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Current Events => The DUmpster => Topic started by: dandi on November 27, 2010, 10:42:55 PM
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Oh geez, something else to add to the GLBTVZQWERTY confusion. Soon they'll be out of letters.
The Straight Story Donating Member (1000+ posts) Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Sat Nov-27-10 06:18 PM
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Are you 'flexisexual'?
Are you 'flexisexual'?
It all started when Madonna kissed Britney Spears on stage, followed by Katy Perry who sang a song about a girl she kissed – and now it seems the 'flexisexuality' trend is fast catching up.
The new word has been coined for the growing number of straight women who flirt with bisexuality. It refers to people who have a sexual preference but refuse to be bound by it.
"Women are often more open to these experiences when they reach their 40s and are more confident with their sexuality. If an opportunity presents itself they may think "why not", particularly if they have come out of a long relationship," the Daily Mail quoted Psychologist Dr Cecelia D'Felice as saying.
Twice-married Barrymore, who has admitted having flings with women, has been quoted as saying, "Being with a woman is like exploring your own body, but through someone else."
Actress Lindsay Lohan, 24, is among younger flexisexuals who see it as 'on trend'.
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relations...
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=389x9640189
InvisibleTouch (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Sat Nov-27-10 06:46 PM
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14. I think that's very common, actually.
I'm of the mind that sexual orientation is a continuum, and while most lean one way or the other, I think it's normal for situations to arise that bring about new experiences. Provided we haven't limited ourselves with preconceived notions, of course.
For some reason, his/her/its screen name reminds me of the pervs on crowded subways who take advantage of the situation to cop an anonymous feel.
eridani Donating Member (1000+ posts) Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Sat Nov-27-10 09:51 PM
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24. Reminds me of the 70s, when being bisexual was very au courant
I do like the more modern term "heteroflexible." though. I have this thing that "real" bisexuals can be in love with someone of either gender. "Heteroflexible" is more accurate in describing people who typically are in love only with the opposite gender, but are willing to be open-minded given the right circumstances.
"Heteroflexible." Another one. :whatever:
cutlassmama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Sat Nov-27-10 07:45 PM
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17. I'm trisexual. I'll try anything once, twice if I like it.
Okay, that one made me laugh.
me b zola Donating Member (1000+ posts) Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Sat Nov-27-10 09:09 PM
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21. No, I don't think this is what is meant at all
As someone who can identify, allow me to attempt to explain--at least from my own perspective. I am someone who considers herself "mostly straight". I am hetero, for me sexual pleasure (from another person) is all about the penis. I have been with other women, but it is not sexually gratifying to me (I love the penis). Yet I love women and often have serious girl crushes. I love the attention of women--they just lack the freaking penis. I sometimes would make out with a woman or have sex with a woman, but I really don't consider myself bi because gratification from another person for me is about the penis.
Whatever, don't fence me in.
So you're saying you like the penis? I just wanted to clear that up.
Politicub Donating Member (1000+ posts) Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Sat Nov-27-10 09:53 PM
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26. And college flexisexual women were sometimes known as LUGs
Lesbian until graduation
:rimshot:
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I call them opportunists.
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I call them opportunists.
Bingo. I went to high school with several of them.
Let's face it, biologically, if you touch the right parts it is going to feel good regardless of the gender of your partner. If a person is into really casual sex, especially women where the taboo isn't quite as strong, then it isn't a surprise that they would be willing to experiment with bisexuality.
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Bingo. I went to high school with several of them.
Let's face it, biologically, if you touch the right parts it is going to feel good regardless of the gender of your partner. If a person is into really casual sex, especially women where the taboo isn't quite as strong, then it isn't a surprise that they would be willing to experiment with bisexuality.
I'll take your word for it. :fuelfire:
:-) :-) :-) :-)
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I pictured "flexisexual" to mean being flexible in bed.
What they are talking about is categorized as being bisexual in my book.
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Britney Spears, Madonna, Lindsay Lohan. If you're gonna write about how 'normal' something is, why trot out the freak show?
