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Current Events => The DUmpster => Topic started by: franksolich on May 08, 2018, 10:58:21 AM
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https://upload.democraticunderground.com/11518580
Oh my.
The problems the primitives seem to have makes one wonder if possibly they might actually enjoy having them, because they seem to do pretty damned little about resolving them, getting rid of them.
angstlessk (10,923 posts) Sat May 5, 2018, 06:44 PM
I was my family's scapegoat
I don't recall when I realized that I was the family's scapegoat, maybe when I was 60 or so, or maybe after my mother died?
My family (mom, dad, sister, and me) lived with my grandmother, who also had three children by my uncle (two of which may not have been his) whose mother plopped them down with my grandma.
I was the child who was bullied by all the kids...I just recall one time I was being particularly bullied into hiding behind the couch...I recall my mother saying "that's enough' as if everything before was just fine.
I ran away from home and went to court, and my mother told the judge I was 'incorrigible' and at age 13 I was sent to reform school.
I was the family scapegoat.
There is so much more, as I am sure some of you have experienced!
"Toxic Families Who Scapegoat" https://www.mentalhelp.net/blogs/toxic-families-who-scapegoat/
I think my mother was a narcissist?
The comments are for the most part those of 60- and 70-year-old primitives still blaming poor old mom and poor dear dad that they turned out such nonentities in life. So the primitive comments are pretty boring, not worth bringing over.
However, I feel a need to wax autobiographical, but I promise I'll keep it real short.
I was the seventh of eight children, my younger brother and I being born after our parents had begun getting tired and grey, probably because the six oldest children wore them out. I am deaf, born that way, the only defective in the family. My parents and younger brother all died when I was still a teenager, but nearing twenty. All my older brothers and sisters were then married, with careers and children.
However, despite the most-excellent parenting and that we came from good blood, the older six when in high school and college turned into hippies, promiscuous drug users, Democrats, liberals, and primitives, going against everything the family had been for generations. I myself remained as I'd always been.
A perfect set-up to be a scapegoat, an object of misdirected anger; youngest, smallest, and handicapped. It was after all a great deal easier, and more convenient, to rage and storm at this innocent, unaware sitting duck rather than at the real sources of their problems and unhappiness.
Until they all died--from afflictions and ailments of too much affluence--I was the butt of all their frustrations, anxieties, and resentments.
I suspect they were jealous because I was a positive person, and they weren't.
And herein is where the primitives purposely and deliberately keep themselves down and hurting, by refusing to acknowledge God, Who heals all.
I dunno where I picked up the idea, and I was pretty young, but anyway, somewhere along the line I developed the quite reasonable notion that what God, and not mortal beings, thinks of me is the only thing that matters. So I was a scapegoat, but whoop-whoop-whoop-dee-do, it affected me hardly at all.
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I was my family's scapegoat
I bet is is better than being Bubba's butt buddy. :-) :rotf: :rotf:
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https://upload.democraticunderground.com/11518580
So I was a scapegoat, but whoop-whoop-whoop-dee-do, it affected me hardly at all.
I can't complain, I had an overall good experience during upbringing.
DUmpasses are perpetual victims, always clearing off a nice clean spot to lay down blame.
One needs morals and ethics grounded in reality to wade through life. DUmpasses were either never taught them, or decided life was easier if you can just set them aside and blame someone else instead.
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there is something wrong with a lot of the earlier boomers but, unlike you, Kathy is crazy:
My mother said when I attempted suicide "she just wants attention"
What the **** is wrong with attention?
When my son ran away..she (my mother) said 'he just wants attention'...and I told her...well I can GIVE him that attention...and I ran after him!
I currently have only one device..no pots no pans, just a convection toaster
can one survive on such a contraption?
Are there enough recopies?
I need a man to replace the man who lives in my house!
In DETROIT!!
He often threatens to kill me...he has become the most racist black person I have known since he moved from Virginia to Detroit...
And he thinks he is a slave...though all the income mine?
I used to be a regular person when the kitchen was available...then he would microwave a meal or two...then it was all sandwiches...now he thinks if he produces a sandwich he is a slave?
All the income is mine, but I put all into a joint account..he has access to all money
I live in Detroit, and want to go to Denver
Are there cannabis trails?
Just before Christmas, when I was a kid of about 15 or so....
I was in a bathroom when a girl left her pocketbook on the sink when she went into the bathroom stall. I stole her purse and gave away all it's contents, including the money...I just wanted the purse, cause I was 15 and didn't own a purse.
I gave her driver's license to a friend, who got pulled over, and showed her license to the cop! I was sitting beside her, and she gave me up! Surprise! I Admitted to the crime, and went to court.
I told the judge I just wanted the purse, and everything just seemed to go away. Not sure what happened?
Anyway, that Christmas, under the tree was a beautiful purse! I still cry after 50 years!
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there is something wrong with a lot of the earlier boomers but, unlike you, Kathy is crazy:
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Dear Lord you're right... that one is exceptionally detached
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there is something wrong with a lot of the earlier boomers but, unlike you, Kathy is crazy:
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Oh ... WOW! No wonder she’s messed up. Never a consequence to be found by the looks of it.
KC
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Why haven't these people offed themselves already? Haysus Freaking Smith!!!! I have never seen a group of people that are more unhappy than the dummies.
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Why haven't these people offed themselves already? Haysus Freaking Smith!!!! I have never seen a group of people that are more unhappy than the dummies.
Again . . . They're not happy unless they're not happy, and making happy people not happy. :whistling: :fuelfire:
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Judging from this thread (https://conservativecave.com/cave/index.php?topic=118050.0) this (apparent) female belongs in a mental hospital that specializes in detoxing alcoholics. Her narcissism, depression, and lying kind of flows from her bottle.