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Another bouncy ripped from the headlines.  They do this all the time.  It's lazy, uncreative, unoriginal, predictable.  And the DUmbasses lap it up every time.  Why don't they ever reach that age when a healthy dose of cynicism kicks in? 

Because they're perpetual children.
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Seeing as being a "slut" is a "badge of honor" for a lot of high school girls...this one may have been trying to earn it.

Whether by action or dialog, we don't know.
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HEADLINE: Third-grader forced to apologize to Sandra Fluke for telling classmate "Yo mama is a Georgetown Law School graduate".
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I went on the pill a couple of months after turning 18 (1971), after many years of being a horrendous bitch in incredible pain, vomiting and having to leave class/school after I passed out (which is incredibly embrarassing when it was occurring once a month  :censored: ).

At the time I went on it, my periods were very erratic. I could have one, then less than 3 weeks later, have another, or I could go 6 weeks without one. It could last 3 or 4 days or as long as 10 or 11. I started out on the lowest dosage, and ended up on the strongest within months. Even on the pill, I still had 7 day periods, but at least I knew when they were going to show up, and though still on pain meds for a couple of days, at least I wasn't throwing up and passing out.

I was on it for 7 years, got pregnant with my daughter 3 months later. (yes, I was married and had been for a year). Was on it again in between kids, and back on it after my second. at 29. I also had my first ovary removed at 31 after the scar tissue from so many burst cysts at made the ovary attach to my abdominal wall. It was during the surgery, that my GYN said I'd have to have it all out within a few years, because not only was my uterus very tilted( he couldn't figure out how I was able to get pregnant without medical help) but that it was "constructed" the way it was supposed to be.

Not ONE time, did my insurance ever pay for my BC pills. Not one penny of the $3.50 a month they cost me. On the other hand, insurance did pay for my pain pills which were considerably more expensive.

My cousin, her daughter, and my daughter have all had trouble with their "parts" and their malfunctions from the time they were in their early teens. Kinda makes one wonder if the problems aren't somewhat genetic.

I recognize this is all TMI, but this whole birth control issue makes me livid!!!

The government does not belong in a woman's reproductive system. It should be between a woman and her doctor. The only onther individuals that should be involved are either a husband or a parent. NO ONE ELSE.

The only others who should be involved would be God and a woman's priest/pastor if wanted/needed.

NO way should a bunch of hot-air politicians who think they know more than anybody else about everything else.

I am so sick and tired of abortion being brought into political races. There is more debate about abortion, and now birth control, than there is anything else!!

Hello????? I can't make a living as a realtor anymore because of the mortgage/housing mess. I don't qualify for unemployment because I'm self employed. Yes, it was MY choice to be self-employed, but I didn't expect my chosen career to go belly up for 3+ years either. There are 1000's of people in our country, that are/were self employed like me, who, if lucky have found other jobs in the meantime....most making a fraction of what they were 4+years ago!!

Hello????? We're in a f'n war and the f'n President of the United States is spending day after day APOLOGIZING to the f'n enemy because a few copies of their Holy Book was burned. Ones that were damaged by being written in, and were disposed of the PROPER way. Yet he apologizes while the f'n people we are supposed to be liberating are killing our soldiers in retaliation!!! I might add that HE is the one who put us back full force into Afghanistan!!
And that's only a tip of the mess that the Middle East is these days. And let's not forget that those bastards want us all dead.

Hello???? Our manufacturing companies are falling by the wayside, because they can't survive anymore. Whether it be from the union demands or importation from the far east and South America.

And it goes on and on and on.....

And these F's are doin' nothing but talkin' about birth control and abortion!!!

I DON'T WANT TO HEAR IT ANYMORE!!!!!!


Oh...and in regards to the original post....the kids(girls) at school wouldn't have known this girl was on the pill IF SHE HADN'T TOLD EITHER THEM OR ANOTHER FRIEND WHO BLABBED IT ALL OVER THE DAMN SCHOOL!!!

Kids are cruel. Particularly girls and they are wicked cruel by the time they get to high school. They use whatever "weapon" they can to attack the one they don't like. In this girl's case, they knew about the BC pills, and regardless of why the girl takes them, the little bitches are going to use that information in the meanest, cruelest way possible.
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Awesome post, Deb! Hi-5.

