My neighbor owns a Toyota dealership and his wife gets a new car every 6 months. She had the maroon FJ when they first came out but with their busy schedule (a 10 yo and a 16 yo both playing a lot of sports) it didn't really fit in, she's had a couple of 4 runners and has always seemed happy with them.
My wife and I have a '74 Landcruiser and I would love to get the Black TRD edition FJ to compliment it, however we need to replace Mrs. RC's Tahoe first and again I just don't think the FJ is much of a family vehicle.
If I was single I wouldn't have bought my '07 Camry, it would have been a FJ (yes I got it from my neighbor)