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Current Events => The DUmpster => Topic started by: franksolich on September 10, 2008, 04:18:43 AM
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Oh my.
undergroundpanther Donating Member (1000+ posts) Wed Sep-03-08 05:11 PM
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Ever want..
to be with another person who also WANTS to be with you too?A person who accepts the faults ,the weird and the mind and heart as it is..a true companion?
Yeah I wish there was someone near me to come over hang out, shoot the shit, yell at the Tv with me over stupid republican ass hattery or get into deep discussions from mundane to cosmic..
Someone affectionate but not sexual.
Someone to be my friend.Someone with time to waste.
Someone who does not monopolize everything,obsess, control or drag me down,someone who isn't threatened in the ego to be a cheerleader who believes in me even when I can't.
Someone bold enough ,to go places I've never been to before on earth or into the unknown,to just go.
Someone not flaky,clingy,mooching,passive,yet who has a daring side,a magickalness.But has no addictions or abusive ways..An honest,deep, gentle,emotional wild person.Someone to do art with.To brainstorm and to create whatever.
Someone to do stupid shit with,like pranks on church signs walking across the road with a scarf on 'cause it's cold,holding a sign for the camera that says"I am not Bin Laden" and showing up at a store in June dressed as a purple squirrel just because we felt like doing it.
Someone willing to risk not being normal.And hang out with a freak like me,shamelessly. Someone to chase around with in the yard with a super soaker's,until exhaustion, than lay in the grass and describe the images in the clouds they see.Someone who gets choked up at sunsets,and giddy during thunderstorms.Someone who isn't a diet nazi.Someone to go to Arundel mills mall and drool over the Egyptian style of the place.Someone who knows ancient things too.Someone to feast on cheesecake with.
Someone who also gets a kick out of playing with my crazy kitties on catnip with a laser pointer,and willing to slap a moth down wards so the cats can have a tasty treat, but cries over roadkill..Someone to weight lift with so we can spot each other.
Someone smart enough to keep up with me.
Someone to give them the only thing I ever had,my true selfs.A gift I still hold within that no one seems to want,without trying to control it.Someone who doesn't give two shits about being in roles in society that most people play into.
And I also want to hold the hand inside them,and discover them so it isn't so hard to be alive day after day..
Anyone else wish for this?
I know it will not happen for me.
Not where I live.
I long for a deep friendship.
It sucks to be alone so much.
I dunno.
Working in a job is a great way to meet other people.
undergroundpanther Donating Member (1000+ posts) Sun Sep-07-08 10:19 PM
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2. I don't have any prospects,nuthin.
At least you had a chance,someone DID call.Me, nobody calls.
Why I dunno.It's not like I never put forth effort,I am social and not boring..I dunno I think I am just doomed.Set up to fail.Wasted ten years with a jerk.Now i 'm old fat worthless.
I dunno.
Working in a job is a great way to meet other people, and if not a desk job, it cuts down on lardage too.
undergroundpanther Donating Member (1000+ posts) Tue Sep-09-08 12:27 AM
Response to Reply #3
4. I'm not anti sex
I just don't like being around someone who's sex obsessed,talking about it,asking all the time and such. It makes sex burdensome and not any fun for me ,and it makes me just want to move away from them.it feels like they don't like me just like using me and that pisses me off..I hate porn.
Sad, you say it would be hard to find someone like that. Because I am like that.
I like doing a variety of stuff with people and they have to earn my trust and that takes time..But once you earn it, I give it my all. As long as the other person gives back, I give more.It's how I am.Deep complex and warm once you earn my trust. but you break my trust, I close up.I grow cold .So I prefer to work it out so I do not get resentful or pissed.Others before were cowardly and unwilling to be open emotionally and honest enough to resolve it.
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Friendships require respect and sacrifice of ones own interests sometimes.
When it is mutual it works.
UP will not do either I suspect so the result is no surprise.
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Friendships require respect and sacrifice of ones own interests sometimes.
When it is mutual it works.
UP will not do either I suspect so the result is no surprise.
I don't think the subway cat's going to go out and get a job and meet people either.
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Her miserable life could change today if she can find a friend in Jesus.
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Her miserable life could change today if she can find a friend in Jesus.
Yeah, that would work too.
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Oh my God. She's looking for someone just like herself (itself)......and they might even mate.......The end is near. May be time to dust off the old "DOOMSDAY" sign.
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Her miserable life could change today if she can find a friend in Jesus.
Yeah, that would work too.
Coach, befriending Our Lord is where it starts. H5 to Undies for bringing it up.
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lol. She wants someone to obsess over "her" every fault, but she doesn't want to make any of the sacrifices.
