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The Money-Grubbing Leeches - Inheritance Outrage (Continued)

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FunkyZero:
Ah, the latest update.
In the last episode, this DUmpass was outraged that her father-inlaw was giving the family home to his wife in his will. The family home was the place where her husband grew up and meant so much to him. the outrage!
Well, father-inlaw explains to his son that he can have a bunch of money instead.  It's all good now!

https://www.democraticunderground.com/100217428736


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PA_jen (1,024 posts)


UPDATE: My Thanksgiving shock
original thread:

https://democraticunderground.com/100217411862

My Stepmother-in-law told me that she was getting my husband's childhood home instead of my Husband when his father pass (hopefully 30 years from now. I do not want to wish the man dead in any sense.)

My Husband was able to talk to his Dad and yes, the Stepmother in law is getting the home but in exchange Husband gets more money.

The father always intended his children-now that 2 have passed away- Husband would inherit the house as well and the estate (money and other assets) being divided equally between Husband and Stepmom. Stepmom wore him down and kept demanding the house so while he was updating the will since the last sibling's death, he gave in but in exchange she had to agree on less money.

We don't know how much the house or estate will be nor do we want to know. His Dad did tell husband that what he is leaving him Husband and I can get a nicer home than the family home. He can get a newer home have it paid off and still have the money for retirement and if he budgets wisely, we won't have to worry about finances. We can set it up like he has it set up as a supplement to our income thru our lives.

Husband wanted the house but is okay with this deal. Husband primarily is happy because someday we can get into a better home than what we are living in now. Someday we will more than likely donate our current house to Habitat for Humanity so they can fix it up properly and give it to a family in need.

I am the one who is being the bitch in a sense. Between the Stepmother speaking ill of the dead and her demand for this house I really want nothing to do with her. I think she knows she shouldn't have said anything until Father-in-Law talked to Husband and keeps trying to do things with me. I tell her I am busy. This gloat and demand of my husband's childhood home just turns my stomach. I know I need to be nice and keep the peace, but it is becoming harder and harder. Any suggestions?

Thank you all for the support and dealing with my whining.
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Well, DUmmy... the mans will is none of your damned business. He wants to ensure that his WIFE has a place to live in the event of his demise, a commendable move in my opinion. Our parents owe us NOTHING. They sacrificed a lot rearing us, and if anything, we should be paying them during their golden years.
I asked my parents for two things, and two things only. Photos (So I can scan them and return at minimum), and my father and grandfathers guns. These things have little monetary value, but mean a lot to me. I don't want their money, I want it spent on them to make their last years comfortable.
So piss off with the greed. It makes me all the more disgusted with you.

RuralNc:
Words escape me.

The level of arrogance and entitlement on display is breath taking.  :(

DefiantSix:

--- Quote from: RuralNc on December 03, 2022, 10:02:00 AM ---Words escape me.

The level of arrogance and entitlement on display is breath taking par for the course when dealing with/talking about/having anything to do with Leftist Scum.  :(

 :whatever:

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Fixt 'er for ya, my friend... :cheers1:

freedumb2003b:
My parents did not have much to pass to us so no big deal.  My MIL has a nice home and a tidy amount she got from selling late FIL's shop.

Wife and I have been clear to her (she's 90): die BROKE! Use your $ on YOU! We don't want amything.  We buikt our lives and dotge up.

NO ONE owes their kids anything beyond a good upbringing that creates the ability to build a secure and honerable life.

DefiantSix:

--- Quote from: freedumb2003b on December 03, 2022, 10:30:00 AM ---My parents did not have much to pass to us so no big deal.  My MIL has a nice home and a tidy amount she got from selling late FIL's shop.

Wife and I have been clear to her (she's 90): die BROKE! Use your $ on YOU! We don't want amything.  We buikt our lives and dotge up.

NO ONE owes their kids anything beyond a good upbringing that creates the ability to build a secure and honerable life.

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Amen. We told my dad about the same when he passed on.

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