:whatever:
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And here I thought this would be a thread about the Kama Sutra.
Cindie
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InvisibleTouch (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Sat Nov-27-10 06:46 PM
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14. I think that's very common, actually.
I think it people who are willing to screw anything that moves. LOL!
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The one DUmmie hit it but misspelled it. It's Try-sexual, they'll try it with anything.
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But now remember, when we are defending traditional marriage, the "other side" has no intention of adding any other relationship except 2 same-sex people. Really. Truly. ::) ::) ::)
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LGBTQIF? what is it with the left and their constantly labeling people?
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The one DUmmie hit it but misspelled it. It's Try-sexual, they'll try it with anything.
I think you hit on something here.
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I didn't know your hand has a gender! :-)
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Hey fellows...If you're flexisexual, VIAGRA might help... :-)
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And here I thought this would be a thread about the Kama Sutra.
Cindie
I like to use the Karma Sutra. What I gives ... I gets back!
:-)
KC
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I like to use the Karma Sutra. What I gives ... I gets back!
:-)
KC
H5!
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LGBTQIF? what is it with the left and their constantly labeling people?
I know, right? Especially with people's sexual orientation? Give it up already DUmmies. Talk about a messed up group of people. Wow. :mental: :mental:
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Flexisexuality doesn't bother me, as long as both chicks are hot. :lmao:
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Well at least they didn't talk about furries. Or did they mean to add them too?
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Well at least they didn't talk about furries. Or did they mean to add them too?
The poor furry guy did a post at Hannity's forum asking to be reinstated, he was denied.
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The poor furry guy did a post at Hannity's forum asking to be reinstated, he was denied.
I think I registered at Hannity's forum, but I don't think I ever posted.
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"flexisexual" ?
Sheesh.
What's f***in' next...
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This is just being bi-sexual, basically. But it's the Hollywood thing wrapped up in a different label, so it's cool... :whatever:
I've always had an extreme dislike for what's "trendy," and "the scene." This is no different.
So you're saying you like the penis? I just wanted to clear that up.
:rotf:
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Why do they always need cutesy little euphemisms? Why don't they just say, "I'll **** anything that moves, especially if it makes me sound all progressive and enlightened."
The one before this was pansexual which evidently isn't jacking off into a cast iron skillet or stirring your eggs with a dildo.
Cindie
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^ :rotf: :rotf:
No, no...you have to use the vibrator to beat the eggs... :lmao:
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^ :rotf: :rotf:
No, no...you have to use the vibrator to beat the eggs... :lmao:
Touche! :cheersmate:
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Your mom always says I'm pretty flexible
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I didn't know your hand has a gender! :-)
Plus you never get rejected! :-)
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Britney Spears, Madonna, Lindsay Lohan. If you're gonna write about how 'normal' something is, why trot out the freak show?
:whatever:
I trust that's a rhetorical question, DAT. :wink:
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I would like to as DU "Are your morals so shaky that you'll **** anything and everything if you had the slightest chance?"
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I would like to as DU "Are your morals so shaky that you'll **** anything and everything if you had the slightest chance?"
You know what the answer to that question is. I should BS you for asking it.
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And here I thought this would be a thread about the Kama Sutra.
Cindie
Ya really think DUmmies know what the hell the Kama Sutra is?
Why don't we just call them all what they are? Perverts!
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What is a flexisexual? :???:
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What is a flexisexual? :???:
Bunnyfu*kers
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Bunnyfu*kers
That explains. Sodomite damned freaks.
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Bunnyfu*kers
:lmao: They all do claim to "love" animals.
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Gee - a new label from the left. How original. :whatever:
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Gee - a new label from the left. How original. :whatever:
And thus forth shall a new protected Christian hating minority class be created...
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I just have a couple of questions....as I have never heard of "flexisexual" until this thread...
Am I that naive? :ashamed:
What happened to "bi-sexual"? :???:
Isn't announcing "I like the penis"....just a bit TMI? :wtf2:
Why am I suddenly feeling so old? :thatsright:
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I keep trying to tell you....VIAGRA....because if it's flexible, you ain't gonna be sexual.
