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Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« on: September 01, 2011, 08:05:35 AM »
As if you needed to ask who would post a thread like that...

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Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
 Should I feel like some kind of talentless slacker because I just want do do what I do, but don't give a rat's ass if I'm the best at it, but just enjoying it.

Is that so wrong?

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It's not necessary to try to be the best, but having a dash of self-respect would make a lot of difference to your life.

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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #1 on: September 01, 2011, 08:08:24 AM »
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Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?

No.  Just don't whine and bitch, because your low salary and crappy living condition are not the fault of some nameless rich person.


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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #2 on: September 01, 2011, 08:10:45 AM »
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Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
 Should I feel like some kind of talentless slacker because I just want do do what I do, but don't give a rat's ass if I'm the best at it, but just enjoying it.

Is that so wrong?

Yes, you should feel bad.  In fact, you should feel like a pathetic piece of crap.

That's the problem with you libs, you just want to "enjoy" everything.  Being good doesn't mean a damn to you.  That's why kids aren't allowed to keep score in little league & soccer at a young age anymore....let's just have fun and not reward the winners.  YOU libs are the losers in society, don't drag those of us who want to achieve down to your level.
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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #3 on: September 01, 2011, 08:10:53 AM »
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Should I feel like some kind of talentless slacker

Considering you are, yes.  Yes, you should.
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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #4 on: September 01, 2011, 08:12:01 AM »
No.  Just don't whine and bitch, because your low salary and crappy living condition are not the fault of some nameless rich person.


Did he find another job he is going to be fired from for failing his drug test or is he still jobless because he got fired for failing his drug test?
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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #5 on: September 01, 2011, 08:15:28 AM »
Did he find another job he is going to be fired from for failing his drug test or is he still jobless because he got fired for failing his drug test?

I think he's perpetually jobless.  He might get a job then fail the drug test, then rinse & repeat.  At least that's what he keeps posting at the DUmp.
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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #6 on: September 01, 2011, 08:43:51 AM »
As if you needed to ask who would post a thread like that...

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=105x9771647

It's not necessary to try to be the best, but having a dash of self-respect would make a lot of difference to your life.

Without reading the thread, I can tell you that the first sentence is why this loser is never going to amount to anything.  People like this douche should be barred from sucking on the government teat.
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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #7 on: September 01, 2011, 08:46:07 AM »
Taverner, you may not be on "TiT" level of lying, but you are pretty damn good at it. Buck up...
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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #8 on: September 01, 2011, 08:56:23 AM »
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Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?

This has something to do with winning DOTY.  The taverner primitive is an idiot, but he realizes that edging out nadin is going to take more effort, and he just doesn't have what it takes.

Com'n taverner primitive, you say really stupid things day in and day out.  You're still in the running.  Don't give up just yet.

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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #9 on: September 01, 2011, 08:59:04 AM »
I think he's perpetually jobless.  He might get a job then fail the drug test, then rinse & repeat.  At least that's what he keeps posting at the DUmp.

Posting at the DUmp about one's problems is far easier than facing them and then overcoming them...

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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #10 on: September 01, 2011, 09:00:14 AM »
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Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
 Should I feel like some kind of talentless slacker because I just want do do

If you want do do, and do a do do job, don't complain when you receive do do.
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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #11 on: September 01, 2011, 09:10:38 AM »
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7. No, in fact you've touched on one thing that's wrong with our society.
 
EVERYBODY can't be above average, except in Lake Woebegon.

We should be more accepting of the average, the so-so, etc. "mediocre" shouldn't be a put-down.

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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #12 on: September 01, 2011, 09:14:36 AM »
Sounds like the DUmmie should join the union. It's the only chance he has at ever holding a job and making a living.

