So, Obama threw big parties with performances by entertainers (I'm sure that rapper was just adored by those of the over-40 crowd ... not!). Trump threw a quieter big party, where people could socialize and maybe even chat with DJT, Melania, or even Barron. I'd pick the quieter and chattier over the loud any day, even were GWB to have put on the loud party.
All in all, different parties, but not any contrast when it comes to leadership.