http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=230x2126Oh my.
knitter4democracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Tue Feb-12-08 12:01 PM
Original message
Everyone should volunteer at a homeless shelter at least once.
Homeless shelters are awful. They're only meant to be a stop-gap solution, not a permanent solution. Yet, more and more people are using them as their nightly housing, and more and more of us who aren't homeless just assume that the shelters are taking care of "the problem." They aren't.
In most cities, shelters are segregated. Men have one, and women have another. Yet, more and more of the homeless blahblahblahblahblah
It's a very large bonfire, so only a few primitive comments, selected at random:
bobbolink (1000+ posts) Tue Feb-12-08 02:28 PM
Response to Reply #7
12. A woman I know who was homeless tells me of her brother's friend with AIDS.
He finally bought a gun, but refused to buy ammunition.
He held up a 7-11, without bullets, so he'd get arrested and have a bed and meals.
Yes, it is happening.
Yet, whenver I post of the need for low-income housing, with numbers to call, it sinks like a rock!
I'm PISSED at the lack of concern right here on DU!
Thanks for posting this..... the story goes on...
bobbolink (1000+ posts) Tue Feb-12-08 02:54 PM
Response to Reply #14
16. Why is it stupid? Yanno, it becomes a total no-win situation!
What the hell is he supposed to do that would be "smart"?
Then, when all else fails and he kills himself, then he's either stupid or selfish or mentally ill.
What the hell is he supposed to do that is acceptable????
bobbolink (1000+ posts) Wed Feb-13-08 07:23 PM
Response to Reply #52
68. Thank you for drawing the distinction between drunks and the majority of homeless people now!
SOME on this thread can't seem to get that!
SOME are still back with RAYGUN and the ignorance of that era.
SOME can't understand how insulting and hurtful that is to those of us who are suffering deeply!
In case anyone's forgotten, the bobbling primitive's the one who DEMANDS free housing, and if it's anything less than Buckingham Palace with maid service, it's not good enough.
The sparkling husband primitive by the way owns some really nice restored brick rowhouses in Baltimore, and being a socially-conscious primitive, surely the sparkling husband primitive would be happy to give one of them to the bobbling primitive, if the bobbling primitive would just hitch-hike her way there from Denver.
Or if the bobbling primitive prefers the west coast, there's always Doug's ex-wife in her luxury condominium in San Francisco; surely Doug's ex-wife being a socially-conscious primitive, would put up the bobbling primitive and do her laundry.
bobbolink (1000+ posts) Tue Feb-12-08 03:07 PM
Response to Reply #10
19. Are you mentally ill??? I'm ****ing not, and I'm getting so *******ed tired of that shit!
Do you know that is one of the most hurtful things that homeless people go through, is this continual assumption, thanks to RAYGUN, that we're all mentally ill.
What the **** does it take to get it through to you?
Yes, I'm really pissed at your assumptions!
YOU walk in my shoes, take this shit for a couple of years, then tell me just how "healthy" YOU feel!
Get educated!
The number one cause of homelessness is the shitty health care system in this country.... YOU could be caught in that too, and it wouldn't make you any more mentally ill that I am, or anyone else who is homeless.
Get EDUCATED!
It goes on and on and on, including primitive indignation that some food banks some places require recipients to take a one-hour (or somesuch) "money management" class to continue receiving free food.
bobbolink (1000+ posts) Tue Feb-12-08 02:57 PM
Response to Reply #4
17. I'm 62 years old.... I don't need a damned dormitory, for gawd's sake!
I tried to post this before, and DU went down.
Could you please listen to yourself?
Where the hell would I keep my belongings safe, the rest of my life?
How the hell wooulld I sleep the rest of my life, with at least 10 other women snoring, coughing etc all night, and some working shifts?
How the hell would I stay healthy, with germs being passed around all night??? Do you KNOW that TB is 14 times greater in a shelter than in the population at large?
Do you have any concept of the idea of PRIVACY????
Do you have ANY IDEA just what you are consigning people to? I'd rather be DEAD!
YOU got live in a dormitory the rest of your life!
This is a large bonfire, but I had to leave after this:
bobbolink (1000+ posts) Wed Feb-13-08 06:54 PM
Response to Reply #54
66. Indeed! This comes from a talented writer, but not recognized on DU like Pitt, etc.
Essentially, many primitives condescend to the bobbling primitive, other primitives argue with the bobbling primitive.