Apology accepted, vesta--but for future reference, please try to separate the opinions of others from those of yourself to help alleviate confusion.
Thank you Sparky, YOU are a true gentleman.
Now back on topic, this poor woman is being used by others and in couraged to think the worse. They pay her expenses to travel about mouthing the words that others have put in her mouth. Would she alone without people that fawn over her, use her for their agenda and keep her maternal instincts alive and angry allowed herself in the first place to to be used?
At this point I suspect she has had her grief jumbled by those that want to keep her angry and confused. The question is, at this time has she moved beyond grief into the crazy world of people that manual her, use her for their own purposes.
Or has she grown use to the attention, does she feed on the attention and find she needs it to survive??
It brings to mind the [ Balloon Boy] People that use their own children to advance their career, living or dead.---------------