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Current Events => The DUmpster => Topic started by: dutch508 on March 12, 2021, 05:57:10 PM
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Star Member demtenjeep (29,730 posts)
https://www.democraticunderground.com/100215220961
My husband and I are white-but we face racism a lot. He has albino traits
Both of his parents are white-the recessive trait is not known in any family so we do not know why are where but it is there.
He has very white pigmentation, even his body hair is white. His eyes are beautiful blue but he is legally blind.
People look at him weird and make comments. We were married for 2 years before we had our child but even his side of the family said maybe we should adopt because god forbid we have a child with his issues. This was 32 years ago
People look at us funny. When I was pregnant, someone at a buffet we were eating at actually came to our table to ask if we were worried that the baby would have his hair. I said I hoped so.
For the record, she looks a lot like him in structure but she doesn't lack pigmentation.
Even though both of us are white, he and I get comments and looks all the time.
The color of someone's skin does not indicate what is inside their heart, mind and body.
I love my husband and wouldn't change a thing but we get crap all the time.
I am not crying. Just pointing out that it exists for a lot of people. My younger sister's husband didn't even come to our wedding because I married an albie.
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Star Member luvs2sing (1,328 posts)
1. My ex's cousins..
were identical albino twins. And I still remember the stares and ignorant comments.
Star Member LakeArenal (16,669 posts)
3. Interesting post. I wish you all the best.
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Star Member demtenjeep (29,730 posts)
6. thank you. We are doing well-except for my health
we live well, love well and do well .
I just wanted to share our experience.
People are cruel based on skin tone. All the time!
DUmpmonkie ,missed to tone completely...
Star Member wryter2000 (40,526 posts)
4. It's horrible that this happens to you
But it's not racism. Albinism isn't a race or ethnicity.
I don't mean to compare your experiences with anything else, because various forms of prejudice and hate don't compare with each other. Nor do I want to minimize the cruelty you've had to endure. It just isn't racism any more than misogyny is racism.
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Star Member madaboutharry (35,758 posts)
7. Your brother in law didn't come to the wedding?
That is so crazy.
I can’t get my head around the hurtful way some people behave.
her brother in law would be the guy's brother... maybe it wasn't the albino he had an issue with?
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Star Member demtenjeep (29,730 posts)
8. hes a jerk
always has been =always will be.
BUT at my sister's funeral my husband was the only one that would talk to him at the dinner.
imagine that.....................
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Buckeye_Democrat (10,753 posts)
9. At least your husband isn't being killed for...
... witch doctor potions and such.
That's what happens too often to albinos in Africa. This is group that tries to help them: https://www.underthesamesun.com/
I understand your heartache about it, though, so please don't think that I'm downplaying your situation.
Star Member demtenjeep (29,730 posts)
12. wow- I had no idea
I will look into that.
:o Oh, for ****'s Face... even I knew that.
Treefrog (286 posts)
11. That's terrible you have to deal with that, but I don't think that is actually racism.
This is the DU member formerly known as Pongo.
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Star Member demtenjeep (29,730 posts)
15. maybe it is just hate for the unknown?
when I first started dating him several in my family were like-are you sure?
but my mom adored him.
My dad just asked if he was good to me. I said very.
that was all they needed.
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I wondered why this came up- as far as I know- DUmpmonkietenjeep has never talked about her Albino Blind Hubby before...
then I remembers that Markel was dissing the Queen about race...
DUmpmonkiez make everything about them. Always.
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Star Member demtenjeep (29,730 posts)
18. it is hate based on skin color
prejudice
based on nothing but skin color
even today and he is 52
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Star Member demtenjeep (29,730 posts)
23. he is wonderful
and treats me like I am the only woman in the world
Star Member demtenjeep (29,730 posts)
24. he is also CSO of a large city
he beat all odds
... blind, albino, CSO of a major city? Shouldn't be too hard to fine... 'Oh, Tess!...'
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The white DUmmies feels left out and have to interject themselves into the "we are victims of racism" group. Isn't that a form cultural appropriation ?
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Seem to recall that someone who was famous kind of famous once uttered a beautiful line. Modern day liberals never mention it, because it seems to have disappeared from our discourse:
“I look to a day when people will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.”
Anyone remember that guy?
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Seem to recall that someone who was famous kind of famous once uttered a beautiful line. Modern day liberals never mention it, because it seems to have disappeared from our discourse:
“I look to a day when people will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.”
Anyone remember that guy?
sounds like a racist! [/DU]
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I am victim, hear me WHI-I-I-I-I-INE!
Albinism is very uncommon or rare. People who have never seen or heard of it will react, perhaps curiously, perhaps concern ... and, of course, there are bullies. All this is ordinary human behavior, not some sort of "ism".
I think I've seen/known one albino, a friend in high school.
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Well, that explains it; that explains how Pamela got to get married.
The husband can't see her.
