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Current Events => The DUmpster => Topic started by: BannedFromDU on March 09, 2022, 03:40:31 PM
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Star Member Tom Yossarian Joad (18,124 posts)
My 90 year old father has been hospitalized and I'm at a loss. [View all]
I am pretty much homebound as in more than 5 or 6 steps leave me breathless and fearing my defibrillator is going to fire off again. However no one else knows my restrictions and that's how I like it. I can't go visit him and that's killing me and I can't do pretty much anything without having the abilities I once took for granted.
I Have been this way for three-four years in an apartment with a trash deposit a block away and my home now looks like a hoarder's episode and need all this to change...
It's a ****ing embarrassment that this is a concern at the time of my Father's passing.
Any suggestions would be appreciated. I love you all. Unless you support Trump's anything.
Remember, these are the people who believe they possess all the answers to the world's problems (https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=16461281)
So, you're an 18,000-post DUmmy veteran, you live in a hoarded hovel, if you take a walk longer than the one needed to go sit on the toilet you'll DIE, yet your biggest concern is that someone might be a Trump supporter.
And, like almost all DUmmies, you have a parent who is supposedly 900+ years old ("and has voted straight Democrat in every election since 1849, and I am under orders to keep voting Dem for them long after they die") and has health concerns nearly as bad as yours.
Please - do nothing to improve your situation, but instead tell us how much you dislike someone who neither affects you, nor is affected by you. Do go on. The world needs the guidance of a bitter, near-dead hoarder.
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Is TYJ among the many DUpipo who called for or approved of hospitals refusing treatment to the unvaxxed? I'm going to play a Stereotype Card and guess that TYJ has had a life-long knife-fork-and-spoon control issue and has also led a sedentary life. I'm not rejoicing at his health problems, but expecting he's been a typical DU-hypocrite.
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Is TYJ among the many DUpipo who called for or approved of hospitals refusing treatment to the unvaxxed? I'm going to play a Stereotype Card and guess that TYJ has had a life-long knife-fork-and-spoon control issue and has also led a sedentary life. I'm not rejoicing at his health problems, but expecting he's been a typical DU-hypocrite.
My guess is lifelong smoker and drinker, too.
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How's that Obamacare goin' for ya'?
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My guess is lifelong smoker and drinker, too.
I am a smoker, a drinker, and before I married I chased lots and lots of women... I also gamble, LOL.
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I am a smoker, a drinker, and before I married I chased lots and lots of women... I also gamble, LOL.
Hell, I did all that both before marriage and after the divorce. But always within moderation, of course. And I don't blame Orange Man, Putin, POTUS in chief Obumbler, or Poopy Joe. Unlike liberals, I own my decisions and don't blame them on exterior factors.
:cheersmate:
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Hell, I did all that both before marriage and after the divorce. But always within moderation, of course. And I don't blame Orange Man, Putin, POTUS in chief Obumbler, or Poopy Joe. Unlike liberals, I own my decisions and don't blame them on exterior factors.
:cheersmate:
Oh yeah... I did leave out the part where my choices were my own, and the consequences were my responsibility. I guess, I would make a bad DUmmie... This is further evidenced by the very short lives of my moles. LOL
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Any suggestions would be appreciated. I love you all. Unless you support Trump's anything.
alrighty then, Justin.
Happy to have been here.
To have been a pain in the ass.
To have loved you.
And you
and you...
The list goes on.
I have been given a wonderful heads up
in the form of heart failure a couple of years ago.
I gave up motorcycling,
then a little more
and a little more...
Now it's hard,
really hard
To simply go to the store.
My ****ing teeth have left
me.
But I regress.
I love you mother****ers.
I hope you can have half the fun I have had.
I hope you can see
as many wonders as I have.
I hope you can meet as many wonderful people as
I have.
Hang tight.
Love with no worries of regret.
Love with abandon.
Just ****ing love.
Justin J. Rosencratz
:mental:
:rotf:
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One of my sisters, I sure is probably a DUmmy, typical in that she knows everything and spends hours every day on her facebook writing all this hate mail on Trump. 20 years ago she lived in a townhouse in a gated community and totally trashed the place.
With the help of some of my other brothers and sisters but mostly me we cleaned up her place after an intervention which also included youth services. I spent 8 months cleaning the place and my estimate is I threw out 29 tons of trash. In addition I filled 11 of those huge contractor bags with trash just from her car, I filled a chevy astro van to capacity 4 times with magazines.
Even to this day my brother and his wife have to monitor her finances as she has no concept of how money works and yet she knows everything. She has a degree in drama but has no talent, has to have a maid over once a week and actually got herself fired for a federal civil service job, something we all thought was impossible.
It's all mental illness. Imagine living in the apartment next to Star Member Tom Yossarian Joad (18,124 posts).
ON EDIT: Several things I learned from the experience and one of those is I will never clean up a family members place who is a hoarder without being paid. It is a terrible job and it scars your mind. A place that was as bad as my sisters I would call the local zoning office and health department. Her place was so bad they would have condemned it.
With fire and EMS I have been in other hoarders places. There is a smell common in this situation, it lingers even in your car and stays in your head for weeks. A fire in this kind of place we don't do interior suppression only rescue and protect the exposures. Too much fireload and not enough room to move around. I was in a trailer fire a few months ago the place was infested with cockroaches.
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Fire, police, and EMS people see things, regularly, that ordinary people can scarce imagine.
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Any suggestions would be appreciated. I love you all. Unless you support Trump's anything.
Perhaps we could send him some healing white light or pictures of our hands...
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Star Moron Tom Yossarian Joad (18,124 posts)
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Any suggestions would be appreciated. I love you all. Unless you support Trump's anything.
Moles aside, who in DU supports "Trump's anything"?
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Remember, these are the people who believe they possess all the answers to the world's problems
Yup. They believe they know what's best for you.