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Offline CG6468

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A Bisexual speaks out
« on: April 26, 2013, 11:11:47 PM »
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Yes, I Really Am Bisexual. Deal With It.
 
When I told Jared I’m bisexual, he couldn’t, or at least didn’t, hide his discomfort.
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“Why do you have to announce it like that, like it’s still relevant?” he asked, his eyes darting around the restaurant as if he were on the lookout for gun-toting bigots or maybe a pack of lesbians (in sensible shoes) poised to drag me off and feed me herbal tea. “When we get married and have kids, it won’t matter who we dated before we met.”

He spoke with such dazzling confidence, I breezed right past his bold assumptions. This ambitious, unapologetic doctor who apparently was going to become my husband had a point. I didn’t want to hear about his ex-girlfriends beyond what terrible lovers and inadequate friends, cooks and travel companions they were. Why would he want to hear about mine?

But I wasn’t looking to chronicle my romantic escapades. I was clarifying my identity. I like men and I like women. That way. I’m attracted to both, fantasize about both, have dated and kissed and enjoyed sex with both. I like the soft roundedness I’ve found in women, the scratchy ridiculousness I’ve found in men, and the culinary generosity I’ve found in both.

If you lined up 100 people I’m physically drawn to, maybe only 4 would be women, but the depth of attraction I’d feel for those women would be the same as for the men. This was true when I was 23 and entered my first romantic relationship (with a woman), and it’s true now that I’m 38. I do not think of myself as 4 percent lesbian but 100 percent bisexual.

Words fail me…….
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Re: A Bisexual speaks out
« Reply #1 on: April 27, 2013, 04:01:46 AM »
Lesbian b!tch married him for his name and money......same reasons Hillary Clinton married Bill Clinton.
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Re: A Bisexual speaks out
« Reply #2 on: April 27, 2013, 05:28:54 AM »
Quote from: JohnnyReb on April 27, 2013, 04:01:46 AM
Lesbian b!tch married him for his name and money......same reasons Hillary Clinton married Bill Clinton.

Yep. When you look at her description if men versus women she isn't exactly passionate about men. What a wretch.
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Re: A Bisexual speaks out
« Reply #3 on: April 27, 2013, 06:09:26 AM »
Bacon can make anything better...






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Re: A Bisexual speaks out
« Reply #4 on: April 27, 2013, 06:56:26 AM »
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Re: A Bisexual speaks out
« Reply #5 on: April 27, 2013, 09:18:22 AM »
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culinary generosity

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Re: A Bisexual speaks out
« Reply #6 on: April 27, 2013, 10:03:15 AM »
Quote from: SGT Snuggle Bunny on April 27, 2013, 06:09:26 AM
Bacon can make anything better...








"Bacon Boobiez".....beats the heck out of a McD bacon burger.
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Re: A Bisexual speaks out
« Reply #7 on: April 27, 2013, 10:24:28 AM »
There is no such thing as "bisexuality." You're either normal or you're not.

It really is that simple.
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Re: A Bisexual speaks out
« Reply #8 on: April 27, 2013, 10:27:11 AM »
Quote from: Eupher on April 27, 2013, 10:24:28 AM
There is no such thing as "bisexuality." You're either normal or you're not.

It really is that simple.

She's probably really tri-sexual or quad-sexual.....men, women, machines and/or animals....whatever gets her off.
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Re: A Bisexual speaks out
« Reply #9 on: April 27, 2013, 03:01:07 PM »
Quote from: JohnnyReb on April 27, 2013, 10:27:11 AM
She's probably really tri-sexual or quad-sexual.....men, women, machines and/or animals....whatever gets her off.

What a visual  :rotf: :rotf:

Reminds me of the tree humping Snooki....

[youtube=425,350]http://youtu.be/ESkHp0Ra-2c[/youtube]
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Re: A Bisexual speaks out
« Reply #10 on: April 27, 2013, 06:16:44 PM »
Quote from: Firekrakka on April 27, 2013, 03:01:07 PM
What a visual  :rotf: :rotf:

Reminds me of the tree humping Snooki....

