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Title: Anyone else having a lousy xmas eve?
Post by: Chris_ on December 24, 2009, 10:53:16 PM
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yourguide  (1000+ posts)      Thu Dec-24-09 10:40 PM
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Anyone else having a lousy xmas eve?

Just got into a brawler with my boyfriend and he stormed out.

What the plan was: hunker down, have egg nog, watch "it's a wonderful life"

What happened? Fighting about beer, actually more specifically fighting about money as he hasn't worked in almost three.****ing.years. and we're on a budget. I give him an allowance every week, he blows it on beer and smokes. This past week he got his usual cash on Friday and had blown threw it by Tuesday. Good news is he promised to quit smoking the day after xmas, bad news is he wanted to drink and smoke like a mad man until then.

I fronted him some cash for beer yesterday with the caveat that he could either have it yesterday or today if he wanted some beers on xmas eve. He chose yesterday, of course drank all of his beer yesterday and came looking for his friday cash tonight. Part of why he needs to quit smoking (aside from his health) is I need to get our budget under control and cigs are $10 a pack in NY. So the agreement was he stops smoking Friday and he also gets less money on Fridays. I told him fine go get cash and beer, but reminded him to take out less money and he scampered off to the ATM with my debit card (it's cold out and I didn't want to go).

Of course he pulled out the full amount rather than the reduced amount which will put my bank account into overdraft status. So we fought, he stormed out, with my debit card, abandoning me on christmas ****ing eve.

He lives with me, I pay his ****ing rent, bills, etc waiting for him to get his ass back on his feet and *this* is the thanks I get.

Sorry ya'll, I just needed to let it out. I didn't want to call my friends and spoil their christmas eve.

Rant over.

 


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bigwillq  (1000+ posts)       Thu Dec-24-09 10:48 PM
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2. Time to kick him out.
 He's using you. Sorry about this. 


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yourguide  (1000+ posts)      Thu Dec-24-09 10:52 PM
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7. Yeah, this is really sucking...
 the problem is, where the hell is he going to go? Because he's had minimal cash he hasn't really been out with friends so I don't know that he really has anyone he can stay with. He's got one sister in the southwest but how the hell is he even going to get there with no cash.

I'm a liberal, I can't just dump anyone out on the street lol!

They get treated like sh*t but still feel obligated.  What a DUmmy !
Title: Re: Anyone else having a lousy xmas eve?
Post by: DefiantSix on December 24, 2009, 10:59:45 PM
DUmmy sorrow and angst is exquisite in it's sweet flavor.  :cheers1:
Title: Re: Anyone else having a lousy xmas eve?
Post by: crockspot on December 25, 2009, 12:12:16 AM
I need to find me a lib chick to freeload off of.  :evillaugh:
Title: Re: Anyone else having a lousy xmas eve?
Post by: Chris on December 25, 2009, 12:14:12 AM
For loud-mouthed proponents of feminism, they sure are pushovers when it comes to men.  Sheesh.
Title: Re: Anyone else having a lousy xmas eve?
Post by: longview on December 25, 2009, 12:18:13 AM
For loud-mouthed proponents of feminism, they sure are pushovers when it comes to men.  Sheesh.

I have always found that to be bizarre, also.
Title: Re: Anyone else having a lousy xmas eve?
Post by: miskie on December 25, 2009, 01:10:41 AM
Feminists are straight chicks that can't find dates.
Title: Re: Anyone else having a lousy xmas eve?
Post by: JohnnyReb on December 25, 2009, 03:09:51 AM
I need to find me a lib chick to freeload off of.  :evillaugh:

Be sure to take 2 WAL-MART bags with you when go shopping for her.
Title: Re: Anyone else having a lousy xmas eve?
Post by: NHSparky on December 25, 2009, 07:26:23 AM
I dunno--me and the critters watched the Jeff Dunham Christmas Special and I laughed my ass off.
Title: Re: Anyone else having a lousy xmas eve?
Post by: diesel driver on December 25, 2009, 09:59:37 AM
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=105x9184228

They get treated like sh*t but still feel obligated.  What a DUmmy !

Now she might know how WE feel about DUmmies....   :loser:
Alas, they are too stoopid to learn....   :banghead:
Title: Re: Anyone else having a lousy xmas eve?
Post by: Texacon on December 25, 2009, 10:52:21 AM
Enablers.  Every one.

