Dear San Francisco
If you don't like the teachings of the Catholic church, don't be Catholic.
If you don't like the rules of a certain golf club, don't join that club.
If you spend your time being mad every time somebody or some organization disagrees with you, you probably aren't going to have a very happy life, unless you like being mad.
Oh yeah, and by the way, St. Francis of Assisi was Catholic. He didn't see eye to eye with the church on everything but he didn't try to stop the other orders within the church with which he disagreed, he started his own. He didn't spend time whining and moaning, he set an example by living by example. And it turned out there was room for him and the other orders.
Be well.
D. Nukum