It truly IS all about envy . . . they covet what we have and hate us for having it.
Yes, well...
...you man probably works.
They get to come home from a gruelling day of waitressing or file clerking to see their men sitting around the house all day smoking the best weed swearing he'll get around to filing for disability but his college buddy Randy came over (btw - Randy says thanks for the choice bud) so they had to catch-up on old times like that time they scored all that sweet poon while holding signs at the pro-abortion rally...oh, and they're kind of hungry can they get $20 so they can order some Chinese, they'll get some for the ol' lady too.