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You know what the answer to that question is. I should BS you for asking it.
Of course I know the answer. I'm just interested in hearing the excuses for why it is Okey Dokey for them to screw anything that they can convince, drug or force to crawl in to the sack with them.
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Of course I know the answer. I'm just interested in hearing the excuses for why it is Okey Dokey for them to screw anything that they can convince, drug or force to crawl in to the sack with them.
So am I. We all know that one of the main reasons is because they get it so seldom, that any sex with another entity/being is good sex to them.
(Blow-up dolls don't count.)
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What is a flexisexual? :???:
Bunnyfu*kers
I'm not ashamed of my flexible sexual relations:
(http://printliberation.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/contortionists-321.jpg)
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I just have a couple of questions....as I have never heard of "flexisexual" until this thread...
Am I that naive? :ashamed:
Flexisexual is their new and improved "hip" lifestyle choice. You know how they are about these kinds of things. It makes them feel all intellectual and progressive. From what I can gather being flexisexual means you'll sleep with anyone who's convenient. I have no idea whether that extends to animals or more than one partner at a time, though I'm pretty sure it includes furries.
What happened to "bi-sexual"? :???:
Oh it's still there but I think most of us just aren't nuanced enough to understand the subtleties. Whereas flexisexual means you'll grab whoever is next to you and hop in the sack, bi is a lifestyle choice. Being bisexual means when you stick your hands down someone's pants you get turned on whether they have an "innie" or an "outie".
Isn't announcing "I like the penis"....just a bit TMI? :wtf2:
Why am I suddenly feeling so old? :thatsright:
Oh the most of them aren't that hip either, they just like everyone to think they are. Maybe she meant to say this and just misspelled it several times:
[youtube=425,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qpMvS1Q1sos[/youtube]
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Got it. Thanks! :hi5:
I guess I'm just not up on all these specific definitions. I'm pretty specific about my sexuality....I really do like men - a whole bunch :naughty: and have never had any inclination to check out women....at least not for sex. I am always curious about their shoes and purses. :lmao:
I think I will just remain my boring little self. :-)
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Got it. Thanks! :hi5:
I guess I'm just not up on all these specific definitions. I'm pretty specific about my sexuality....I really do like men - a whole bunch :naughty: and have never had any inclination to check out women....at least not for sex. I am always curious about their shoes and purses. :lmao:
I think I will just remain my boring little self. :-)
You and me both...I have a handbag fetish. Haircuts, too. Then if I see a haircut I like I have to go out and buy a bunch of hairstyle magazine to see if I can find a picture to take to the salon.
Cindie
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You and me both...I have a handbag fetish. Haircuts, too. Then if I see a haircut I like I have to go out and buy a bunch of hairstyle magazine to see if I can find a picture to take to the salon.
Cindie
Hair color too! Since I've cut off my hair, I don't check out the hair styles any more, but I have been known to ask another redhead what she uses on her hair. :-) Red is a difficult color to maintain, and unfortunately can go either to burgundy or to orange. :(
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I'm pretty specific about my sexuality....I really do like men - a whole bunch :naughty:
And the football team likes you too.
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Hair color too! Since I've cut off my hair, I don't check out the hair styles any more, but I have been known to ask another redhead what she uses on her hair. :-) Red is a difficult color to maintain, and unfortunately can go either to burgundy or to orange. :(
Orange hair isn't so bad. That woman in the movie "The Fifth Element" had orange hair and she was hot
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Hair color too! Since I've cut off my hair, I don't check out the hair styles any more, but I have been known to ask another redhead what she uses on her hair. :-) Red is a difficult color to maintain, and unfortunately can go either to burgundy or to orange. :(
L'Oreal Feria Ruby Rush...my husband calls it 'whorehouse red'. But I'm adding black low-lights. Never done it myself before so it should be interesting.
