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Current Events => The DUmpster => Topic started by: Tucker on June 16, 2009, 07:05:12 AM
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greenbriar (1000+ posts) Mon Jun-15-09 10:19 PM
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just went to take daughter's laundry to her room and found her packing
she thinks she is going to move out to a town 60 miles away
I am done with her
if you will remember last week she was being ungrateful..
Now I am just going to let her pack her bags and go
but she gets NO money from me, no NOTHING
MADem (1000+ posts) Mon Jun-15-09 11:10 PM
Response to Reply #44
48. I agree with your advice. Once she's eighteen she's on her own.
But before that, there's the whole parental responsibility thing.
greenbriar (1000+ posts) Mon Jun-15-09 11:14 PM
Response to Reply #48
54. apparently she and my mother in law have been talking and she is moving in with her
don't get me wrong, my MIL is pretty cool, but I am a bit angry that she would think this is cool
Ultimate slap in the face.
OffWithTheirHeads (1000+ posts) Mon Jun-15-09 10:26 PM
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8. And you need to share this with us ...why?
Sounds like something best kept "in the family", not broadcast all over the world. Oh well, I guess some folks just need attention.
POW-BANG-ZOWIE!!!! :lmao:
Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Mon Jun-15-09 10:27 PM
Response to Reply #8
12. What's YOUR problem?
People here post all kinds of stuff about their problems, sometimes personal, sometimes not. There's a lot of wisdom out there.
You, clearly, are not among that "wisdom" bunch....................................
Pot calling the kettle black.
greenbriar (1000+ posts) Mon Jun-15-09 10:39 PM
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25. I thought we had a good relationship but the last 3 weeks she doesnt' speak to me, she stays in her room unless she is talking to her dad or getting food.
She just left and didnt' even say anything
she looks at me as if she wishes I were dead
and all teh while it is her dad, my hubby who I had protected her from all this time. Dont' get me wrong...he is a good man, but sometimes speaks before he thinks and is kind of gruff with words...he doesnt' mince them...
I have always been the go between...maybe I shouldn't have been
but I thought I was doing what was best to keep peace between both daddy and daughter
but it hasn't gotten me anywhere
she knows how very proud of her I am . I tell her constantly
I also tell her I love her all the time
as I said, I was determined to always treat her with respect and love and to make sure she knows it
far from what I experienced with my own mother
hubby says maybe I was "too good"
greenbriar (1000+ posts) Mon Jun-15-09 10:39 PM
Response to Reply #25
26. my mom would say I deserve it
I think she is the most awesome person in the world, I love her tremendusly but I don't know why she is so angry at me or with me or what ever
I don't deserve it.
I understand the growing pains and wanting independence...I actually left home the day after I graduated...(bad circumstance) and it made me grow up
but I hated my mom and knew she hated me...
I spent her whole life making sure she wouldn't think the same way I did and it seems she feels that way anyway
You deserve every rotton thing that happens to you.
edited by franksolich to remove superfluous quote tags; sorry for the inconvenience
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Saw that earlier and wish I could H5 you for bringing it over. It's so chock full of wonderful parenting advice!!
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Thanks. It' one of my favorite posters. She's such a drama queen.
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Thanks. It' one of my favorite posters. She's such a drama queen.
I think she's taking her daughter's budding independence way too personally. She's probably been a hoverer over that child her entire life and she just wants some space. Not to mention if things are so bad in that house between her and her husband, didn't she ever figure the child would want to leave at some point?
I don't know, I just think her daughter is in the know it all, independence phase.if she truly is ungrateful as gb says, she'll quickly discover other people have rules and conditions too--even grandma. As for greenbrier, she needs to stop being so damn offended because her daughter is going through the same phase that 90% of other adolescent girls have gone through. I think what really offends mother like her sometimes is that her kid is not as special as she thought--she goes through the same stages, discontentment, growth, etc as any other kid.
I almost get the impression gb is pissed because her kid has not adequately bowed in approval at her mother's sacrifice to raise her :whatever: What exactly did gb sacrifice? Material things? Nope. a career? nope. a good life? nope. Hmmm...your daughter thinks you are a dumb adult...guess that doesn't make greenbrier any more special then any other parent of an adolescent out there either. lol
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Wonder if the daughter finally got sick of her lunatic mom always screeching politics and putting down her father.