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Pam, I suggest you take this obviously satirical Babylon Bee post to heart:
7 Ways You Can Be Less White
1. Burn all your Live, Laugh, Love signs. This is the first step to renouncing whiteness. Find every last "Live, Laugh, Love" sign in your home, every "Too Blessed To Be Stressed" trinket, and every "All I Need Is A Little Bit Of Coffee And A Whole Lot Of Jesus" mug and burn them as you think about your inherently sinful whiteness.
2. Rip off your skin. This is an easy one!
3. Kill yourself. Even easier! For best results, rip off your skin, then kill yourself.
4. Announce that you identify as a person of color. Wait, never mind. This one might be cultural appropriation. You also might be mistaken for a conservative trying to come up with a third joke.
5. Throw out all your ranch dressing. Ranch dressing, mayo -- it's all gotta go.
6. Take dance classes. This is a hard step, but it's worth it. As you learn to dance to a beat, your whiteness will begin to melt away.
7. Hate yourself every waking moment until you have sufficiently atoned for your whiteness. Oops! Spoiler alert: you'll never sufficiently atone for your whiteness. Better go back to step 3.
There you go! Racism ended forever!
https://babylonbee.com/news/7-ways-you-can-be-less-white
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I believe “drama queen attention whore” is the phrase I’m looking for.
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Well, that explains it; that explains how Pamela got to get married.
The husband can't see her.
Ha! Ha! :clap: :clap:
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No biggie, primitive. Sit back, relax, have a Coke, and enjoy you white privilege, you filthy human being.
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Yeesh, they never give up on "Look! I'm NOT a racist!"
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Yeesh, they never give up on "Look! I'm NOT a racist!"
This entire exercise is a bunch of guilty white liberals who are apologizing for their own well documented blatantly racist past (KKK, Jim Crow, segregation). Meanwhile, the woketard libs are attempting to spin it all onto conservatives and Republicans who created this quagmire of a supposed racism issue.
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Serious question: when playing the polar bear hunt game, are albinos worth more than regular polar bear white devils?
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Back when I was just a young-un circa 1980 I lived in Burlington, VT. The largest city in VT population around 38K. Anyways we were close enough to Montreal that sometimes bands that played in Montreal stopped there after and played at a local bar for what I suspect was probably just drinks. The bar would charge a very reasonable cover of about $5.00. One night I was in there and it was Johnny Winter (would've rather it'd been his brother Edgar) sitting on a bar stool on the dance floor. I'm sitting like 10 ft away. The long white hair, the ghostly skin and the red eyes. Yeah you kinda take a second look, but I gotta say even a redneck racist like me would never call him an "Albie"
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Star Member demtenjeep (29,730 posts)
23. he is wonderful
and treats me like I am the only woman in the world
Okay. I'm getting old so my memory isn't what it used to be. I could be completely off about all of this. Wasn't Cruise Ship Pam the one who was wanting to dance the fandango with a pool boy or bartender or something on a cruise ship because he paid her attention? Other than her husband's name being "Mark" (I believe) I don't think in all the years of Pam's "look at meing" that she's mentioned much about him. Especially anything about him being even remotely albino.
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Pam, I suggest you take this obviously satirical Babylon Bee post to heart:
7 Ways You Can Be Less White
1. Burn all your Live, Laugh, Love signs. This is the first step to renouncing whiteness. Find every last "Live, Laugh, Love" sign in your home, every "Too Blessed To Be Stressed" trinket, and every "All I Need Is A Little Bit Of Coffee And A Whole Lot Of Jesus" mug and burn them as you think about your inherently sinful whiteness.
2. Rip off your skin. This is an easy one!
3. Kill yourself. Even easier! For best results, rip off your skin, then kill yourself.
4. Announce that you identify as a person of color. Wait, never mind. This one might be cultural appropriation. You also might be mistaken for a conservative trying to come up with a third joke.
5. Throw out all your ranch dressing. Ranch dressing, mayo -- it's all gotta go.
6. Take dance classes. This is a hard step, but it's worth it. As you learn to dance to a beat, your whiteness will begin to melt away.
7. Hate yourself every waking moment until you have sufficiently atoned for your whiteness. Oops! Spoiler alert: you'll never sufficiently atone for your whiteness. Better go back to step 3.
There you go! Racism ended forever!
https://babylonbee.com/news/7-ways-you-can-be-less-white
Oh boy, am I in trouble ... :naughty: :lol:
We sold our winter place in Florida & have been back in North Georgia since last May, And I am getting whiter than ever!
Furthermore, I refuse to burn my one & only "Live, Love, & Laugh" sign, nor throw out my newly opened jar "light mayo."
Well Pam, If that makes me a 1st. class RACIST, then so be it!!! *evil-grin*
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Post # 2 to Pam ...
Even though both of us are white, he and I get comments and looks all the time.
The color of someone's skin does not indicate what is inside their heart, mind and body
Pray tell Pam, and what indeed is "inside" your DUMMIE "heart, mind, and body"
I'd love to know! Forget it. I already do know ... Whiner, attention whore!!!
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We have seen him,you are still a lying piece of shit Pam.