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Current Events => The DUmpster => Topic started by: franksolich on December 03, 2009, 09:42:48 PM
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http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=301x691
Oh my.
This bonfire's almost a month old now and extinguished, but the primitives aren't putting out tonight, so I looked around for older bonfires of interest.
The racist babbling sister primitive:
babylonsister (1000+ posts) Mon Nov-09-09 10:32 PM
NOMINEE FOR TOP PRIMITIVE OF 2009
Original message
Hi. I found this group about two weeks ago, and I am one of you now.
My DH of 27 years asked me for a divorce after a vacation in MX, the night we got home, on Sept. 13.
He doesn't love me anymore. His dad didn't love his mom anymore either, after 39 years.
We worked out the financial particulars, and I willingly left TX. I'm now in Savannah, GA, in a 2-bdrm apartment, alone but with my stuff pretty much all set up, and it's not so bad. My computer is in the living room, and I can do what I want without having to deal with him.
I didn't want this, but if I can find a decent job, I will be okay. As for dating, after 27 years, . I'm a cancer survivor and have had a mastectomy. And how do you ask anyone to take a test? I don't even know anyone yet, but the neighborhood cop is very cute (but very married). I had stopped looking years ago, but that look again gene has kicked in.
Now that's laying it all out!
On the plus side, I lost 20# and am now a size 14, and cut my hair off. It's still somewhat gray by choice, but maybe I'll dye it? Only for a job: I like it, but need all the help I can get.
I might be crying on here before long, but I really don't think so. I haven't mourned too much, though I know NY Eve will hurt, as will Valentines Day; our anniversary is on 13 Feb.
Divorce will be final in May; he's 'giving me an opportunity to find a job while I have health care' which I lose when we divorce. Ain't he swell?!
How big is "size 14" on a woman?
Pretty big?
elleng (1000+ posts) Mon Nov-09-09 11:30 PM
Response to Original message
1. Hi, b'sister. Good to see you here.
I know nothing about Savannah except a year ago I drove thru on way from FL back to DC area. Didn't take time to stop, as I'd been in Florida with my folks for 9 months, and was returning 'home' after my mother had passed on.
Its good to hear you, and think about this opportunity. You're very lucky to have agreed on financial matters; I've had to sue my husb, and have first hearing Nov. 19.
I've found Starbucks to be a useful and pleasant resource for 'social life,' both in Florida and here, and if of interest to you, I recommend you make use of it. With a book, newspaper, computer, it/they can provide change of scene and mood.
babylonsister (1000+ posts) Tue Nov-10-09 10:39 AM
NOMINEE FOR TOP PRIMITIVE OF 2009
Response to Reply #1
2. Hi, Ellen, and thanks for the tip. I'm still unpacking (packing and unpacking-that's all I've done for months, it seems, two months to be exact) and then I have to put 100% into the job hunt.
Starbucks at $4+ a pop?
elleng (1000+ posts) Tue Nov-10-09 10:09 PM
Response to Reply #2
3. I unnerstan!
It is possible to conserve at starb's! extra cups of ice! and hang out for a long time! And job hunt may happen there too!!!
ps, my fave tall mocha frap 'only' 3.70!!!
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babylonsister
As for dating, after 27 years, . I'm a cancer survivor and have had a mastectomy. And how do you ask anyone to take a test?
A test?!? What's the first question: Are you as frackin' politically whacko as I am?
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Mon Nov-09-09 10:32 PM
NOMINEE FOR TOP PRIMITIVE OF 2009
Original message
Hi. I found this group about two weeks ago, and I am one of you now.
My DH of 27 years asked me for a divorce after a vacation in MX, the night we got home, on Sept. 13.
He doesn't love me anymore. His dad didn't love his mom anymore either, after 39 years.
We worked out the financial particulars, and I willingly left TX. I'm now in Savannah, GA, in a 2-bdrm apartment, alone but with my stuff pretty much all set up, and it's not so bad. My computer is in the living room, and I can do what I want without having to deal with him.
I didn't want this, but if I can find a decent job, I will be okay. As for dating, after 27 years, . I'm a cancer survivor and have had a mastectomy. And how do you ask anyone to take a test? I don't even know anyone yet, but the neighborhood cop is very cute (but very married). I had stopped looking years ago, but that look again gene has kicked in.
Now that's laying it all out!
On the plus side, I lost 20# and am now a size 14, and cut my hair off. It's still somewhat gray by choice, but maybe I'll dye it? Only for a job: I like it, but need all the help I can get.
I might be crying on here before long, but I really don't think so. I haven't mourned too much, though I know NY Eve will hurt, as will Valentines Day; our anniversary is on 13 Feb.
Divorce will be final in May; he's 'giving me an opportunity to find a job while I have health care' which I lose when we divorce. Ain't he swell?!
Wow! She must have been pretty big! 14 is not small! at least she's still in the teens however!
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A size 14 would be about like an Anna Nicole Smith. She had size 16 days, though.
Well, I wish the babbling sister well, anyway. After 27 years, starting a new chapter in life is jolting. I think she's jumping the gun on the "testing" thing. Jumping immediately into bed with some dude of dubious background is not the answer.
My computer is in the living room, and I can do what I want without having to deal with him.
That's a good thing. Control freaks and my liberty-loving self do not mix.
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A size 14 would be about like an Anna Nicole Smith. She had size 16 days, though.