Greenbriar is the most ungrateful wench one could ever know by the things she has posted.
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All dummies lie all of the time. I'd love to hear the daughter talk about GB :-)
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I think she's taking her daughter's budding independence way too personally. She's probably been a hoverer over that child her entire life and she just wants some space. Not to mention if things are so bad in that house between her and her husband, didn't she ever figure the child would want to leave at some point?
I don't know, I just think her daughter is in the know it all, independence phase.if she truly is ungrateful as gb says, she'll quickly discover other people have rules and conditions too--even grandma. As for greenbrier, she needs to stop being so damn offended because her daughter is going through the same phase that 90% of other adolescent girls have gone through. I think what really offends mother like her sometimes is that her kid is not as special as she thought--she goes through the same stages, discontentment, growth, etc as any other kid.
I almost get the impression gb is pissed because her kid has not adequately bowed in approval at her mother's sacrifice to raise her :whatever: What exactly did gb sacrifice? Material things? Nope. a career? nope. a good life? nope. Hmmm...your daughter thinks you are a dumb adult...guess that doesn't make greenbrier any more special then any other parent of an adolescent out there either. lol
Yea .. I think the concept of unconditional love is completely beyond some folks. It always surprises me because I have always thought it was a human parental instinct, not something you choose or even really think about.
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Remarkable find, Tucker, sir.
I was just over at Skins's island and omitted to see this bonfire myself.
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You gotta remember that GB is addicted to pain meds and her ole man is a drunk. The home life must suck.
I did a DU search on GB and she has started several threads about her doing twice the prescribed dosage of her pain drug and running out early. Getting the Dr. to allow her to refill early, by writing a new script.
She also has started several threads on her preparing a big dinner. She lists all the foods, including dessert. She gets pissed because no one eats it. She dines alone.
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All dummies lie all of the time. I'd love to hear the daughter talk about GB :-)
Seriously, so would I!
Greenbriar sounds so immature here. She is complaining about her daughter, her 17 high school graduate daughter, not being willing to stay home. If I recall correctly, her daughter is going to a local community college next year. Maybe the daughter realized that this is the best time to get settled in a new place, get used to grandma's rules, so that she is settled for the school year. Maybe the daughter feels under appreciated after she gave her mom an expensive purse, or maybe she found out that dear mom is talking about her online.
About Greenbriar "protecting" her daughter from her father, I doubt that either Greenbriar's husband or her daughter would see things the same way. I'm betting that either the daughter didn't need protecting at all, and Greenbriar is a drama queen and her daughter knows it (probably true either way), or if it was really that bad, that her daughter needed more protection than a go between, and is upset that her mother didn't take her out of the situation.
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I hope her daughter is running away to marry Track Palin.
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I hope her daughter is running away to marry Track Palin.
:lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: :lmao:
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Wonder if the daughter finally got sick of her lunatic mom always screeching politics and putting down her father.
Greenbriar is the most ungrateful wench one could ever know by the things she has posted.
Bingo!
Looks like the kid is being a teenager and woke up to the fact that her mother is a Moonbat.
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Yea .. I think the concept of unconditional love is completely beyond some folks. It always surprises me because I have always thought it was a human parental instinct, not something you choose or even really think about.
Anything can happen when you try to be your child's "bestest buddy" instead of their parent. The parents who do that often have a surprise coming.
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Didn't the daughter enlist in the Army OCS and GB went on a rant?
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Oh for cryin' out loud! GB acts like she's the first parent to have a rebellious teen. Who the hell needs to grow up here? For ****s sake, get real! (pardon my language, but drama queens like this, piss me off!)
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Major family drama such as this, and the first thing she does is go post about it on a public forum. :whatever:
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Major family drama such as this, and the first thing she does is go post about it on a public forum. :whatever:
Nothing like airing the family's dirty laundry on a moonbat forum. No wonder sissy is putting some distance between them.
