alittlelark (15,722 posts)
Gonna throw this out there....
I would love to have either a well grounded person or a therapist to talk to right now..... I looked for a group that would suit my needs, but found none on this site.... I would love to be able to bounce some F'ed up stuff off someone right now...... seriously. I know I am almost never in the Lounge... but it's late and I have a full plate w/stuff falling off it.
Any takers? PLEASE - I am not desperate, but am distressed.
I think of DU as a 2nd home.....
alittlelark (15,722 posts)
5. Here it goes.....
Divorce final 6 mo ago from guy I was with since 15 yrs old.... (never fun...sorry about that. Really.)
Now 50. It is my daughters 21st birthday. She responds to neither of my 2 texts, and is 1000 miles from me.(She's an adult. Adults can do that.)
My sister vacations w/ ex and kids and tells them not to tell me. (Your sister stole your man! AWESOME!) She told HS friends I was a bipolar schizophrenic (I assume she was drunk....) (And I assume she's right.)
I still have scars from bites and scratches she gave me when we were kids.......(And she's got your man from when you were adults. :naughty:)
I have been to 2 psychologists who had no answers..... (Are they boning your ex, too?)
Trying to found a well grounded person at the DUmp???
Trying to found a well grounded person at the DUmp???
My sister vacations w/ ex and kids and tells them not to tell me.
Okay, let's look at the facts here.
****ing a sibling's spouse tends to carry a pretty burdensome social stigma.
But in the contest between you and your ex-husband's dick your sister chose...
YOUR EX-HUSBAND'S DICK!
And when your children were offered the choice between you or their father who is in a presumably immoral relationship they chose...
THE FATHER IN THE IMMORAL RELATIONSHIP!
My guess is something about you is overpowering the normal aversion to stigma.
My other guess is the psychologists have told you what it is and you don't like the answer so you're going to keep shopping for shrinks until one of them tells you some self-pitying bullshit that you want to hear and then that will become the sole definition of your existence.