gigantic primitive getting upset with franksolich (update 12-26)

[franksolich]

http://drmcdougall.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=21&t=11960&sid=18c785da303d5a7bb549d42b0e4780eb&start=570

Oh my.

Someone's upset with franksolich.

But, as was said about Doug's stupid ex-wife during the Scamdal, if one struts naked down Main Street at noon, one doesn't have any control over who sees.

The internet's no place to be bare.

The gigantic primitive even put it in red, in the original message.

Ege Bamyasi
December 26, 2009

bunsofaluminum, I'm very happy to say that I'm just about over this cough now. It's turned productive, meaning that the gunk from the back of my throat to my upper bronchial area is finally coming loose. I'm only having really serious hack attacks every couple of hours or even several hours, and it's always because something's come loose and wants a guided tour of the sink drain. Baibai, harblz, as they'd say in lolcat.

debbie, as already stated, the cough is going away rather quickly. Christmas day I noticed a marked decrease, and today is much better still. As for my edema troubles, those are far less noticeable than they were before I started McDougalling, but they're still present to a slight extent. My thighs especially have a lot of shrinking to do, but their sizes are much closer to equal then even my picture from a few months ago at about 440 lbs. shows. I'll put up my next doorway-blocking pics when I'm at or below 378, which I hope is soon!

debable, it's always an honor to hear about someone taking the time to peruse this journal, only to go back to Page 1 and read all of it. Better still, I realize that the vast majority of those who stop by are looking for some inspiration and motivation, and it is my hope that they'll understand that it's worth trying to do this no matter how far gone you are, or how much pain you're in, or whether or not you have adequate medical care. It's our lives and we only get one, right?

Now, as for those who don't come here for inspiration or motivation, and would much rather spend their time here dissecting the lives of people who come here as open books, merely looking for support and a way to track their progress, they're always welcome to feed their "primitive" instincts as well. If my playing the role of freak show exhibit gets you off that much, cool -- but I submit that this says a whole lot more about your collective character than mine. Mind you, this paragraph is directed at a whole different subset of people than us McDougallers. They know who they are, and now they know I'm watching. The rest of you can all just ignore this somewhat cryptic passage. I may or may not reveal my purpose behind this paragraph to the McDougall community at large, as I see fit and circumstances dictate.  

Now, on to more -- shall we say -- worthwhile matters. Both Christmas and today have been rather "meh". Jeanette had to work Christmas, then come home only to have to go to bed very early for a long day today. She got to speak with her mom and brother for a while, which was great. There was some discussion with her brother about her adoptive father, though. Long story short, he was horrible to Jeanette; first, because he's apparently just a jerk by design (up there in the running with my own mother for a spot at the top of the jerk heirarchy), and then I guess there was this thing of her having some early developmental issues (pretty much non-issues now, I'm happy to say), and besides, she wasn't really his flesh and blood.

Yeah, this man has me mightily p.o.'ed. The stories Jeanette's told me aren't fit to be repeated here, but they involve every type of abuse except sexual, and that's plenty bad enough. Jeanette's conversation with bro got somewhat emotional, and we spent a good deal of time talking about it further after they had hung up. Grrrrr....

Today, my cough improved greatly, but I had next to no energy all day long as I continued to get over it. Finally, tonight, I got a good workout in on the recumbent and we watched a couple episodes of Morgan Spurlock's 30 Days together. That's a really good show and it sucks it's been canceled.

I had a huge salad with 3-2-1 dressing for the morning, and a bowl of rice and homemade sauce tonight, followed by a frozen fruit smoothie. Likely will follow a similar model tomorrow. I plan to be on the recumbent as much as I can without serious pain or illness tomorrow. My times are increasing geometrically as it is, and the more I do it the better I feel.

I will also try and check out the rest of your journals tomorrow. I hope you all had an awesome Holiday celebration, no matter which name you may choose to give the holiday. It's all pretty much a Solstice thing to me.

[Mr Mannn]

McDougallers?

so you're watching, eh....

[franksolich]

McDougallers?

so you're watching, eh....

Now, we all know people who have problems with weight, and want to do something about it.

