Really, I don't know what she's so upset about. Vacation sex is like "birthday sex" just part of marriage. Doesn't mean it can't be fun, great, romantic, whatever she's looking for. You'd think she'd be thrilled her husband was still interested in her and it doesn't mean they can't do the hand holding, cuddling stuff. Maybe he'd feel more like the touchy-feely stuff if she'd put out once in a while. If it were me, I'd be going to Victoria's Secret to buy fun lingerie.
Cindie