Mineral Man is losing it..
https://www.democraticunderground.com/100212645304What to do with nude or explicit photos when a relationship ends?
It's simple. If they are of the other person, you hand them over to that person to do with as the other person wishes. If they are of the two of you, you destroy them and let the other person know that you did. If they are of you, do whatever you wish with them.
There are no other alternatives. You don't hold them over the other person as blackmail material. You don't make them public to embarrass or harm the other person.
You were in a relationship. It ended. That happens. At one time, you liked that person, at least, so you owe that person at least to not harm him or her when the relationship ends.
I do not understand any other action in such a situation. Even if the relationship ended badly or you were left hurting, the relationship existed and deserves respect for its existence.
I've been in that situation, and did as I described above. I couldn't imagine doing anything else.
I don't get it when people do hurtful things in such circumstances. I never will get it.