All but one.
But he was a friend that was going through the loss of his 3 year old child and wife.
Yikes..
A story. A mutual friend of the missus and I had located a brother in the Boston area years after losing touch with him. Once she convinced him to move to the area we met him. He appeared like a hobo. Filthy, Stinking, unshaven. Rotten teeth. I figured perhaps he was homeless, and had been found, and now his life would improve. Months.. years later, no change. He was always happy, never seemed suicidal, but had the poorest hygiene of any person alive who isn't homeless. Years later, I had seen a picture of this person - in uniform-- chean-shaven..healthy, and eventually found out the reason for the decline.
His entire family was annihilated in a car accident. He was spared because he was at work, which is where he was when he had been informed.
And then I understood.
Years later, he had recovered, cleaned up, became gainfully employed and moved on.