KC
Title: Re: Anyone else having a lousy xmas eve?
Post by: Airwolf on December 25, 2009, 11:18:45 AM
Three frackin years without a job? The longest I have been without is under 9 months and I had a cash reserve to get buy on of my own. The stoopid is strong with that one.
Title: Re: Anyone else having a lousy xmas eve?
Post by: The Village Idiot on December 25, 2009, 07:53:07 PM
I need to find me a lib chick to freeload off of.  :evillaugh:

He hasn't worked in 3 ****** years and she'ss now worried about where he might be? Maybe at a motel with a hooker lady.

Dang, get over it. He has used you but good.
Title: Re: Anyone else having a lousy xmas eve?
Post by: GOBUCKS on December 25, 2009, 08:53:56 PM
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yourguide  (1000+ posts)      Thu Dec-24-09 10:40 PM
Original message
Anyone else having a lousy xmas eve?

Just got into a brawler with my boyfriend and he stormed out.

What the plan was: hunker down, have egg nog, watch "it's a wonderful life"

What happened? Fighting about beer, actually more specifically fighting about money as he hasn't worked in almost three.****ing.years. and we're on a budget. I give him an allowance every week, he blows it on beer and smokes. This past week he got his usual cash on Friday and had blown threw it by Tuesday. Good news is he promised to quit smoking the day after xmas, bad news is he wanted to drink and smoke like a mad man until then.

I fronted him some cash for beer yesterday with the caveat that he could either have it yesterday or today if he wanted some beers on xmas eve. He chose yesterday, of course drank all of his beer yesterday and came looking for his friday cash tonight. Part of why he needs to quit smoking (aside from his health) is I need to get our budget under control and cigs are $10 a pack in NY. So the agreement was he stops smoking Friday and he also gets less money on Fridays. I told him fine go get cash and beer, but reminded him to take out less money and he scampered off to the ATM with my debit card (it's cold out and I didn't want to go).

Of course he pulled out the full amount rather than the reduced amount which will put my bank account into overdraft status. So we fought, he stormed out, with my debit card, abandoning me on christmas ****ing eve.

He lives with me, I pay his ****ing rent, bills, etc waiting for him to get his ass back on his feet and *this* is the thanks I get.

Sorry ya'll, I just needed to let it out. I didn't want to call my friends and spoil their christmas eve.

Rant over.

I don't know. DUmmy yourguide hits the democrat stereotype so squarely on the head, it makes me suspect a Lousy Freeper Troll. When making troll posts, you need to remember the Pineapple Express rule:  "Never go full libtard."
Title: Re: Anyone else having a lousy xmas eve?
Post by: TheSarge on December 26, 2009, 08:19:52 AM
DUmmy sorrow and angst is exquisite in it's sweet flavor.  :cheers1:

Especially when it's self induced.

I got to the part where she said her boyfriend hadn't worked in 3 years and she had him on an allowance and stopped.

Told me all I needed to know about this little self inflicted tale of woe.
Title: Re: Anyone else having a lousy xmas eve?
Post by: NHSparky on December 26, 2009, 08:35:53 AM
Especially when it's self induced.

I got to the part where she said her boyfriend hadn't worked in 3 years and she had him on an allowance and stopped.

Told me all I needed to know about this little self inflicted tale of woe.

Amazing how pissed off they get when it's THEIR money supporting other people's bad habits, rather than the opposite direction they've been used to their entire worthless lives.
Title: Re: Anyone else having a lousy xmas eve?
Post by: TheSarge on December 26, 2009, 08:51:17 AM
Amazing how pissed off they get when it's THEIR money supporting other people's bad habits, rather than the opposite direction they've been used to their entire worthless lives.

Everyone becomes fiscally Conservative when it's their money being taken
Title: Re: Anyone else having a lousy xmas eve?
Post by: Chris_ on December 26, 2009, 09:33:14 AM
That's one hell of a sweet couple there.

An unemployable loser leech and a hippy chick too stupid to give him the boot.  :rotf:
Title: Re: Anyone else having a lousy xmas eve?
Post by: I_B_Perky on December 26, 2009, 08:36:40 PM
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I need to find me a lib chick to freeload off of.

You like hairy, smelly women?  :tongue:

Sorry... for me it would have to be at least a 55 with 6 zeros following it of net worth before I'd hop in the sack with something like that.

Hey, if I'm gonna be a whore at least I am gonna be a high class one!  :-)