Dead on.
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Awesome post, Deb! Hi-5.

Dead on.

Thanks, Splash.

This whole topic has bugged me for years, but ever since it came out that ObamaCare is going to force the Catholic Church to pay for insurance to provide BC and abortions, it has sent my blood pressure into the stratosphere.

While I have always thought health insurance should have an option to pay for BC pills, just as there is an option for pregnancy care, I don't think any entity should be FORCED to pay/provide something that goes against their religious beliefs.
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They say "slut" like its a bad thing.
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They say "slut" like its a bad thing.

It's 'cause they're haters.
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It's 'cause they're haters.
And haters gotta hate.
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H5 Deb!

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Where's Jeff Foxworthy?

If you lost your cherry to stevenumbers at age 12....you might be a slut.



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Where's Jeff Foxworthy?

If you lost your cherry to stevenumbers at age 12....you might be a slut.





 :lmao: :rotf: :lmao: :rotf: :lmao: :rotf:

I can just see Foxworthy doing that in a skit.  H5!
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I have to agree, I was raised in a pretty darn Red State and even in the late 60s, nobody would have thought anything of it...nor did I with my own daughter 30 years later, even well-centered people make relational mistakes, and I'd much rather she was on the pill than struggling to support both herself and a living memento of some dumbshit loser whom she thought was cute, edgy, and interesting one night in her junior year of HS. 

I know many parents that put their girls on BC when they have the slightest idea that their little Angel might start with the heavy breathing in the back seat of some guys car.

Much better to be safe than sorry!

Sounds to me like she's prolly gettin' slipped the bologna by her boyfriend on a regular basis and bragged about it to her so-called friends. That is of course if there's a thred of truth to this BS!

Oh, and about the acne cure, Proactive I believe is the name of the current hot fix for ace in teenagers.
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Seeing as being a "slut" is a "badge of honor" for a lot of high school girls...this one may have been trying to earn it.

Whether by action or dialog, we don't know.

Actually I think that was kind of the point that we came away with in our conversation with the 2 young Spanish girls we were talking to.
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Awesome post Deb! :cheersmate:
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If your first lesson in drivers ed was learning to sit up in a car...you might be a slut.
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Actually I think that was kind of the point that we came away with in our conversation with the 2 young Spanish girls we were talking to.

My daughter keeps telling me this is what is the norm for 7th graders. *SMH* there were two kids caught in 6th grade that were masterbating each other under the desk in class. Boy was expelled from the school, girl said she didn't ask for it or want it, called the cops and pressed rape charges so she wouldn't get in trouble at school. I call bullshit, how can you be in a class full of kids and teacher and not draw attention to unwanted advances. My daughter would have stood up and yelled "get your Fin hands off me!"  I don't know how I will handle HS!

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Hi5 Deb!!!! Excellent post!!!
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They lined up behind my daughter to get their lunch tray and started in on her. "Birth control whore", "I told my mom you were on the pill and she said you were nothing but a little tramp" "My mom said some guy she listens to on the radio was just talking about girls like you- he even said you were a slut!" "Yeah, my mom said the same thing, said it's about time people spoke up and weren't afraid to tell the truth"!

Because of this shit right here I know its bunch of made up BS.
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I went on the pill a couple of months after turning 18 (1971), after many years of being a horrendous bitch in incredible pain, vomiting and having to leave class/school after I passed out (which is incredibly embrarassing when it was occurring once a month  :censored: ).

At the time I went on it, my periods were very erratic. I could have one, then less than 3 weeks later, have another, or I could go 6 weeks without one. It could last 3 or 4 days or as long as 10 or 11. I started out on the lowest dosage, and ended up on the strongest within months. Even on the pill, I still had 7 day periods, but at least I knew when they were going to show up, and though still on pain meds for a couple of days, at least I wasn't throwing up and passing out.

I was on it for 7 years, got pregnant with my daughter 3 months later. (yes, I was married and had been for a year). Was on it again in between kids, and back on it after my second. at 29. I also had my first ovary removed at 31 after the scar tissue from so many burst cysts at made the ovary attach to my abdominal wall. It was during the surgery, that my GYN said I'd have to have it all out within a few years, because not only was my uterus very tilted( he couldn't figure out how I was able to get pregnant without medical help) but that it was "constructed" the way it was supposed to be.

