No need to get ridiculous about it. Let it go. Really, why do you even care? Let me add that I know her on another site separate from DU. You can't always really tell how someone is by what they post on DU. Seriously.
You're kiddin' right? Do you change your personality according to which site you're visiting? Are you sayin' your "friend" does not believe in defending Hezbollah? Have you read Burt's posts?
I think you'll find most if not everyone here does not put up any kind of a false front unless of course we have deep cover moles over at DU, or some other looney toon site, in order to be able to watch meltdowns during times of angst.
I would add that it is necessary given DU has a pretty closed membership, unlike here, where we pretty much will let anyone post until they go over the line!
Oh, and I don't see comparing Ted Bundy to your "friend" much different. There were many who boasted Ted was a helluva nice guy! Of course they didn't lose a wife or daughter to the killer either. If I had ran into him and had a beer, I might of thought him to be a nice guy too. However, after finding out he was a frikkin' serial killer, I can assure you my opinion would change in a heart tick! Like I said, if I found out one of my "friends" condoned launching rockets into populated areas of Israel or sending youngsters in for suicide runs, they would no longer be a "friend".
Do you think just because your friend hasn't participated in the killing of innocents it makes them immune when agreeing with said acts? That's like sayin' if you attend a lynching and you're not the one with the rope, you get a pass. It don't work that way.
How you judge people is your own business. I'm giving you my opinion and letting you know why I disagree with yours. I thought that was the definition of debate. Sorry if I misinterpret the definition.