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Current Events => The DUmpster => Topic started by: franksolich on June 30, 2009, 03:05:29 PM
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Oh my.
G_j (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 12:50 PM
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getting old in a culture that looks down on old people is rather disconcerting...
Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 12:51 PM
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1. Yeah, I just turned the big Five Oh. Wear it proudly.
I had to go look it up in the "name change" directory in the DUmping Ground, a subsidiary forum of the DUmpster here.
The "Captain Hilts" primitive was once the "MookieWilson" primitive.
villager (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 12:57 PM
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hey -- so did I. 'Bout a week ago....
Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 01:02 PM
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14. So, all the cool kids are turning fifty about now.
The warped primitive, who unestimates her presence:
Warpy (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 12:54 PM
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2. Women have a bizarre experience in their 50s
All of a sudden we become invisible to everybody but our closest friends and families. It's like we just don't exist as human beings any more. No one is interested in what we have to say, how we think, who we are. We're just another piece of furniture, something to step around on the way to someone more interesting.
G_j (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 12:57 PM
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8. I always hoped we would culturally evolve beyond those attitudes,
maybe someday...
Yeah, the gastro-intestinal primitive was probably one of those hippies 45 years ago saying people over 30 were old.
What goes around, comes around.
SDuderstadt (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 01:23 PM
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24. I'm sorry...did you say something?
Sorry, I couldn't resist. Since 50, I've noticed teenage girls no longer giggle when I walk by.
madmax (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 12:54 PM
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3. Turning 60 in August
Not feeling old and not looking too shabby but, you're right. Take heart in that knowledge that you have and be comfortable with yourself. At my age I finally realized the only opinion about me that matters is mine.
monmouth (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 12:55 PM
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4. I'll be in my very late 60s in July, but mentally am looking forward to getting my driver's license...
Probably no more than a learner's permit.
redqueen (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 12:55 PM
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5. I wonder...if that habit has anything to do with the opposite - obsessive adoration of youthfulness.
We glorify actresses who have good plastic surgery jobs. We glorify people who continue to indulge in risky behaviors when others' sense of risk avoidance would normally have kicked in. It's all so stupid IMO.
One senses some gayphobia here.
DearAbby (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 12:56 PM
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6. No so bad as before
We have a lot of company.
off topic: Any god damned idiot who comes to me and says " you're not old..fifty is the new thirty", I am gonna go over there and kick his ass!
Deja Q (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 12:56 PM
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7. Ageism stinks. And then look around and see who supports ageist people.
Directly or otherwise, it is a fascinating look at so-called "human nature".
(aka "purportedly justified bullshit").
shanti (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 03:35 PM
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28. yeah, but getting old stinks worse!
DavidDvorkin (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 12:58 PM
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9. Oh, to be 50 again!
Or even 60.
You kids today. Always complaining.
Wizard777 (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 01:02 PM
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13. or even 70. Since 77 isn't as old as it used to be. 80 isn't as scary as it used to be.
In fact I'm looking forward to it. In light of recent events I'm more grateful than ever before of each passing year.
Wait until 0bamacare kicks in.
RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 01:10 PM
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17. I have to say, I feel older at 56 than my mother's 83 year old boyfriend seems to be.
Just a matter of perspective.
Wizard777 (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 12:59 PM
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10. 77 isn't as old as it used to be!
Ganja Ninja (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 01:01 PM
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11. This culture looks down on anybody that doesn't have money regardless of age. Old people don't have to feel all alone in that.
Wizard777 (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 03:10 PM
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25. Such is the culture of greed we call capitalism to lend legitimacy to sin.
Of course there is an outrageous APR on that loan of legitimacy.
The rate of return for the investor is your body, mind, and soul.
Which for a primitive yields a negative return.
David__77 (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 01:02 PM
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12. 50 is the new 30.
I think it's really true. People aren't the fogeys they used to be.
RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 01:12 PM
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19. I am!
And keep off my lawn!
Posteritatis (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 01:04 PM
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15. Honestly I've gotten the impression that this culture looks down on *everyone*
I feel like I'm in one of the tiny windows where that's not the case (or maybe I'm just lucky), but this culture really feels like it's got an equal-opportunity contempt thing going on. Older people are conservative, a drain on resources and Don't Get It; younger people are disrespectful, intrinsically criminal and Don't Get It; just about everyone in between is clearly at fault for everything that isn't the doing of the other two groups, etc etc etc.
Ageism pisses me off no matter which direction it's going in, but it seems to be going in every possible direction as of late.
(And, of course, don't get me started on things looked down on for reasons other than age. Oy.)
Obviously referring to the rabid anti-semitism of the primitives.
seabeyond (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 01:15 PM
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21. equal-opportunity contempt. i think you may be right.
no_hypocrisy (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 01:04 PM
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16. Other cultures revere the elderly as having given them their opportunity by working and sacrificing for the rising generations.