Not ONE time, did my insurance ever pay for my BC pills. Not one penny of the $3.50 a month they cost me. On the other hand, insurance did pay for my pain pills which were considerably more expensive.

My cousin, her daughter, and my daughter have all had trouble with their "parts" and their malfunctions from the time they were in their early teens. Kinda makes one wonder if the problems aren't somewhat genetic.

I recognize this is all TMI, but this whole birth control issue makes me livid!!!

The government does not belong in a woman's reproductive system. It should be between a woman and her doctor. The only onther individuals that should be involved are either a husband or a parent. NO ONE ELSE.

The only others who should be involved would be God and a woman's priest/pastor if wanted/needed.

NO way should a bunch of hot-air politicians who think they know more than anybody else about everything else.

I am so sick and tired of abortion being brought into political races. There is more debate about abortion, and now birth control, than there is anything else!!

Hello????? I can't make a living as a realtor anymore because of the mortgage/housing mess. I don't qualify for unemployment because I'm self employed. Yes, it was MY choice to be self-employed, but I didn't expect my chosen career to go belly up for 3+ years either. There are 1000's of people in our country, that are/were self employed like me, who, if lucky have found other jobs in the meantime....most making a fraction of what they were 4+years ago!!

Hello????? We're in a f'n war and the f'n President of the United States is spending day after day APOLOGIZING to the f'n enemy because a few copies of their Holy Book was burned. Ones that were damaged by being written in, and were disposed of the PROPER way. Yet he apologizes while the f'n people we are supposed to be liberating are killing our soldiers in retaliation!!! I might add that HE is the one who put us back full force into Afghanistan!!
And that's only a tip of the mess that the Middle East is these days. And let's not forget that those bastards want us all dead.

Hello???? Our manufacturing companies are falling by the wayside, because they can't survive anymore. Whether it be from the union demands or importation from the far east and South America.

And it goes on and on and on.....

And these F's are doin' nothing but talkin' about birth control and abortion!!!

I DON'T WANT TO HEAR IT ANYMORE!!!!!!


Oh...and in regards to the original post....the kids(girls) at school wouldn't have known this girl was on the pill IF SHE HADN'T TOLD EITHER THEM OR ANOTHER FRIEND WHO BLABBED IT ALL OVER THE DAMN SCHOOL!!!

Kids are cruel. Particularly girls and they are wicked cruel by the time they get to high school. They use whatever "weapon" they can to attack the one they don't like. In this girl's case, they knew about the BC pills, and regardless of why the girl takes them, the little bitches are going to use that information in the meanest, cruelest way possible.

Well said Deb! The Koran burning was actually after it was scrawled by terrorists and that is against Islam. Burning the Koran as a result was the right procedure. Yes, kids can be cruel, especially girls. I have seen that news recently.
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Where's Jeff Foxworthy?

If you lost your cherry to stevenumbers at age 12....you might be a slut.





Or a rape victim.
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Oh, and about the acne cure, Proactive I believe is the name of the current hot fix for ace in teenagers.

Proactiv--good stuff, if you don't mind watching your daughter's face turn beet red and swell to the size of a beachball, as has happened to the girl-child here.
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Deb, H5! Well said!

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My daughter keeps telling me this is what is the norm for 7th graders. *SMH* there were two kids caught in 6th grade that were masterbating each other under the desk in class. Boy was expelled from the school, girl said she didn't ask for it or want it, called the cops and pressed rape charges so she wouldn't get in trouble at school. I call bullshit, how can you be in a class full of kids and teacher and not draw attention to unwanted advances. My daughter would have stood up and yelled "get your Fin hands off me!"  I don't know how I will handle HS!

My daughter, who is a senior, said this weekend that there are at least four girls in one of her classes that are obviously pregnant.  I asked if they were treated any differently and she said no, no one seems to care. On one hand I'm glad the girls aren't treated as outcasts, on the other hand it says a lot about our society that no one seems to think its a big deal.

I have stressed to my girls (and my son) that they only have ONE first time. You can't take it back, there are no "do-overs". They are worth more than some guy's (or girl, in the case of my son) good time.  I have always used the way my husband treats me as an example of how they should expect to be treated (or the way to treat someone in the case of my son) and NEVER accept anything less.
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