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I don't see 'herm' being able to break out of the narcissism and achieve the level of mutuality that a true friendship requires.
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undergroundpanther Donating Member (1000+ posts) Wed Sep-03-08 05:11 PM
Original message
Ever want..
to be with another person who also WANTS to be with you too?A person who accepts the faults ,the weird and the mind and heart as it is..a true companion?
Yeah I wish there was someone near me to come over hang out, shoot the shit, yell at the Tv with me over stupid republican ass hattery or get into deep discussions from mundane to cosmic..
Someone affectionate but not sexual.
Someone to be my friend.Someone with time to waste.
Someone who does not monopolize everything,obsess, control or drag me down,someone who isn't threatened in the ego to be a cheerleader who believes in me even when I can't.
Someone bold enough ,to go places I've never been to before on earth or into the unknown,to just go.
Someone not flaky,clingy,mooching,passive,yet who has a daring side,a magickalness.But has no addictions or abusive ways..An honest,deep, gentle,emotional wild person.Someone to do art with.To brainstorm and to create whatever.
Someone to do stupid shit with,like pranks on church signs walking across the road with a scarf on 'cause it's cold,holding a sign for the camera that says"I am not Bin Laden" and showing up at a store in June dressed as a purple squirrel just because we felt like doing it.
Someone willing to risk not being normal.And hang out with a freak like me,shamelessly. Someone to chase around with in the yard with a super soaker's,until exhaustion, than lay in the grass and describe the images in the clouds they see.Someone who gets choked up at sunsets,and giddy during thunderstorms.Someone who isn't a diet nazi.Someone to go to Arundel mills mall and drool over the Egyptian style of the place.Someone who knows ancient things too.Someone to feast on cheesecake with.
Someone who also gets a kick out of playing with my crazy kitties on catnip with a laser pointer,and willing to slap a moth down wards so the cats can have a tasty treat, but cries over roadkill..Someone to weight lift with so we can spot each other.
Someone smart enough to keep up with me.
Someone to give them the only thing I ever had,my true selfs.A gift I still hold within that no one seems to want,without trying to control it.Someone who doesn't give two shits about being in roles in society that most people play into.
And I also want to hold the hand inside them,and discover them so it isn't so hard to be alive day after day..
Good Lord, needy much?
I don't see how anyone could ever live up to her expectations. All the crazy freakazoid needs aside, she just seems a smidge too co-dependent.
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Friendships require respect and sacrifice of ones own interests sometimes.
When it is mutual it works.
UP will not do either I suspect so the result is no surprise.
I don't think the subway cat's going to go out and get a job and meet people either.
Even in relationships they just can`t escape from the mindset that everything is owed to them.
She will do nothing to find or cultivate a friendship,wishes a person just like herself to appear and when that doesn`t happen whines about how terrible and unfair her life is.
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Can you just imagine of answering a personal ad in the paper and meeting UP. :bawl: On the bright side.......you could have a new panther skin rug in front of the fireplace. :lmao:
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She needs to PM stevenumbers.
He would not mind the hairballs, and she might end up with a litter of underground kittens.
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I find this incredibly sad. Even the other loonies she's probably met in her stays at various "mental health" institutions hasn't gained her any friends.
Cindie
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undergroundpanther
Ever want..
to be with another person who also WANTS to be with you too?A person who accepts the faults ,the weird and the mind and heart as it is..a true companion?
Yeah I wish there was someone near me to come over hang out, shoot the shit, yell at the Tv with me over stupid republican ass hattery or get into deep discussions from mundane to cosmic..
Someone affectionate but not sexual.
Someone to be my friend.Someone with time to waste.
Happiness is a warm gun.
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Affectionate, but not sexual??? :rotf:
Well, that rules out MEN......unless she picks one up at the pound that's already been neutered.
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Someone smart enough to keep up with me.
Here ya go:
(http://imagecache2.allposters.com/images/pic/ADVG/681~Dopey-Posters.jpg)
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Her miserable life could change today if she can find a friend in Jesus.
Yeah. God loves her, too.
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I see that she's missing the firing pin between thoughts and actions.
She'll never figure out that someone who is miserable, hateful and downright bitter can never find happiness in the form of companionship.
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I could show her in two minutes how to create a fast friendship with even a total stranger by using just some very basic tools of interpersonal relationships, But as DAT so correctly observed in his post, she'd first have to set aside her narcissism and concentrate on the other person for a while.
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Her miserable life could change today if she can find a friend in Jesus.
Yeah. God loves her, too.
It's probably a good thing that He's God, and I'm not.
I don't think I could do it.