It's the makeup damn it that makes the difference.
Big girls and I have known quite a few, with attention to hair and makeup can and will put us small boned woman to shame.
Romanesque I believe they are called. -----Something prime evil, large hips to bear a lot of baby's, large Brest's to feed the lot. Prime mates, Strong, and able to carry on when Mate is hunting or at war.
Men valued this in a woman in times past, and again today. Few skinny Minnie's were, unless in the upper crust of society where they could pay for a milk nurse, except to have just a few children, those that fell ill and fainted at the drop of a hat and stayed out of sight except for occasions to don the arm of their husband at a fancy ball or State affair -----Among the common life could have survived.
Being thin was what separated the wealthy from the OTHERS. Odd that some of our most notable leaders and politicians in the past had mistresses of size and wives that were thin and wasted. The wife was for show with their operations to remove lower ribs to wear corsets that made their waists about 20 inches around. Pure porcelain skin from taking a compound with arsenic in it. Some woman in the late 1800's swallowed of all things tape worm eggs to keep themselves fashionably thin.
Mean while the bouncing healthy woman with a sparkle in their eyes and a lets have fun attitude, those that had a healthy glow to their skin, had interests beyond their looks were the magnet that drew the husbands and suitors of all classes.
Happens to the best of us at times, work like a dog at the Gym, dress our best and draw the attention of other men and woman, then the dread time comes up when the boyfriend or husband runs off with a woman that is 60 pounds larger then us and can bench press 130 pounds, with a 20 pound turkey in the oven wife needs help to remove it.
Shocked woman ask " what the heck does he see in that fat woman, " More then meets the eye then being skinny.
There is a reason why Black Butt on woman attract men, a reason why men look at a large woman and know right off the bat she is a good cook.
Glad to see the big girls making a come back, now to get the fashion designers to PAY ATTENTION and the woman themselves to understand fashion. Big woman need to know how to dress to accessorise and look great without even trying to appear thin. Those pictures of Walmart customers, woman 5' 3 180 pounds wearing shorts comes to mind.
The very thin and the big girls should never wear sleeveless T. Shirts, or shorts in public if they are over 20 years old. Lots of the rules for the big girls also apply to the starving girls that make them open to ----Doesn't your family feed you ?
Best looking in my family is just one out of all the family that has big bones. She is a knock out and although her sister has a Barbi doll figure, men and boys flock to her like flies on shit, the big girl is the one that gets the serious men interested.
Big girls have a sense of humor that the on a ridged diet thin woman don't have, they are comfortable while the starving are all too concerned that they are so hungry they just don't feel like having fun. Big girls have more energy and spunk in life, as they are not obsessed with their body's, they spend less money on keeping what they call fit.
This is being written by an outsider to the Topic, extreme metabolizing in the family and we all can eat, drink a whole cow and never gain weight. Today I am as I age getting over the 125 pound mark, nothing fits, never tried to loose weight just to gain it for energy. Well that is changing and I find I have more energy now then I did at 90 pounds.
Just my observances as a bone tired woman that could be thrown in a wet sea bag and hoisted over a sailors shoulder.