Being decent and civilized people, we do our best to support and encourage them.

But the gigantic primitive's a whole another case.

Two things need remembered: one can change only those things one has the power to change (which is usually only oneself, and no more than that), and while one can't change one's past, one can change one's future.

Both of which seems medieval Annamese to the gigantic primitive.

If the gigantic primitive truly wants to succeed, he's got to stop blaming his problems on other people--on his mother of blessed memory, on his former boss at the casino, on a hapless overworked underpaid handi-bus driver, on his roommate Joe, on George Bush, on Republicans, &c., &c., &c.--and work on himself instead.

It's his attitude franksolich is mocking, not his fat.

I suspect the gigantic primitive doesn't want to succeed.

Another part of his attitude that really grates me is when the gigantic primitive talks about how much his wife has to endure, and himself not lifting a finger to ameliorate her lot.

It's like, "Well, I feel sorry for her, and that makes me a good guy."

Yeah, right.

[Carl]

It sounds like Jeanette has had a miserable life and no doubt being beaten down is why she lets him treat her like crap too. 

[NHSparky]

Pretty simple, fatboy--if you don't want people poking at your shitpile, don't drag it out for all to see.

[Tucker]

It sounds like Jeanette has had a miserable life and no doubt being beaten down is why she lets him treat her like crap too. 

If this lard ass could walk to his room mates bedroom, He would find out what Jeanette really thinks about him.

Have another french fry.

[NHSparky]

If this lard ass could walk to his room mates bedroom, He would find out what Jeanette really thinks about him.

Have another french fry.

So THAT'S how he gets his potatoes!!  In deep-fried form!  Tucker, you're a genius!!!

[kenth]

Another part of his attitude that really grates me is when the gigantic primitive talks about how much his wife has to endure, and himself not lifting a finger to ameliorate her lot.

It's like, "Well, I feel sorry for her, and that makes me a good guy."

Yeah, right.

That was my inspiration for nominating him. It has nothing to do with his weight, except that he uses it as an excuse for his behavior. He treats his wife like his weight loss, without any level of seriousness. He will end up alone again and we'll read all his musings as to why she left him. He's a spectator, even in his own life.

[Randy]

That was my inspiration for nominating him. It has nothing to do with his weight, except that he uses it as an excuse for his behavior. He treats his wife like his weight loss, without any level of seriousness. He will end up alone again and we'll read all his musings as to why she left him. He's a spectator, even in his own life.

Of course due to his deep depression over his loss he'll find solace again in food.....

[crockspot]

Now that I know you are watching, let me give you some advice. Get off your fat ass, learn some new skills if you have to, and get a frickin job.

I worked in a dead end customer service position for years. I decided to learn some computer skills, so instead of going out and partying with my friends, I locked myself in my room and learned... I got a good IT job from that effort. I know many IT and software engineer types who are as heavy or heavier than you are, so you have no excuse. Take some of that time you spend whining on the innerwebs, and learn something. You have the best learning tool sitting right in front of you. Learn a programming language. Download some pirated warez and learn how to use some applications. Database administration is probably a really great thing to learn, since all the DBA's I have ever met have been imported from India and Pakistan. Do SOMETHING.

[ScubaGuy]

Since the DUmmie is watching us I huess this needs to be repeated.


Hey DUmmie,  your wife is screwing you roommate Joe!

[Specbid]

Since the DUmmie is watching us I huess this needs to be repeated.


Hey DUmmie,  your wife is screwing you roommate Joe!

You're bad. 

[SSG Snuggle Bunny]

To the lurking McDougaller,

If you are going to get your weight down to Point X and it is a heroic effort that requires our admiration, why did you allow your weight to progress past Point X in the first place?

Seems like it would have been easier and far more satisfying to never have gone down that road than to backtrack the entire distance.

[franksolich]

In all seriousness, the problem with the gigantic primitive is that he hasn't even yet taken the first step towards recovering.

Unless he does that, the gigantic primitive has no chance of success.

The gigantic primitive has to say to himself, "Hello, my name is Kirk, and I'm a gluttonous decadent wastrel, an insensitive rectal aperture....."