Okay then, where's the primitive respect for Ronald Reagan, Strom Thurmond, Jesse Helms, the first George Bush, Robert Dole, Gerald Ford, &c., &c., &c.?
Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 01:17 PM
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22. It's corporate culture "values," nothing inherent in the human condition
Brainwashed society
The Mary Pickford primitive, who's about as old as Mary Pickford would be, if Mary Pickford were still alive:
Cleita (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 01:21 PM
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23. They treat you like shit in the large cities. If you move to smaller places that cater to retirees you get more respect because they need your money. Also, medical services are geared for old people. I live in such a place. The nearest city is also a college town so you get a mix of young and old when you go into town to do your shopping. The merchants cater to both.
The Good Samaritan primitive, who reccently started collecting social security:
Mari333 (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 03:13 PM
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26. well, Im getting old and this culture can kiss my ass and I intend to be the most cantankerous old lady they ever met. I will have good company..we are the largest demographic group in the USA....this culture can kiss all our asses.
But a demographic group that's shrinking, not growing. Old people die, not regenerate.
aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 03:30 PM
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27. What do you see in our cultures as "looking down on old people"
With the graying of boomers, getting looks as good as ever.
JitterbugPerfume (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 03:42 PM
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29. my sister age62 had a stroke in October and she said she is no longer invisible , but treated with outright contempt when she "gets in the way" at the grocery store etc.
The above primitive must live in a blue state or blue city.
Out here in reddest Nebraska, ancients with afflictions are treated especially kindly by "fundies," "religious" "zealots," "right-wingers," Republicans, conservatives, old, young, rich, poor, farmer, rancher, mechanic, dentist, &c., &c., &c.
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Wizard777 (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 03:10 PM
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25. Such is the culture of greed we call capitalism to lend legitimacy to sin.
Of course there is an outrageous APR on that loan of legitimacy.
The rate of return for the investor is your body, mind, and soul.
Ooooooooooooo how deep. How profound and wise. How nonsensical. What the hell is this supposed to mean? And a rate of return is generally stated as a number. I love it when they get so overimpressed with themselves.
I notice Warpy chimed in with nothing but bitterness.
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I notice Warpy chimed in with nothing but bitterness.
Yeah, that's the warped primitive's nature.
It's just very sad that no male ever told her, circa 1955 or something, that she was a pretty little lass, or circa 1970 or something, that she was good-looking.
That's all it would have taken, to prevent the warped primitive from falling into primitivity; a few kinds words here and there.
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-30-09 12:54 PM
2. Women have a bizarre experience in their 50s
It's like we just don't exist as human beings any more. No one is interested in what we have to say, how we think, who we are.
DUmmy Warpy is upset that her career must transition from pole dancer to pole smoker.
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DUmmy Warpy is upset that her career must transition from pole dancer to pole smoker.
I'm thinking that it would be happy with pole smoker, as it probably isn't either one.
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The only thing I do not want is to rely on a daily regimen of pills to extend my life. Give me a backpack and a tent and let me head out into the wilderness if I get to that point.
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The only thing I do not want is to rely on a daily regimen of pills to extend my life. Give me a backpack and a tent and let me head out into the wilderness if I get to that point.
I'm of the same mind. One of the reasons I claimed my health and devote so much time to physical fitness is to delay (hopefully) that kind of reality until I'm a very old woman (God willing I live that long). Will I need meds at some point? Perhaps and probably, but I have a goal in mind I'd love to get to age-wise before I hope my body will need that kind of support. If it happens, is yet to be determined I suppose, but at least I know I controlled the portion that I could. Genetics, fate I have no control over.
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The only thing I do not want is to rely on a daily regimen of pills to extend my life. Give me a backpack and a tent and let me head out into the wilderness if I get to that point.
I've been on a "daily regimen of pills" (well, 2, anyway, lol) for years now. When something is out of whack in your body, or your body no longer produced a needed substance, that "daily pill" makes all the difference in the world.
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I've been on a "daily regimen of pills" (well, 2, anyway, lol) for years now. When something is out of whack in your body, or your body no longer produced a needed substance, that "daily pill" makes all the difference in the world.
This might be a touchy subject, but there are some things within our power to change and/or control--at least in our younger years. I know at least I was not talking about hereditary or genetic conditions that come about no matter how we care for our bodies. My brother would be one of those (he's a type 1 diabetic), but the lessons I have learned form him being on a 'daily regimen' of which he has no control over is that I am damn lucky to have the health I have and should protect it and at least control those factors which I can: weight, what I eat, how much activity I get, how many medications I take for routine things, supplements, etc. Believe me when I say he wishes just merely changing his diet and working out would make his ailments go away; I just wouldn't feel right if I didn't at least take advantage of the chance to keep those things in check or away at least temporarily. Medications are not fun: if you can avoid them, if you at least have the chance, why not take it? That's at least my motto for myself--well one of many anyway..lol
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I'm lucky. Had a major/major heart attack (that's what the doctor said) 13 years ago and so far a baby aspirin a day keeps the doctor away.