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I am a Mother with a Daughter
« on: June 01, 2009, 05:34:45 PM »
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tinkerbell41 (102 posts)      Mon Jun-01-09 06:10 PM
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I am a Mother with a Daughter
 Abortion??? No question, it should be a right for any Woman to choose.
I brought my child to Planned Parenthood for Birth Control because her Primary care Physician practices abstinence only. Was it easy, yes and no. I DID NOT want to say go ahead have sex willy-nilly, I also did not want to hide my head in the sand and pretend "it" wasn't happening. I felt by taking her there I empowered her to take control of her body and life. Having a child when you are a teenager would be a prison. I want her to finish College, make something of herself and have independence. Hormones are uncontrollable as we all know, and one bad decision can lead to a lifetime of misery.
Until Men are held to the same standards, morally, socially, ethically, Abortion must be legal.
No matter how many arguments and cases that point to the contrary the burden of having a child ALWAYS falls to the woman. Until the people that scream "Baby Killer" step forward to take care of all those children born to Women ill equipped to handle Motherhood Abortion must be legal. I refuse
to force my Daughter to have a child when they don't have a chance at being financially stable.
Regardless of if she's mature enough to raise one. If her boyfriends parents wish to have a say, then they would unequivically make sure he WOULD be there, financially, emotionally,and physically.
Child Support doesn't even enter into it. Just because you pay someone a fixed amt every week, that doesn't even begin to cover the emotional, mental and physical toll. It is my body, that must house a being for 9 mos. My job that will take a hit, my life on hold. It is I that will be subjected to stares, gossip, if I am single. My education that will be disrupted. It is my choice


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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #1 on: June 01, 2009, 06:08:54 PM »
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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #2 on: June 01, 2009, 06:11:09 PM »
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Child Support doesn't even enter into it. Just because you pay someone a fixed amt every week, that doesn't even begin to cover the emotional, mental and physical toll.
Well, DUmmie, if raising a child is that much of a burden, then why did you do it?  Abortion was legal when your child was born, so why bother?


 It is my body, that must house a being for 9 mos. My job that will take a hit, my life on hold. It is I that will be subjected to stares, gossip, if I am single. My education that will be disrupted. It is my choice.
Yes, it was also your choice to have unprotected sex. Making that bad choice would give you the right to murder an unborn child?

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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #3 on: June 01, 2009, 06:14:11 PM »
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tinkerbell41 (102 posts)      Mon Jun-01-09 06:10 PM
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I am a Mother with a Daughter
 Abortion??? No question, it should be a right for any Woman to choose.
I brought my child to Planned Parenthood for Birth Control because her Primary care Physician practices abstinence only. Was it easy, yes and no. I DID NOT want to say go ahead have sex willy-nilly, I also did not want to hide my head in the sand and pretend "it" wasn't happening. I felt by taking her there I empowered her to take control of her body and life. Having a child when you are a teenager would be a prison. I want her to finish College, make something of herself and have independence. Hormones are uncontrollable as we all know, and one bad decision can lead to a lifetime of misery.

Bullshit. Just because you can't turn hormones off doesn't mean that they have to run your life. My wife would kill me at least once per month if she didn't have some semblance of control.

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Until Men are held to the same standards, morally, socially, ethically, Abortion must be legal.
No matter how many arguments and cases that point to the contrary the burden of having a child ALWAYS falls to the woman. Until the people that scream "Baby Killer" step forward to take care of all those children born to Women ill equipped to handle Motherhood Abortion must be legal.

You mean like Care-net (linky) and many churches throughout the country who help women who choose NOT to murder their innocent unborn baby?
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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #4 on: June 01, 2009, 06:33:27 PM »
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I brought my child to Planned Parenthood for Birth Control ..... I DID NOT want to say go ahead have sex willy-nilly

But that's exactly what you did, DUmmy. Another generation of skank is well on her way.

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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #5 on: June 01, 2009, 06:54:27 PM »
I am the mother of a daughter too and this view is preposterous. The woman admits her concern is over nothing more then finances. Guess it's good for her daughter she wasn't so financially prudent when she got pregnant huh? I think there are too many unwed pregnancies too, but that is a cultural problem that goes hand in hand with the devaluing of life in general and the relative morality that inhabits the left like in the OP's post. Shameful.

