The credit industry is part of the problem. Back in 2002, we applied for a home loan without a particular house in mind just to see what our budget would be. My Wife and I had been renting for 8 years and it was time to buy. Shockingly, we were approved for 315,000 on an ARM! 100 grand on a fixed rate. Mind you our credit was terrible at this time. I honestly didn't think we would even get approved at all.
Housing prices are not terribly expensive here compared to most other places but we did the right thing and bought a home for 72,000. (Our rate was 11% and we refinanced it to 8% 3 years later and put in a kitchen) We had a choice between the red pill or the blue. If we would have bought a house for 300 grand that we couldn't possibly refinance we would have been kicked to the curb a couple years ago. I wonder what percentage of people took the red pill? Hmmmm...
Some folk just have to be livin large yo.