Cindie
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L'Oreal Feria Ruby Rush...my husband calls it 'whorehouse red'. But I'm adding black low-lights. Never done it myself before so it should be interesting.
Cindie
Oh crap Cindie!!! Have you already done it?
I picked it up by mistake, and used it a bit over a year ago. Turned my hair a burgundy/purple!!!! Cost me $125 to get it removed!!!
I went to the salon (an Aveda one) and the girl that does my haircuts, had to try to strip it all out. I had called L'Oreal and asked them what to do and they told me not to even try it myself. They thought I was calling to blame them, and I told them no, I grabbed the box, because it was the same face on the front as the one I should have grabbed...and I didn't think the color looked right when I had it on my head, but I had only used it once before and I wasn't sure. :thatsright: I should have washed it right out, when it started changing on my head, instead of leaving it on the whole time.
L'Oreal told me the Feria colors are really hard to remove or tone down. You might want to try just a little bit that won't show too much to see if you like it.
It took Violet several hours to get my hair looking halfway decent. They were so worried, as "stripping" can cause the hair to break. When she got it out, instead of going to white or even blonde, it was TN Volunteer orange! I was in tears!!!! She put two different colors on it, then did high and low lights. Thank God, it didn't break off, or fall out!
I have been afraid to even try the one I should have picked up. I'm using Nice n Easy's Light Natural Auburn and it's doing just fine! and doesn't fade much at all and I redo it about every 4 weeks.
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Oh crap Cindie!!! Have you already done it?
I picked it up by mistake, and used it a bit over a year ago. Turned my hair a burgundy/purple!!!! Cost me $125 to get it removed!!!
I went to the salon (an Aveda one) and the girl that does my haircuts, had to try to strip it all out. I had called L'Oreal and asked them what to do and they told me not to even try it myself. They thought I was calling to blame them, and I told them no, I grabbed the box, because it was the same face on the front as the one I should have grabbed...and I didn't think the color looked right when I had it on my head, but I had only used it once before and I wasn't sure. :thatsright: I should have washed it right out, when it started changing on my head, instead of leaving it on the whole time.
L'Oreal told me the Feria colors are really hard to remove or tone down. You might want to try just a little bit that won't show too much to see if you like it.
It took Violet several hours to get my hair looking halfway decent. They were so worried, as "stripping" can cause the hair to break. When she got it out, instead of going to white or even blonde, it was TN Volunteer orange! I was in tears!!!! She put two different colors on it, then did high and low lights. Thank God, it didn't break off, or fall out!
I have been afraid to even try the one I should have picked up. I'm using Nice n Easy's Light Natural Auburn and it's doing just fine! and doesn't fade much at all and I redo it about every 4 weeks.
I've used it for a while. My natural color is a very dark auburn so this just makes it more red. And the black low lights mute the brightness quite a bit. A lighter auburn turns my hair closer to a strawberry blond which looks terrible on me.
Cidnie
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I let God do my colorwork for me. He hasn't screwed it up yet :tongue:
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Orange hair isn't so bad. That woman in the movie "The Fifth Element" had orange hair and she was hot
Milla Jovovich, and HELL YES, she is hot. No matter what her hair color is.
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I'm not ashamed of my flexible sexual relations:
(http://printliberation.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/contortionists-321.jpg)
Holy crap! That could be....uh...convenient. :-)
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I've used it for a while. My natural color is a very dark auburn so this just makes it more red. And the black low lights mute the brightness quite a bit. A lighter auburn turns my hair closer to a strawberry blond which looks terrible on me.
Cidnie
That's great that you have already used it before. I thought it was a new color for you.
Amazing how some hair colors just do not work with our skin tones. I have to use gold undertones in hair, nail polish and makeup or I will look really weird. (weirder? :???: ) The blue undertones, like in the ruby rush color, are a disaster on me.
I was a strawberry blonde as a young kid, then when my hair turned dark, I had reddish copper lights in it. The light copper-y auburn works great. Most people who have only known me as a redhead, have thought it to be my natural color. Helps that it goes with my personality. :wink: