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Current Events => The DUmpster => Topic started by: GOBUCKS on May 21, 2011, 11:51:42 PM
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DUmmy Brigid, one in the swarming mass of faceless, anonymous unterprimitiven, spins a bouncy tale about the kind of man who would marry a female DUmpmonkey.
Brigid (1000+ posts) Sat May-21-11 10:15 PM
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I overheard an interesting conversation at work yesterday:
I was working on the line yesterday, and there was a woman of about 60 working next to me. I told her I was planning to move to Indianapolis soon. She said she is originally from there; she and her husband moved here several years ago. She said she wants to move back there, but he doesn't want to. I was talking excitedly about the things I used to do when lived there before. She said she envied me.
A few minutes later, as I was restocking the line, I heard her talking to another are another woman. Both are apparently not one I was talking to their marriages, and the one I was talking to first said that she ws basically just waiting for her husband to "croak." The other one said she felt the same way.
Makes he wonder how many other people feel trapped, or are living stunted lives in areas of limited opportunity like this one. I hope I never give up like so many seem to have done around here.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=439x1151094
That was a really depressing (and confusing) bouncy, DUmmy Birgid, but you really set off the other female DUmpmonkeys, who are either celebrating divorce, or being patient and hoping for widowhood.
lunatica (1000+ posts) Sat May-21-11 10:20 PM
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1. feeling trapped in a marriage isn't uncommon
After my divorce I was much happier and I have no plans to ever marry again.
And you can bet she has a PM from stevenumbers waiting for her.
blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Sat May-21-11 10:58 PM
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6. Now that the shock wore off, recently, after 2 long years, I realize
I'm happier now. I had no idea how much control over me I let him have.
aquart (1000+ posts) Sat May-21-11 10:24 PM
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2. Lotta cheerful widows in this world.
Brigid (1000+ posts) Sat May-21-11 10:31 PM
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4. I feel liberated in leaving this town.
I feel like I'm divorcing a boring and cantankerous husband who never loved me anyway.
Nothing in this world better than a divorce, and moving to Indianapolis.
Xipe Totec (1000+ posts) Sat May-21-11 10:30 PM
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3. Count me among the living dead
Except that I recently decided to make a clean break.
applegrove (1000+ posts) Sat May-21-11 11:02 PM
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7. I always knew I didn't want to be married. Even when times got really, really tough I never really
thought about changing one set of problems for another. I'm much happier alone.
DUmmy applegroe hasn't met stevenumbers. Yet.
Horse with no Name describes her $24K per year nursing job:
Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Sat May-21-11 11:53 PM
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12. I had a patient tell me one time
when I did Home Health that she spent her whole life working and raising a family--and she and her husband had planned on traveling when they got older and the kids were gone. He got sick and she spent half her time taking care of him and the other half wishing he would die. When he finally died many years later, she was sick and couldn't travel.
The moral of this story is don't ever marry anyone you don't want to spend your life taking care of of they get sick.
I wonder why she didn't get Horse with no Name to euthanize the guy.
This one startled me:
EC (1000+ posts) Sun May-22-11 12:03 AM
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13. I finally felt free after my husband died.
Will never do it again. I'm better off by myself, doing better financially and socially without him.
EC??
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Sat May-21-11 11:53 PM
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12. I had a patient tell me one time
when I did Home Health that she spent her whole life working and raising a family--and she and her husband had planned on traveling when they got older and the kids were gone. He got sick and she spent half her time taking care of him and the other half wishing he would die. When he finally died many years later, she was sick and couldn't travel.
The moral of this story is don't ever marry anyone you don't want to spend your life taking care of of they get sick.
This is what DUmmies think being married means, not caring for the one you love in the last years of their life. "What's in it for ME" is all they really care about. I would wipe my husband's ass for as long as it takes because I know that he would do the same for me. It's what it means to be married, in sickness and in health.
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To normal people, marriage is a covenant. To a DUmmie, it is confinement.
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This is what DUmmies think being married means, not caring for the one you love in the last years of their life. "What's in it for ME" is all they really care about. I would wipe my husband's ass for as long as it takes because I know that he would do the same for me. It's what it means to be married, in sickness and in health.
That post from Horse with no Brain pretty much encapsulates the mindset of the DUmpmonkies and liberals in general. It's all about them.
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To normal people, marriage is a covenant. To a DUmmie, it is confinement.
So true unless one marries a politician or a well know movie actor, [ or any one of the Kennedy Clan ]
This is the leveling ground for woman, rich or poor. The high society female with boodles of money and the woman that cleans restrooms can have the same problems.
There is just something about being a woman scorned, publically humiliated and have their lives turned upside down while the husband goes on with his life as if he never knew her.
Unfortunately Battle, in today's age marriage is considered a commitment for the woman. How many woman just up and leave a husband just for the hell of it. Some do and leave their kids behind for some unnatural illusion. Woman are expected to stick it out through thick and thin and when a man runs to the hills, I am sure we all know some man that has abandoned his family for -----his needs.
When a man does this, some idiot will write a LOVE story about him and his finally finding his sole mate/ be it male or female.
In the last 20 years how many men have we seen on TV with forgiving wife in hand have to apologise to his family and complete strangers for their actions ??-------I have sinned against my family and church and/or the country, I ask forgiveness as we are mortal and all sin.
How many men do we see supporting a wife for indiscretions on her part???? Few will find fault with a man that casts family to the wind, be they rich man poor man beggar man thief. Where is their commitment to family start and end, only when they the men wish it to.
This is the reason why we celebrate the people that have been married 50+ years. Amazing that a union can stand the test of time, the ups and downs in to days world. Of both partners who held the family together all these years, most likely the wife.
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So true unless one marries a politician or a well know movie actor, [ or any one of the Kennedy Clan ]
This is the leveling ground for woman, rich or poor. The high society female with boodles of money and the woman that cleans restrooms can have the same problems.
There is just something about being a woman scorned, publically humiliated and have their lives turned upside down while the husband goes on with his life as if he never knew her.
Unfortunately Battle, in today's age marriage is considered a commitment for the woman. How many woman just up and leave a husband just for the hell of it. Some do and leave their kids behind for some unnatural illusion. Woman are expected to stick it out through thick and thin and when a man runs to the hills, I am sure we all know some man that has abandoned his family for -----his needs.
When a man does this, some idiot will write a LOVE story about him and his finally finding his sole mate/ be it male or female.
In the last 20 years how many men have we seen on TV with forgiving wife in hand have to apologise to his family and complete strangers for their actions ??-------I have sinned against my family and church and/or the country, I ask forgiveness as we are mortal and all sin.
How many men do we see supporting a wife for indiscretions on her part???? Few will find fault with a man that casts family to the wind, be they rich man poor man beggar man thief. Where is their commitment to family start and end, only when they the men wish it to.
This is the reason why we celebrate the people that have been married 50+ years. Amazing that a union can stand the test of time, the ups and downs in to days world. Of both partners who held the family together all these years, most likely the wife.
This doesn't seem to work so well for people like Newt Gingrich, does it?
How many women will leave their husbands? Seriously, I believe most divorces are the woman leaving. From personal experience, I know of one man who left his wife, every other divorce I can think of was the other way around. There is good reason for this, with courts now thinking that men come out of divorce with no bills while women and children end up in poverty, courts will do all they can to turn this around...and successfully. Statistics show that 2/3 of divorces are filed by the wife (http://www.divorce-lawyer-source.com/faq/emotional/who-initiates-divorce-men-or-women.html)
Every married man I know is scared to death of his wife leaving because she'll end up with the house, the better car, the kids, child support and sometimes alimony...and he will end up with the majority of their debt and paying up to 60% of his gross salary to his former wife. When I met Mr Smith, before we married, he had $350 a month left out of his paycheck every month after paying alimony and child support. From that $350, he still needed to pay half the kids' medical and dental bills, all travel expenses to see them, and little things like his rent, car payment, student loan and food. :whatever: Even with a second job, he wasn't getting by...and lived in fear that his ex would take him to court for a portion of the second income. (As she could have, she could have re-sued for more every 2 years.)
My brother had custody of 2 of his 5 kids, and was still sued several times for higher child support for his oldest 3. In each case, the court told him that the needs of the kids he had at home were not considered with the same weight as the kids with his ex's...for many years, his 2 youngest only ate because my parents helped him out. In fact, he managed to get custody of two of the older kids for a couple years while his second ex-wife was having major problems. During those 2 years, she was ordered to pay very minimal support, about 1/4 of the amount he had to pay her. She never paid one cent, and nothing was done by the court to collect. Eventually, she got her life back together, and those kids decided they wanted to go back to their mother, so my brother allowed them to go. A year later, she sued for more child support, and was awarded not only a higher amount but also support for the 2 years those girls lived with their father!!
Actually, the way child support rules are written, men risk at least 18 years of support every time they have unprotected sex. The woman has total control over the decision to carry or abort. In some states, like Missouri, child support goes until 21, and the father can even be forced to pay most of the kid's college expenses in addition to support.
So while we may see some incidents as you mentioned, most of the time, it seems to be the reverse. Women have many reasons to be happier after divorce than men.
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To normal people, marriage is a covenant. To a DUmmie, it is confinement.
Maybe at the end. In the beginning, it's financial security.
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What kind of dirty, trollish people actually look forward to death and divorce ?
Now yes - there are people who deserve to be divorced - bad people. but reading that thread, it seems there is a plurality of DUmp women who think they are married to them. So now I have questions ;
Are DUmp chicks marrying primitives, and learning that they are terrible people ?
Are DUmp chicks marrying good, decent civilized folks, and can't abide living a good life ?
Are DUmp chicks in it for the money, and their primitive partner can't provide/or the good person only serves as a meal ticket ?
Are DUmp chicks so shallow that they marry for an inheritance or insurance payout ?
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What kind of dirty, trollish people actually look forward to death and divorce ?
Now yes - there are people who deserve to be divorced - bad people. but reading that thread, it seems there is a plurality of DUmp women who think they are married to them. So now I have questions ;
Are DUmp chicks marrying primitives, and learning that they are terrible people ?
Are DUmp chicks marrying good, decent civilized folks, and can't abide living a good life ?
Are DUmp chicks in it for the money, and their primitive partner can't provide/or the good person only serves as a meal ticket ?
Are DUmp chicks so shallow that they marry for an inheritance or insurance payout ?
My personal bet is that most on the DUmp are about a mature as the average adolescent, so are completely unable to remain content in any situation that is less than their preferred ideal.
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So now I have questions ;
Are DUmp chicks marrying primitives, and learning that they are terrible people ?
Are DUmp chicks marrying good, decent civilized folks, and can't abide living a good life ?
Are DUmp chicks in it for the money, and their primitive partner can't provide/or the good person only serves as a meal ticket ?
Are DUmp chicks so shallow that they marry for an inheritance or insurance payout ?
Yes. ::) ::) ::)
Anything else you want to know? :???:
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I've met a few people who gripe and moan about their spouses. Makes me sick. No basic loyalty. It also makes them look stupid, IMO. Really? You're going to trash the person you're going home to and probably going to hop in bed with?
I have told a couple to then "do him/her a favor and turn 'em loose." I would hate to be with someone that mocks me or puts me down when with others. How sad.
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Granted, marriage isn't for everyone, but I do wonder why it takes some people so many tries to learn that lesson.
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DUmmie wymins: The Black Widows of the human race.
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What kind of dirty, trollish people actually look forward to death and divorce ?
Actually, for a guy married to one of them, I can see him praying for the sweet release of death.
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This is what DUmmies think being married means, not caring for the one you love in the last years of their life. "What's in it for ME" is all they really care about. I would wipe my husband's ass for as long as it takes because I know that he would do the same for me. It's what it means to be married, in sickness and in health.
Sadly that is not the norm now.