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Yeah, her husband's such a prick. I guess that's why he takes her fat ass on cruises every f'n year. If he knew what she said about him at the DUmp, he'd probably throw her fat ass overboard and put me out of the misery of having to read her idiotic drivel.
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Yeah, her husband's such a prick. I guess that's why he takes her fat ass on cruises every f'n year. If he knew what she said about him at the DUmp, he'd probably throw her fat ass overboard and put me out of the misery of having to read her idiotic drivel.
Not to mention all the high dollar purses that she likes to brag about.
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Not to mention all the high dollar purses that she likes to brag about.
If I recall correctly, her daughter actually bought her one of the high dollar purses. I'm sure the husband pays for plenty of her luxuries though.
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Not to mention all the high dollar purses that she likes to brag about.
Are you ready for it?
They were a gift from her daughter. :lmao:
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I am glad that they don't live near me. If that man went on trial for dumping her off the side of a cruise shit I couldn't convict him and sleep at night.
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I can't help but laugh. Seems many over there read her posts and know she's a drama queen.
She's going to live with her grandmother not a stranger. Why does greenbriar call grandma MIL ? Because it's her husband's mother ?
I bow to Tucker13. You have greenbriar pegged. :-)
I cannot believe the stuff that woman posts. She has no shame.
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I am glad that they don't live near me. If that man went on trial for dumping her off the side of a cruise shit I couldn't convict him and sleep at night.
Dumping her overboard would be to good for this shrew and probably poison the sharks!
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How close can they be if she doesn't even know why her daughter is pissed at her? If hubby's only fault (this week) was that he was a little gruff why the hell did daughter need to be protected? "Gruff" is a good quality in a man...tends to balance the opposite in women.
Cindie
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First she says she is "done with her" (pretty damn final if you ask me), then she says she is the most awesome person in the world. I suspect this is how Greenbriar was during her whole daughters life, totally inconsistent and confusing with angry outbursts. Looks like she continued the family tradition, her daughter hates her just as she hated her mother.
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I'd bet all this "drama" is in her(greenbriar) head. This move was prolly arranged weeks ago but gb was so downed out on pain killers she didn't know what was goin on....
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First she says she is "done with her" (pretty damn final if you ask me), then she says she is the most awesome person in the world. I suspect this is how Greenbriar was during her whole daughters life, totally inconsistent and confusing with angry outbursts. Looks like she continued the family tradition, her daughter hates her just as she hated her mother.
Imagine what the posts are going to be like when she finally realizes she's been so overbearing her daughter feels about the same toward her as she does about her mother.
The nervous breakdown will register on the Richter scale!
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Imagine what the posts are going to be like when she finally realizes she's been so overbearing her daughter feels about the same toward her as she does about her mother.
The nervous breakdown will register on the Richter scale!
Nope, DUmmie Greenbriar will blame it on the ultra-conservative education driving wedges between them. Lord knows she has done everything completely the opposite of her own mother, therefore it can't be her fault.
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Nope, DUmmie Greenbriar will blame it on the ultra-conservative education driving wedges between them. Lord knows she has done everything completely the opposite of her own mother, therefore it can't be her fault.
I think Greenbriar will actually blame the DUmp since no one asked her about her most recent cruise. :evillaugh:
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Yeah, her husband's such a prick. I guess that's why he takes her fat ass on cruises every f'n year. If he knew what she said about him at the DUmp, he'd probably throw her fat ass overboard ...
Poor sea turtles would choke.
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the ultra-conservative education
Huh?! I'm sure GB made sure she never even heard of that!
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michreject (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-16-09 08:06 AM
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88. Isn't she going in the military?
Or did she change her mind?
greenbriar (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-16-09 01:38 PM
Response to Reply #88
110. when I was fighting the military she was all gung ho...when I gave my support
suddenly she didn't want it anymore
michreject (1000+ posts) Tue Jun-16-09 01:48 PM
Response to Reply #110
114. That's a telling statement
She's for what you're against and against what you're for.
What's up with that?
Nuff said.
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DU is a very bad epsiode of "Jerry Springer"
That daughter is probably conservative or something or heading that way