What I meant to say is that the story has been going on for a while. My main point is that there was more to it than just the judge saying that. Another parent actually pushed this.
1) Was the daughter in serious jeopardy from the father's action?
2) What authority does the court have to intervene in a parent-child relationship?
3) Why are the courts inserting themselves in a spat between fomer spuses on how to best discipline a child?
All you're telling me so far is the court has become the tool of vindictive ex-wives and has totally destroyed reasonable parenting.