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The greenbriar primitive, the 8th-grade social studies teacher from in or near Wichita; please notice this bonfire was started ten months ago, but it's still going:
greenbriar (1000+ posts) Sat Apr-05-08 01:24 AM
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Hello, I think my husband has a drinking problem
it has slowly been creeping up and I seriously think it is a problem
if I say anything to him, my life will be hell
but ...
Justpat (1000+ posts) Sat Apr-05-08 09:29 PM
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3. If your life is hell for speaking of your concerns and your fears, I believe you have a problem too.
All the suggestions given in the Lounge thread were good advice.
In AA, we are not so inclined to give advice. We are recovering drunks.
So we share our experience, strength and hope with each other in order to find our way out of our addiction with the help of the steps.
I suggest you try Al Anon and find a good person there to be your sponsor.
A sponsor is just a friend who has been where you are and found some sanity and peace. Please try it.
It sounds like you need a friend. I'll keep you in my thoughts.
TrogL (1000+ posts) Tue Apr-08-08 03:17 AM
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5. I saw your lounge thread
If he is that abusive perhaps there needs to be a police intervention. They may be able to get him into recovery.
Failing that, is there anybody he trusts who could talk to him about his drinking?
Okay, that was then; this is now:
greenbriar (1000+ posts) Tue Feb-10-09 09:32 PM
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6. it has been a while and I am happy to say
that he has stopped drinking
we actually went together to our pastor and while it has not been easy, it has gotten better
Justpat (1000+ posts) Thu Feb-12-09 12:26 PM
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10. Great news.
Thanks for letting us know.
Uh huh, it's all good; it warms the heart.
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