But one can't be squeezed if one doesn't put himself into a position to be squeezed.
It takes two to tango.
Life does happen, and sometimes very good people have to use credit cards as a means to get critical services (I am specifically referring to parents of children with disabilities).
When services don't exist, insurance carriers refuse to approve payments for evaluations, and school districts refuse to follow the mandates of IDEA you do not have the luxury of avoiding getting into a "position to be squeezed."
Neuropsychologist: $3,500 for eval, $150/hour for observation of school programs
special eduction attorneys: $300-350/hour
advocates: $50-$150/hour (I am an advocate by the way, however I help parents at no charge for I could not sleep at night taking their money when I know that don't have it to spare and it could be better spent on therapies)
BCBA: $300/hour
ABA therapist: $30-60/hour
SLP, OT, PT: $60/.5 hour
AAC devices: $3K-12K/device
Your child has one shot in life, with the developmental years of birth through age 7 being the most critical. Frontloading intense therapies in the early years yields the best long term outcomes. You as a parent either find a way to pay (i.e. fight for your child's life), or you .... well, I can't even type what the potential consequences are as they scare me that damn much.
My out of pocket expensives are staggering. My entire life is dedicated to securing the absolute best services I possibly can for my son -- he attends the best school in the country for autism (which runs $100K/year). Hells yeah, a parent of a child with disabilities has some expenses that your typical family does not.
My point is -- life happens. You do your best for your children, which may include leaning on credit cards every once in a while. That doesn't make the person who does that irresponsible by any stretch of the imagination.
I have read several articles on this, and some of the stuff credit card companies get away with is pretty bad. I watched the treasury meeting on c-span yesterday and agree that the disclosure requirements made of these companies are not sufficient as they are complex and not user friendly. That I agree with changing -- which should happen sooner rather than later.