Discussing or ridiculing?
Many who disbelief tend to unpack lengthy indictments against that which they profess as being non-existent.
That is not to say this describes you but the pattern is so prevelant as to garner reflexive consideration.
I myself am very irreligious--even sacriligious at times--but because *I* enjoy discussing religion I will entertain what-if-it's-true points of view to accomodate the dialogue.
Ridiculing is counter productive to conversation. The only religion I ridicule is mine, I am a Discordian and we are never sure if we have a religion disguised as a joke, or a joke disguised as a religion.
Religion is an emotional topic for many and things can get heated in a heartbeat. I myself was religious for the first 40 years of my life, then just lost the taste for it. As I mentioned in my introduction grilling
I am spiritual, just not religious.