Once the gigantic primitive does that, the rest is easy.

[Texacon]

Gigantor.  Since we know you are reading us let me say;

Stop lying to yourself.  Your problem with weight loss is a fabrication to yourself.  I am pulling for you but you need some tough love and don't seem to be getting it at home.  Jeanette should kick your ass to the curb until you get your shit together! 

Good luck on your efforts but until you stop lying about how much you are consuming you are going to be a 400# waste of skin.

KC

[Carl]

Gigantor.  Since we know you are reading us let me say;

Stop lying to yourself.  Your problem with weight loss is a fabrication to yourself.  I am pulling for you but you need some tough love and don't seem to be getting it at home.  Jeanette should kick your ass to the curb until you get your shit together! 

Good luck on your efforts but until you stop lying about how much you are consuming you are going to be a 400# waste of skin.

KC

That is the curse of those diet websites...everyone gets together for support and motivation but the underlying issues are never addressed as it is regarded as "mean".
What you end up with is a group of touchy feely enablers.
A pat on the back saying "there there,you are doing okay" isn`t support.

[Texacon]

That is the curse of those diet websites...everyone gets together for support and motivation but the underlying issues are never addressed as it is regarded as "mean".
What you end up with is a group of touchy feely enablers.
A pat on the back saying "there there,you are doing okay" isn`t support.

My Drill Sergeant felt the same way....

KC

[GOBUCKS]

It's his attitude franksolich is mocking, not his fat.

I don't know, coach, I think I gotta go with attitude AND fat.
I mean, when I was a kid, it would have cost a dime just to see him at the fair.

[franksolich]

I don't know, coach, I think I gotta go with attitude AND fat.

I mean, when I was a kid, it would have cost a dime just to see him at the fair.

Damn, you're good, sir.

Admirable.

[TheSarge]

They know who they are, and now they know I'm watching.

Watch all you want.  *shrug* like I care.

But here's a piece of advice...if you don't want people to make comments on your girth...don't broadcast it on the WORLD wide web.

There's people in third world countries at internet cafe's suddenly not feeling as bad about their plight when they read your crap.

[kenth]

There's people in third world countries at internet cafe's suddenly not feeling as bad about their plight when they read your crap.

Speaking of which, I wonder if it ever occurs to him and his liberal sensitivities just how much more of his "fair share" he consumes and takes away from poor people. His feed trough could share with a good number of others.

[Carl]

Speaking of which, I wonder if it ever occurs to him and his liberal sensitivities just how much more of his "fair share" he consumes and takes away from poor people. His feed trough could share with a good number of others.

Note his words "a huge salad".
I looked,the 3-2-1 dressing he speaks of is 3 parts maple syrup,2 parts balsamic vinegar and 1 part Dijon mustard.
There is no oil so supposedly healthy but still am betting loaded with calories from the maple syrup.
Couldn`t find any info on that part.

He isn`t addressing the core issue of his eating,caloric intake and the reality of what calories he really burns.

He thinks that he can exercise some and then eat a lot and it balances,he needs to get a reality on the difference between calories burned and calories consumed and I don`t see it happening.

[The Village Idiot]

That dressing does not sound healthy. I hope he doesn't use much of it, just for taste maybe.

I really hope he succeeds in losing all that extra weight. I have some to lose too, but thank God I can get up and walk a mile without much discomfort.

He is admitting that his cough is getting better with exercise, there goes one of his excuses. If he is admitting that exercise is making him feel better, then he had better get stepping a lot more. I know he is trying to gradually increase him time on the exo-bike but maybe he needs to increase the increments.

[jukin]

In Obama Hell-Care the gigantic primitive will be refused service until of proper BMI.

[AllosaursRus]

Now, on to more -- shall we say -- worthwhile matters.

Guess what "Lardo", you haven't done anything worthwhile in a coon's age! Get off your fat ass, push that immense belly away from the frikkin' table, pull your head outa your gigantic ass, and get a ****in' job!

How in the world a woman would have such low esteem in order to take care of a worthless POS like you baffles me! She must have voted for the Messiah! No one else could possibly be that frikkin' stupid!