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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #6 on: June 01, 2009, 06:56:09 PM »
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Child Support doesn't even enter into it. Just because you pay someone a fixed amt every week, that doesn't even begin to cover the emotional, mental and physical toll. It is my body, that must house a being for 9 mos. My job that will take a hit, my life on hold. It is I that will be subjected to stares, gossip, if I am single. My education that will be disrupted. It is my choice

Nevermind the toll it takes on the unborn.  :censored: And since when did these fools care about the "stares and gossip as a single pregnant woman"? Aren't they all about doing whatever floats your boat? And how many moms manage to juggle kids, a job AND school?

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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #7 on: June 01, 2009, 07:37:40 PM »
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It is my body, that must house a being for 9 mos. My job that will take a hit, my life on hold. It is I that will be subjected to stares, gossip, if I am single. My education that will be disrupted. It is my choice.


Uh, I think it WAS your choice, skank.

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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #8 on: June 01, 2009, 07:40:58 PM »
Abortion has always been about having sex with no responsibility and the person writing the screed admits it.

Leftist thinking destroyed the traditional family and with it went the stigma to not have sex "willy nilly".


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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #9 on: June 01, 2009, 08:06:40 PM »
Bullshit. Just because you can't turn hormones off doesn't mean that they have to run your life. My wife would kill me at least once per month if she didn't have some semblance of control.

You mean like Care-net (linky) and many churches throughout the country who help women who choose NOT to murder their innocent unborn baby?
One of their most pathetic lies.   ::)  Every community of any size has a pregnancy center that will assist with everything before the birth, and a lot after.  My church has a donation box set up almost all the time for things like diapers and formula.  You know, the stuff for AFTER the birth.  The DUmpMonkeys have to work pretty hard to ignore all that is done to save the lives of innocent children.   ::)

(Not to mention the simple fact that, as Grandma, she could actually HELP her kid.   PRO-LIFE people help their own kids raise the grandkids!!)
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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #10 on: June 01, 2009, 08:43:05 PM »
One of their most pathetic lies.   ::)  Every community of any size has a pregnancy center that will assist with everything before the birth, and a lot after.  My church has a donation box set up almost all the time for things like diapers and formula.  You know, the stuff for AFTER the birth.  The DUmpMonkeys have to work pretty hard to ignore all that is done to save the lives of innocent children.   ::)

(Not to mention the simple fact that, as Grandma, she could actually HELP her kid.   PRO-LIFE people help their own kids raise the grandkids!!)

You have stated the facts of reality but unfortunately there are several points that a DUmmy will not do.

They are not just atheists or pseudo christians....they have a hatred for anything to do with God that is spawned by their master.

They are the most selfish,self absorbed bunch of losers to walk the country...they would never think of sacrificing a thing but would rather spend their every breathing moment screeching about how unfair life is and how terrible it is that they aren`t supported by the public.

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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #11 on: June 01, 2009, 09:06:36 PM »
New here and love the site.  I have been observing for a couple of months now and really enjoy the DUmmies!  I am suprised no one has pointed out what I think is the highlight of the post. 

No matter how many arguments and cases that point to the contrary the burden of having a child ALWAYS falls to the woman.

Is that not typical  :lalala:

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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #12 on: June 01, 2009, 09:21:32 PM »
New here and love the site.  I have been observing for a couple of months now and really enjoy the DUmmies!  I am suprised no one has pointed out what I think is the highlight of the post. 

No matter how many arguments and cases that point to the contrary the burden of having a child ALWAYS falls to the woman.

Is that not typical  :lalala:

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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #13 on: June 01, 2009, 09:22:56 PM »
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It is my body, that must house a being for 9 mos.

There you have it folks, she just admitted that abortion is murder.

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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #14 on: June 01, 2009, 09:29:29 PM »
I am a mother with sons.  