While I was in business, I was known as the best, not the cheapest and people waited for me to do their work. With the attitude the DUmmie has, any business adventure he starts will fail and any job he gets, he will get fire.....and we'll hear how "THE MAN" is holding him down.
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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #13 on: September 01, 2011, 09:22:50 AM »
If you want do do, and do a do do job, don't complain when you receive do do.
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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #14 on: September 01, 2011, 09:31:03 AM »
Being selfish and unable to function in a work environment normally is something inherent to the island swimmers character en masse.  The logical excuses are usually two fold.  It's someone else's fault and it's because they don't try.  This has a ring of both excuses.

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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #15 on: September 01, 2011, 09:48:50 AM »
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9. What about your personal best?

Maybe you aren't Top 10 or whatever at whatever.

Are you doing the best that *you* can do?

Do you ask the best of the people around you? Your surgeon. The guy helping you carry the couch up the stairs. The employee cleaning the bathroom at the restaurant you're going to eat at.

No one of us is insignificant. That means we all have an impact on each other. That means we owe each other our best. Not for ourselves or self-enrichment but because the people whose lives we touch are our family, friends and neighbors.

This primitive starts out on the right foot, but then falls off the track at the end.

I agree, do the best you personally can do.  But the motivation is to benefit yourself and your family, and the extention of that is it will help others.  But I don't owe other people my best from the standpoint that if I do my best the nuclear unicorn primitive might on down the road benefit.  I don't give a flip about the nuclear unicorn primitive.  I do my best because it benefits me and my family.

Now, enter what liberals would like the USA to be and it changes everything.  Why do my best when some bleeding heart will see I get what I want anyway?  As has been noted throughout the ages, make it where people have no incentive to have to try their best and they'll quickly learn that just doing enough to get by gains them the same reward.  By the time it's too late to reverse the trend, the experiment known as the USA is over.

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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #16 on: September 01, 2011, 09:58:25 AM »
Sounds like the DUmmie should join the union.

Joining a union is certainly a big step towards not being the best.

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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #17 on: September 01, 2011, 12:46:48 PM »
Joining a union is certainly a big step towards not being the best.
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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #18 on: September 01, 2011, 12:52:08 PM »
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Taverner  (1000+ posts)        Wed Aug-31-11 11:24 PM
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Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
 Should I feel like some kind of talentless slacker because I just want do do what I do, but don't give a rat's ass if I'm the best at it, but just enjoying it.

Is that so wrong?


     Taverner (I know you come here to see your name in lights), you shouldn't feel bad at all, because your best obviously sucks. You've DONE your best. It's been revealed to be NOT GOOD ENOUGH to GET a job, let alone excel in one. You have nothing to fret over insofar as excellence is concerned. That's why you're a drug addict: you need a salve for that soul-shattering fact, that you are inconsequential.

     Toke up, bro. It ain't getting any better for you.
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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #19 on: September 01, 2011, 12:56:12 PM »
No.  Just don't whine and bitch, because your low salary and crappy living condition are not the fault of some nameless rich person.



H5 for getting rid of that horrendous caveman avatar.  Bitchslap for changing it to a picture of a female gorilla.  That's hard to look at.

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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #20 on: September 01, 2011, 12:58:21 PM »
H5 for getting rid of that horrendous caveman avatar.  Bitchslap for changing it to a picture of a female gorilla.  That's hard to look at.

She's a celebrity here, lol. 

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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #21 on: September 01, 2011, 01:33:52 PM »
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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #22 on: September 01, 2011, 02:04:52 PM »
What's disturbing about Tav is he's getting high and drunk while watching the kids.  His wife doesn't seem to care.

Who wants to bet his wife is a stripper ?   

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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #23 on: September 01, 2011, 02:06:52 PM »
How old is this guy?  I thought he was in his 40's or 50's. 

Stripper?  I'm thinking meth-head.
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Re: Should I feel bad if I don't want to "be the best" at what I do?
« Reply #24 on: September 01, 2011, 02:11:40 PM »
How old is this guy?  I thought he was in his 40's or 50's. 

Stripper?  I'm thinking meth-head.

They're not mutually exclusive, lol.