That's it!! He's hoarding!
You know, speaking from experience, the small friends and family low-key wedding, with a party on a later date, is pretty much low stress. Packing everything in on one day, with everything that goes along with it (visiting relatives, quest for perfection, logistics, unexpected disasters, overspending, family politics mediation, etc. etc. etc.) is just so overwhelming, I had a little panic attack
just typing that out. On top of all that, you're expected to be beautiful and radiant.