I tell my son, before you have sex with a woman, you have to stop and think "Do I trust this woman with the life of my child?  Am I prepared to be committed to this woman for the rest of my life? ".   She will have all the rights and you will have none.  She will have the power to kill your child if she wants to.  She will have the power to refuse your love and you if she that's what she wants, but you will still be connected to her for life if a child is conceived... and no method of birth control other than abstinence is 100%.   When you have sex with her you are possibly giving her tremendous power over your life.  Please choose very carefully.




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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #15 on: June 01, 2009, 10:23:29 PM »
oh she knows its a being, she knows its murder, but her convenience comes first

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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #16 on: June 01, 2009, 11:45:39 PM »
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tinkerbell41 (102 posts)      Mon Jun-01-09 06:10 PM
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I am a Mother with a Daughter


Is she hot?

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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #18 on: June 02, 2009, 06:31:37 AM »
She's easy.

That's what paper bags are for . . .  :uhsure:

I was reading this thread last night, and my wife called me over to observe our daughter play with the magnets that are on the refrigerator.  She was utterly fascinated with them, and she'd put them so that one could easily read whatever writing was on them.  I said to my wife, "I don't see how anyone could be pro-abortion after watching a child discover things like this."

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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #19 on: June 02, 2009, 06:50:29 AM »
I am a mother with sons.  

I tell my son, before you have sex with a woman, you have to stop and think "Do I trust this woman with the life of my child?  Am I prepared to be committed to this woman for the rest of my life? ".   She will have all the rights and you will have none.  She will have the power to kill your child if she wants to.  She will have the power to refuse your love and you if she that's what she wants, but you will still be connected to her for life if a child is conceived... and no method of birth control other than abstinence is 100%.   When you have sex with her you are possibly giving her tremendous power over your life.  Please choose very carefully.





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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #20 on: June 02, 2009, 09:27:59 AM »
Bullshit. Just because you can't turn hormones off doesn't mean that they have to run your life. My wife would kill me at least once per month if she didn't have some semblance of control.
You mean like Care-net (linky) and many churches throughout the country who help women who choose NOT to murder their innocent unborn baby?


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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #21 on: June 02, 2009, 11:31:15 AM »
You are a very wise woman.  I would hi5 you if I could!

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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #22 on: June 02, 2009, 11:36:16 AM »
I've been wodering, did we stop the practice? What's up?

there's a thread at the bottom of the board explaining it. (sort of)

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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #23 on: June 02, 2009, 01:44:47 PM »

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tinkerbell41 (102 posts)      Mon Jun-01-09 06:10 PM
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I am a Mother with a Daughter
 Abortion??? No question, it should be a right for any Woman to choose.
I brought my child to Planned Parenthood for Birth Control because her Primary care Physician practices abstinence only.


WTF? I'm calling bullsh*t on the whole thing.

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Re: I am a Mother with a Daughter
« Reply #24 on: June 02, 2009, 04:21:39 PM »
Until Men are held to the same standards, morally, socially, ethically, Abortion must be legal.

Men are held accountable....Tell me how many young men are falsely accused of rape when there was no actual sex with the lady? (Duke rape case comes to mind)......How many young men aren't even allowed to have a say in the birth of their child?.......(crickets) Does this mean that all men are responsible? No, but don't make a post that drips with sanctimonious, better than you attitude when the "victim" is an innocent baby.


Until the people that scream "Baby Killer" step forward to take care of all those children born to Women ill equipped to handle Motherhood

We do.....in my church we have the Gabriel Project which not only pays for the mother to carry the child until birth, but also assists with food and shelter, formal education, and counseling. Guess what? 8 out of 10 keep their child in a productive environment. The remaining 2 are put up for adoption. Don't give me the tripe, "Oh, that's great, but their are so many children of color that white people won't adopt!" Bovine feces......I have seen too many couples, black, white, yellow, and brown that are over joyed just to have a child to raise as their own, particularly older, pre-teen children. There are tons of couples who are barren and would love to raise children, but adoption procedures are cumbersome at best.

As to the bilge that special need children are burdens......you better think again.....Couples are out there that are ready, willing and able to care for special needs children. Sarah Palin is an example that comes to mind.

Abortion is murder pure and simple
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