. Part II
Edited on Fri Jul-22-11 11:56 AM by Sarah Ibarruri
This topic has been moved by the moderator of this forum.
It can be found at:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.ph...
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More from her new location.
emulatorloo (1000+ posts) Fri Jul-22-11 12:18 PM
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21. Is he really good in bed then? I can't really see any upsides with this guy. I guess make a list
Of pros and cons of this relationship. Do the pros out weigh the cons? Or vice-versa?
I know some people have made relationships work with Republicans, but I don't think I could do it.
I'll be thinking of you as you struggle with this. Please keep us posted.
Sarah Ibarruri Donating Member (1000+ posts) Fri Jul-22-11 12:26 PM
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31. He's good in bed. I mean, he's not beyond the pale fantastic that I'm in awe 24/7 or anything
He's okay.
What a shallow bitch. I beginning to think I was correct in my belief that to her, it's all about money and to him, it's about free sex.
I guarantee that there's someone else in his life.
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Damn. Even the mods reject her and moved her somewhere else.
Just can't get any respect from anyone.
What forum was it in, and what forum was it moved to?
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What forum was it in, and what forum was it moved to?
It was in General Discussion and moved to the Lounge.
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It was in General Discussion and moved to the Lounge.
Hmmm.
That's quite a demotion.
I remember how the stupid Pedro Picasso used to yell and bitch when one of his campfires was moved from General Discussion to the Lounge.
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I really wish I had a way to send her poor boyfriend a link to what she is saying about him...
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Hmmm.
That's quite a demotion.
I remember how the stupid Pedro Picasso used to yell and bitch when one of his campfires was moved from General Discussion to the Lounge.
Mrs Dawson use to copy and paste her lounge posting into GD. She had parallel campfires. They couldn't move em that way.
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Mrs Dawson use to copy and paste her lounge posting into GD. She had parallel campfires. They couldn't move em that way.
What? Excuse me? WTF is up with that?
Anyway, Ballygrl, loved the asses.com pic. Date within your species. H5.
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Mrs Dawson use to copy and paste her lounge posting into GD. She had parallel campfires. They couldn't move em that way.
I always thought my fellow alum Skins was missing out on a potentially-lush revenue stream about that.
I always thought he'd be justified in charging primitives fifty cents or a buck, each time they started a campfire in an inappropriate forum, and it had to be moved to the right place.
Skins doesn't know a cash cow when it "moo"s right in front of his face.
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Now I think she is a mole, a medical mole, if you will, exposing the primitives to sane ideas in a way they can accept in an attempt to allow them to heal themselves.
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Smells like the tumult Nuclear Unicorn went through with her soldier boy before they settled and got married.
Only Sarah seems like a real self-centered bitch who is beyond cognizance or redemption.
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My money's on mole. She's trying to beat the DUmmies with their hypocrisy schtick. I bet there's a mole flame out soon!
eta to correct spelling, DOH!
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So the ignorant "winger" is significantly smarter than she, significantly more successful, and yet he is the one who is doing everything all wrong.
Seriously Sarah, drop him like a rock and let him find a good conservative girl who can appreciate him.
I can understand venting about a significant other online, but she goes way over the line.
I can't believe he has a genius IQ or he'd have dumped her whiny ass a long time ago. :whatever:
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