Well, I wish the babbling sister well, anyway. After 27 years, starting a new chapter in life is jolting. I think she's jumping the gun on the "testing" thing. Jumping immediately into bed with some dude of dubious background is not the answer.
That's a good thing. Control freaks and my liberty-loving self do not mix.
True Karin! But i seriously doubt this dummie carries her weight in the same places that Anna did! :-)
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Not enough info for me to decide wheather the dude deserves a medal for enduring a moonbat for 27 years or a tatoo that says "STUPID" on his forehead.
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Oh my.
This is why the break-up:
My computer is in the living room, and I can do what I want without having to deal with him.
As we all know, the racist babbling sister primitive spends 24/7/365 on Skins's island, like the kaput primitive, the "kpete" primitive, illuminating the primitives with copied-and-pasted news stories from dubious sources.
She wasn't giving her husband any love.
Normally, one would feel for someone going through a divorce, but an exception needs be made here. The racist babbling sister primitive at no time, ever, showed any sympathy for George Bush agonizing over troubling events such as 9-11, Saddam Hussein genociding his own people, the yearnings of the oppressed to be free, &c., &c., &c., and so in her own anguish, well, what comes around goes around.
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Well, Frank, you're a pretty tough customer. BTW, isn't it time to change your avatar again? I'm sick of looking at that moonbatty Skinner. His dopey smile makes me want to slap it off him.
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Uhm...ok.
A fat chick with short grey hair and one boob, coupled with a nasty liberal attitude.
She'll be the "Playmate of the Year" at DU.
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How big is "size 14" on a woman?
Pretty big?
It's the average size of US women. Same as my wife, I LOVE curvy women. :naughty:
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It's the average size of US women. Same as my wife, I LOVE curvy women. :naughty:
You just moved up a peg in my book. Your wife is a lucky woman.
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Well, Frank, you're a pretty tough customer.
No, not really, madam.
franksolich has a soft and gentle heart, and I believe a track record of forgiveness and compassion.
However, such softity is a limited resource.
And so franksolich doesn't waste it on wretched miserable people who make their own wretchedness and misery.
The racist babbling sister primitive at no time 2001-2009 showed any feeling, any compassion, for the sorrows of George Bush as he anguished over the murders of millions (everyone from infants killed in the womb to victims of terrorism), as he worried about the plight of the oppressed, as he strove to use whatever means within his power to stop the killing and oppression.
The racist babbling sister primitive is getting just what she deserves.
What goes around, comes around.
BTW, isn't it time to change your avatar again? I'm sick of looking at that moonbatty Skinner. His dopey smile makes me want to slap it off him.
Like the new one better?
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You just moved up a peg in my book. Your wife is a lucky woman.
I guess I just moved down. Size 6 is getting "big" for my taste.
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I guess I just moved down. Size 6 is getting "big" for my taste.
You can't help what you are attrected to. I just think it was a sweet comment he made about his wife.
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It's the average size of US women. Same as my wife, I LOVE curvy women. :naughty:
I thought 8/10 was about average?
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You can't help what you are attrected to. I just think it was a sweet comment he made about his wife.
I agree. She is one lucky lady.
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But the average U.S. woman, who's 162.9 pounds and wears a size 14, is treated like an anomaly by apparel brands and retailers -- who seem to assume that no one over size 10 follows fashion's capricious trends.
Fashion-forward boutiques such as Maxfield and Fred Segal rarely stock anything over a size 10, and in designer shops, sizes beyond 6 or 8 are often hidden like contraband in the "back." Department stores typically offer tiny sections with only 20 or so brands that fit sizes 14 and up -- compared with the 900-plus brands they carry in their regular women's wear departments
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From the LA Times
I''ve always liked "Rubenesque" women.
One other thing, they love sex. My neighbor has a "Barbie Doll" of a wife, seriously, she looks like Beach Barbie............ but hates sex. Poor guys got...well........blue you-know-whats...
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My computer is in the living room, and I can do what I want without having to deal with him.
TRANSLATION: Sex...what does he think I am...a wife?
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From the LA Times
I''ve always liked "Rubenesque" women.
One other thing, they love sex. My neighbor has a "Barbie Doll" of a wife, seriously, she looks like Beach Barbie............ but hates sex. Poor guys got...well........blue you-know-whats...
0o=====))
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.One other thing, they love sex. My neighbor has a "Barbie Doll" of a wife, seriously, she looks like Beach Barbie............ but hates sex. Poor guys got...well........blue you-know-whats...
Rubenesque, Barbie Doll, and in between. It's all fine. The old saying is "Worst I ever had was pretty damn good." Of course, as people here have often said, "Whenever you see a gorgeous girl, remember, somewhere there's a guy who's sick of her shit."
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You can't help what you are attrected to. I just think it was a sweet comment he made about his wife.
UGH I typed that on my phone.... ATTRACTED not attrected.
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UGH I typed that on my phone.... ATTRACTED not attrected.
Oh, I thought you know what I was attrected to.
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A size 14 would be about like an Anna Nicole Smith. She had size 16 days, though.
Well, I wish the babbling sister well, anyway. After 27 years, starting a new chapter in life is jolting. I think she's jumping the gun on the "testing" thing. Jumping immediately into bed with some dude of dubious background is not the answer.
That's a good thing. Control freaks and my liberty-loving self do not mix.
I had the same first thought as you. The divorce isn't even final, and her first thought is making sure some stranger is safe to shack up with?