[youtube=425,350]http://youtu.be/ESkHp0Ra-2c[/youtube]

You know that you love it!
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Re: A Bisexual speaks out
« Reply #11 on: April 27, 2013, 06:47:32 PM »
The dude should have just asked her to bring home a girlfriend for a 3-way.

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Re: A Bisexual speaks out
« Reply #12 on: April 27, 2013, 07:07:53 PM »
Quote from: JohnnyReb on April 27, 2013, 04:01:46 AM
Lesbian b!tch married him for his name and money......same reasons Hillary Clinton married Bill Clinton.

It sounds like you've got her pegged.

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Is it strange that I call myself bisexual even though he and I have been married for four years and I haven’t so much as held hands with a woman in seven or eight? Is it reasonable for me to claim queerness when I’ve benefited so much from heterosexual privilege: shared health insurance, uncomplicated baby-making, implicit legal guardianship, inarguable life insurance beneficiaries, a federally recognized union?
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Re: A Bisexual speaks out
« Reply #13 on: April 27, 2013, 07:58:35 PM »
Quote from: Delmar on April 27, 2013, 07:07:53 PM
It sounds like you've got her pegged.



This is so totally screwed up.    I have female friends that I love, in no way sexual, just friends that I have had for 20-30 years and have no problem telling them I love them or giving them a kiss on the cheek or even holding hands.

Men I know have no problem meeting up with old time friends they have not seen in a while and giving them a big hug, this is not Lust this is friendship.   

Why do people have to equate love and sex ?????    Shaking head here, -----Lust is not love, it is a by product of an excuse for Lust.  Lust is gone so soon but friendship and the love that comes from it lasts forever.
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Re: A Bisexual speaks out
« Reply #14 on: April 27, 2013, 11:09:03 PM »
Quote from: vesta111 on April 27, 2013, 07:58:35 PM
Why do people have to equate love and sex ?????    Shaking head here, -----Lust is not love, it is a by product of an excuse for Lust.  Lust is gone so soon but friendship and the love that comes from it lasts forever.
That is the culture of today. Love doesn't last either. People find it easy to go onto the next person.
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Re: A Bisexual speaks out
« Reply #15 on: April 28, 2013, 05:50:29 AM »
Quote from: ColonelCarrots on April 27, 2013, 11:09:03 PM
That is the culture of today. Love doesn't last either. People find it easy to go onto the next person.

I disagree Colonel C. Not just today's culture but all time.   

So easy to fall in love [lust ]  and out of love [lust], but true love takes time to build and become strong.
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Re: A Bisexual speaks out
« Reply #16 on: April 28, 2013, 07:11:15 AM »
Quote from: vesta111 on April 28, 2013, 05:50:29 AM
I disagree Colonel C. Not just today's culture but all time.   

So easy to fall in love [lust ]  and out of love [lust], but true love takes time to build and become strong.
A lot of people claim they love another person and they end up getting divorced. People have created the idea of "its easy to get out of this" mentality. Yeah you have couples who will last, but there are a lot more people getting divorced.
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Re: A Bisexual speaks out
« Reply #17 on: April 28, 2013, 04:50:08 PM »
Quote from: vesta111 on April 27, 2013, 07:58:35 PM

Lust is gone so soon but friendship and the love that comes from it lasts forever.


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Re: A Bisexual speaks out
« Reply #18 on: April 28, 2013, 05:56:34 PM »
Couple down the road just celebrated their 75 th wedding anniversary.
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Re: A Bisexual speaks out
« Reply #19 on: April 28, 2013, 05:58:39 PM »
A couple of what? :???:
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Re: A Bisexual speaks out
« Reply #20 on: April 28, 2013, 07:17:40 PM »
Quote from: JohnnyReb on April 27, 2013, 10:03:15 AM
"Bacon Boobiez".....beats the heck out of a McD bacon burger.

Beats the hell out of any burger!!!!!   :cheersmate: :cheersmate:

Well... on second thought maybe not a fur burger.  :lmao:
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